Why do we associate fatherlessness with crime and dysfunction?

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Lol @ u thinking being respectable is only about "being good for the white man"

That's the real brainwashing.

I just used that as one example. Its plenty more ways that lesson is taught. Which is the entire premise of this thread. Dysfunction, crime, bad decision making etc
Nothing wrong with being respectable but you dont beat your kids into respect.
 

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Everything you said is demonstrably false.. :gucci:you trolling, man?

Only on the internet do you see ppl go so hard trying to defend dysfunction family households . Irl, it isnt that sweet
You really gonna sit here and say that the majority of black people don't have a relationship with their father? :unimpressed:

That most black men don't contribute the care of their children? :unimpressed:
 

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Y'all nikkas have a very twist idea of fatherhood and parenting.

If you think any of that shyt you posted is an examples of healthy father - son relationships then idk what to tell you

You don't beat respect and love into a child :dahell:
Did you have a relationship with your dad?

Men need to be beat, or else they end up being weak nikkas that fear pain.

Every fight me and my dad ever had made us closer in the long run.
 

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You really gonna sit here and say that the majority of black people don't have a relationship with their father? :unimpressed:

That most black men don't contribute the care of their children? :unimpressed:


If you think back to grade school.. How many of your good friends had fathers at home?

Out of ten of mine, i can only remember 3 n
 

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Nothing wrong with being respectable but you dont beat your kids into respect.

Sometimes that's the only way. Especially if you're dealing with boys.

You can either pop him and tell him stay away from the stove and itll hurt a little bit for a short while or wait til he tests the stove and gets 2nd degree burns.
 

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If you think back to grade school.. How many of your good friends had fathers at home?

Out of ten of mine, i can only remember 3 n
Most had a mom and dad at home

Some had single fathers

And the rest had single moms

I say it was about 60% both parents at home

I
 

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Did you have a relationship with your dad?

Men need to be beat, or else they end up being weak nikkas that fear pain.

Every fight me and my dad ever had made us closer in the long run.
Lmao my dad used to kick me out the house at night when I was 10. I used to be cold and scared than a bytch trying to stand in the street lights cause I was scared of the dark.

He beat my ass and was a very strict man. He was as stiff as you could find them.

Only thing that did was make me resent the nikka :russ:
 

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And having a dad you only see once a week or a month is better than nothing, but not by much...

And it's definitely not the same as having to share a household with a stiff father.
Having an authoritarian father is terrible nikka lol
 

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You hate to see it :francis:
 

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Having an authoritarian father is terrible nikka lol
Depends you either break or come out stronger.

I know for sure I came out stronger and it laid the basis for me to be as successful as I am today.

Edit: Nvm just seen your other post
 

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Person A proves that it wasn't just an idiotic statement from lack of information. He's actually an idiot who doesn't know how to Google something in 2019.


You hate to see it :francis:
Ye you've never been around academia
 

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Depends you either break or come out stronger.

I know for sure I came out stronger and it laid the basis for me to be as successful as I am today.

Edit: Nvm just seen your other post
He gave me good life skills and it allowed me to do well for myself

But it also gave me a deep disdain for authority and I don't fukk with authoritative people at all
 

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He gave me good life skills and it allowed me to do well for myself

But it also gave me a deep disdain for authority and I don't fukk with authoritative people at all
How old are you? Because I went through the same thing with disliking authority. But I grew out of it.

And don't take the life skills he gave you for granted, because all the most successful men I know had authoritarian father's, some of them don't really fukk with their dads to this day, but they never deny that their dad gave them the base to reach success.
 
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