Why do some men believe dating a single mom is simping

[Marco Zen]

Cut it out. If you are ok with dating a single mom and helping raise her child, its admirable. But don't try to make the rest of us out to be immature cuz we don't want to take care of a child that probably will never look at you like their parent.

Worrying about the baby's father is insecure, childish and immature.

Being convinced that whoever a woman has a child with has a life long free Come Hit It card with her is ridiculous childish and highly insecure...

Worrying about what a child is thinking and who and how a CHILD sees parenting is sadly CHILDish and slightly insecure..

If not wanting to date a woman with kids is your thing that's cool and there's nothing wrong with it we all have our preferences...

But again...


Only grown ass men are capable of dating single moms.

The truth hurts.

 

[Neuromancer]

Some of them single moms ain't want good dudes until they are single moms and fukked. They ain't want you in their prime, ie early 20s, body on point, no stretch marks, baby fat etc.

This is a very good point. No one wants to be a second choice after the other person is in a bad way. Who wants to be a contingency plan?

 

[Neuromancer]

Worrying about the baby's father is insecure, childish and immature.

Being convinced that whoever a woman has a child with has a life long free Come Hit It card with her is ridiculous childish and highly insecure...

Worrying about what a child is thinking and who and how a CHILD sees parenting is sadly CHILDish and slightly insecure..

If not wanting to date a woman with kids is your thing that's cool and there's nothing wrong with it we all have our preferences...

But again...


Only grown ass men are capable of dating single moms.

The truth hurts.

This seems an awful lot like shaming and not so much truth.

 

[MalikX]

The insecurity in you nikkaz is phenomenal!



Only grown ass men are capable of dating single moms.


Little boys call it simping.

I'm so glad people are starting to ignore the bullshyt that was typed above

Only grown men are capable of dating someone who made terrible life choices and now has baggage Also, someone who likely wouldn't date you if she didn't have kids. fukk her. Get back with the child's father and make it work.

 

[Youseenmywork]

I'm 32 and don't want to mess with single mother ...I've been told I'm a bad person for this

 

[Neuromancer]

I'm 32 and don't want to mess with single mother ...I've been told I'm a bad person for this

This is my issue. Why should anyone shame anyone into accepting something they don't want to. That's like shaming a woman into dating a man she doesn't like. It's not cool .

 

[Afro]

This seems an awful lot like shaming and not so much truth.

Their soul is burning right now. Yall struck a nerve.

But yea sure raise another man's seed with your own resources

 

[dc007]

Worrying about the baby's father is insecure, childish and immature.

Being convinced that whoever a woman has a child with has a life long free Come Hit It card with her is ridiculous childish and highly insecure...

Worrying about what a child is thinking and who and how a CHILD sees parenting is sadly CHILDish and slightly insecure..

If not wanting to date a woman with kids is your thing that's cool and there's nothing wrong with it we all have our preferences...

But again...


Only grown ass men are capable of dating single moms.

The truth hurts.

OK breh you prefer single moms, cool. Go ahead and spend your resources on kids not related to you. Ignore a lifelong bond to a man that isn't you, from your life partner. Have a child in your household that you can't fully discipline because its not your own.

I'll stick to the more sexually responsible women and raise my own family.

 

[Marco Zen]

Only grown men are capable of dating someone who made terrible life choices and now has baggage?

Yes.

Also, someone who likely wouldn't date you if she didn't have kids.

Actually no... I'm good looking (so I've been told my whole life).. I'm smooth and I get money.. Most chicks go when it comes to me. Including the bad ones. Including the bad ones with no kids.

Get back with the child's father and make it work.

Some nikkaz spend a great deal of time and energy worried about the "child's father"...

I'm a grown man. ...I don't.

 

[Marco Zen]

OK breh you prefer single moms, cool. Go ahead and spend your resources on kids not related to you. Ignore a lifelong bond to a man that isn't you, from your life partner. Have a child in your household that you can't fully discipline because its not your own.

I'll stick to the more sexually responsible women and raise my own family.

Ok let's assume all these things say are from your own personal experience and not just speculation. ....And let's assume its definitely not insecurity about yourself as a man.


Either way... Do your thing playa.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Why voluntarily date a woman with kids if you don't have any of your own? For me, a lot of it's an ego thing. If I have a family, I want it to be MY family. Not in the business of raising another man's kid when a lot of these chicks don't have any.

Of course a single mom is going to display herself as this perfect unicorn. She isn't stupid, she realizes that her market value with a child has severely diminished so to have a chance she has to come off as near perfect/receptive. Bet she wasn't like that before the kid..

Lol a lot of chicks don't have any. where?

 

[pop]

I'm 32 and don't want to mess with single mother ...I've been told I'm a bad person for this

It's especially bad for a black man to say this because of how normal it is in our communities. I said I wasn't into single moms one time in early twenties and you would have thought I said I was a child molester. shyt is crazy and infuriating. These bytches spend their best years curbing good dudes and fukking one aint shyt nikka to the next until they get used up, fat, and pregnant, and than they have the nerve to call you immature for not wanting to clean up their mess.

 

[dc007]

Ok let's assume all these things say are from your own personal experience and not just speculation. ....And let's assume its definitely not insecurity about yourself as a man.


Either way... Do your thing playa.

You keep saying the same thing....its not insecurity its the reality of the situation. Its nothing wrong with choosing that lifestyle if you want

But if you think this is just speculation, and you have experience disciplining kids that aren't yours from the single moms you date.....they don't have good parents and are exactly the stereotype the other posters are saying about having fun with dudes who ain't shyt and getting pregnant

 

[DrX]

That's for dudes with no options, I'm not raising somebody's kid....lol fukk outta here

 

[DrX]

It's especially bad for a black man to say this because of how normal it is in our communities. I said I wasn't into single moms one time in early twenties and you would have thought I said I was a child molester. shyt is crazy and infuriating. These bytches spend their best years curbing good dudes and fukking one aint shyt nikka to the next until they get used up, fat, and pregnant, and than they have the nerve to call you immature for not wanting to clean up their mess.

Yup....100