All in all though I think single moms have it better than ever before dating honestly, and a lot of that I believe is because of lack of male influence in the household. If I were to get serious with a single mom in here mid 20's most of the women in my family would cosign it without hesitation. My mom kinda #hoh so she might hit me with a
but most of the women in my family, would be saying that's great you stepping up where another man didn't blah blah blah.
However, my pops a male influence in my life who know these bs ass games females like to play would clown me endlessly for it. Because as a male he understands our psyche better than women.
"You going to raise another nikkas child
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"Homeboy probably hitting right now
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"Her cell phone bill just cut out or something
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A lot of women look down on this as hypermasculinity as if women aren't capable of ulterior motives
But other men "get it" and why it comes with that stigma that it does. Unfortunately we have a generation of men getting raised by women and have been warped into thinking this is normal and this is OK, and if you don't follow that you're a misogynistic pos. But that maybe too real for some of y'all.
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