I agree 1000%, but Black people are unconscious to their condition, these women live in a reality with men who are preying on them, lying to them, telling them whatever they need to hear in order for them to lie down with them.
you can't wake Black people up with nice words and by playing on their sympathy, because the Black community does not respond to that.
this is why I say Tommy's approach works because it actually gets the attention of Black people and forces them to try and refute what he's saying about them, and in order for them to refute his points, they have to examine themselves and see shyt for what it really is.
Black women wearing blonde hair and contacts in front of their daughters is ruining our daughters, but the Black women wearing blonde hair and blue contacts see NOTHING wrong with it because all the other Black women around them are doing the exact same thing, and no one is pointing it out as something wrong, especially not the men in those communities, because they're just trying to have sex with these women, no matter what color her hair is.
I know the root causes of these dysfunctional behaviors stems from the atrocities that white people committed against us, but the actual dysfunctional people in our communities do NOT, and many of them simply do not care to know, because regardless of how things got this way, it's the way things are, and that's what their realities are based on.
Tommy's not perfect, but at least he gets conversations started in the Black communities, even if that conversation is centered around how destructive his methods are, it leads to examining the behaviors he's speaking against.