Why do we blame single mothers for their situation?

[Yinny]

It takes two, getting pregnant and carrying to term in 2021 is a decision or willful negligence on both sides then one side. I have no advice or genuine concern but people need to be real with themselves. If single parenting are your values, then that’s what you’ll live with. Life goes on.

 

[semicko82]

This is a black site(kind of)

I got some swamp land to sell you in Arizona

 

[SheWantTheD]

Vitriol

 

[Red Shield]

but anyway...a kid isn't an easybake oven cake.... a kid doesn't just pop out after 5minutes. it takes 7-9 months to grow and be born..

they get the blame because their the ones who decide whether to have the kid or not. and they have plenty of options to see to it that the kid doesn't come into existence.



and let's not bs.. this ain't the 60s/70s... most chicks know when a dude ain't gonna stick around but have the kid anyway. and then bytch n moan that they gotta be a single parent. When it was obvious it was gonna happen and completely avoidable

 

[Michael's Black Son]

Aren’t the men at fault for not staying to build a family? Why so much anger and vitryall towards women doing their best to raise kids alone.

becuase the Internet

 

[Michael's Black Son]

Because sex doesn't happen unless they open their legs

this is the answer

 

[Hungerpain]

Because its 100% their fault and they dont deserve the help they receive.
Luckily for them the system has they back and will never truly let them fail.

 

[num123]

Women choose who they have sex with.

Women can choose to abort the child, even against the father's wishes.

Women are incentivized to legally withhold access to children from their father for more child support, govt benefits and for a troubling amount a weapon against them.

 

[Prince.Skeletor]

Women choose who they have sex with.

Women can choose whether to abort the child, even against the father's wishes.

Women are incentivized to legally withhold access to children from their father for more child support, govt benefits and for a troubling amount a weapon against them.

What if someone made a Fox News thread with Tucker Carlson saying what you saying.
How would you reply?

 

[KingJay]

there are usually multiple people at fault
situations vary wildly
it's stupid to evaluate everything the same

 

[Blurneed]

Honestly I used to blame women only. But when ur in a relationship long enough u realize women need to be lead by a man because its literally just a series of bad decisions they make or about to make if you correct them at the right time. I been married for 4 years n been with my wife for 11 years total and she still dont know what she wants to eat when we order takeout.

 

[num123]

What if someone made a Fox News thread with Tucker Carlson saying what you saying.
How would you reply?

I would have no issue.

 

[Rell Lauren]

Aren’t the men at fault for not staying to build a family? Why so much anger and vitryall towards women doing their best to raise kids alone.

Women need to be more judicious in who they lay with. The burden is on them to choose good partners.

 

[threattonature]

The dudes that are deadbeats are pisses of shyt and should be treated as such.

With that said the majority of single mothers I know admit that they were fukking ain't shyt men. They'll fukk dudes that already have multiple baby mommas and then act shocked when they get knocked up and dude dips. Women definitely have to be more responsible who they lay up with.

 

[filial_piety]

Women need to be more judicious in who they lay with. The burden is on them to choose good partners.

People hate to hear it...but it's the truth. The burden is moreso on them because the consequences for them are greater then compared to men. It's the cold hard reality of the situation, and there is no arguing otherwise because regardless of how we feel that it "takes two" to make a child--the person who ultimately bares the majority of the responsibility for bringing the child into this world is on the woman.

Yes, it sucks, and yes it's wrong for a man to walk away, but that's the reality of what can happen. How things should be and how they actually are are two different arguments imo.

Now in my personal experience....alot of women (I can't quantify how many) are single moms because they are just bat shyt crazy....you can talk to them and watch their actions and instantly see why