Why do some men believe dating a single mom is simping

[Crayola Coyote]

You're taking care of another mans mistake

 

[Marco Zen]

Claiming kids that aint yours but then when ya'll break up they are no longer in your life seems like some sucker shyt.

Everything has its price.

 

[Mr210]

I've dated women with and without kids. I personally have no issues with it, the exception being I will not date a woman with a kid less than 10

 

[Marco Zen]

My pops did it and thank god he did cause I had 2 great parents and my brother who is his stepson loves him to death also. My mom wasn't struggling when they met but he was a HUGE upgrade over her baby dad (my brothers father).

Basically she went from dating a future to Russel Wilson.

Do you but the situation gotta be right. Don't throw away a great woman cause there is a child that ain't yours involved. I agree 100% it works better when the child's father isn't involved or lives outta state or in prison. If dude live 2 blocks away you're fukked. You also gotta be an upgrade over dude. She gotta look at you and know there ain't no comparison to the previous.

Knowmsayin.

 

[RoGethoes]

Play another nikkas saved game brehs...

 

[semicko82]

It's especially bad for a black man to say this because of how normal it is in our communities. I said I wasn't into single moms one time in early twenties and you would have thought I said I was a child molester. shyt is crazy and infuriating. These bytches spend their best years curbing good dudes and fukking one aint shyt nikka to the next until they get used up, fat, and pregnant, and than they have the nerve to call you immature for not wanting to clean up their mess.

 

[010101]

if the p*ssy good it's good
cuffing ass nikkas got all the problems jahahahahaa

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[dc007]

Single moms don't get that much hate offline. I personally know dozens in serious relationships and new marriages. I think it's Just one of those hot button topics to guarantee a long thread here, kind of like with pawgs, bedwenches, and nonsense

Its nothing wrong with it if you want to take on that responsibility, and I don't think offline guys who get into relationships with single moms get much hate about it. Just thinking logically about it why would you get into that type of situation if you felt you could do better?

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

I'm 32 and don't want to mess with single mother ...I've been told I'm a bad person for this

shyt I'm a bad person too

 

[Canon]

Single moms don't get that much hate offline. I personally know dozens in serious relationships and new marriages.

and thats the problem

 

[Woman of god]

Its nothing wrong with it if you want to take on that responsibility, and I don't think offline guys who get into relationships with single moms get much hate about it. Just thinking logically about it why would you get into that type of situation if you felt you could do better?

There's a difference between saying "no thank you that's not for me but best of luck to you " and saying "single mothers are stupid degenerate women unworthy of love." The first category is totally fine

The whole "why would u get into that situation if u thought you could do better" question implies that there is something inherently negative about being a single mom. It's also one of those things where if you ask it enough you might end up realizing that ur looking for literal perfection. Why would you date a chubby woman if you thought u could do better? Why would you date a woman who can't cook if u could do better? Why would u date a woman who can't grow her hair long if you can do better? Single moms certainly aren't perfect. They have flaws like everyone. But the fact that they have kids and are unwed isn't the indicator of that.

 

[Woman of god]

and thats the problem

If it were a problem it would be a problem for the new man. Long as they're happy it's not really a concern for the masses

 

[Canon]

If it were a problem it would be a problem for the new man. Long as they're happy it's not really a concern for the masses

nah its a problem for the masses because these bytches need to face the consequences of there horrid decision making

let the next generation know

 

[dc007]

There's a difference between saying "no thank you that's not for me but best of luck to you " and saying "single mothers are stupid degenerate women unworthy of love." The first category is totally fine

The whole "why would u get into that situation if u thought you could do better" question implies that there is something inherently negative about being a single mom. It's also one of those things where if you ask it enough you might end up realizing that ur looking for literal perfection. Why would you date a chubby woman if you thought u could do better? Why would you date a woman who can't cook if u could do better? Why would u date a woman who can't grow her hair long if you can do better? Single moms certainly aren't perfect. They have flaws like everyone. But the fact that they have kids and are unwed isn't the indicator of that.

I agree that saying "single moms are unworthy of love" is taking it too far. But as far as the other points, its all about what you find important. Nobody is perfect, but asking somebody to take on the responsibility of a child that isn't theirs is a lot to ask for and totally diff than the other examples you used. There are a lot of guys out here who will, and also a ton of single dads out here who would look silly having a no child policy, that would choose single moms.

 

[SuperNintendo Chalmers]

Never take real life relationship advice from internet weirdos.