Why do we blame single mothers for their situation?

[havoc]

A lot of them never will .

and slot of these women are on the brink of psychological breakdowns trying to mother and father these kids by themselves. I see the shyt every day.

wouldn’t wish trying to raise a kid and work full time by yourself on no one. shyt is work all day

Men aren’t going to take accountability for breaking up the family. I've been around single male associates, friends, and relatives who have family and none of them have hold themselves accountable for the broken relationship with their baby mama's. It will always be the women fault why she is single with kids.

 

[Astroslik]

Easy gold maybe plat thread

good job op

 

[Paper Boi]

I’ll be honest. I’m getting older and the thought of dating a woman with kids doesn’t bother me as much as it used to. It’s hard to find a good woman without kids the older you get.

I been talking to a single mom who’s beautiful, smart, and a great mother. Id be a fool not to be with her cuz some idiot knocked her up and ran.

you need to watch some kevin samuels.


know your worth.

 

[RareHunter]

Aren’t the men at fault for not staying to build a family? Why so much anger and vitryall towards women doing their best to raise kids alone.

They made a choice and put their body at risk. These women are jezebels these days (not all). Tbh if there is no covenant with God, the marriage is on shaky grounds anyway.

 

[saturn7]

I blame both parents equally. However, the woman bears all of the health risks and burdens of pregnancy. Should the man decide to bail and shirk his moral and legal responsibility, the mother is typically left to raise and provide for the child on her own. With that said, we can argue all day about whom to "blame", but I'm sure we can all agree that it's unwise to risk getting pregnant by a man who hasn't proven by his actions over a reasonable period of time that he'll be around to do what's right.

 

[Th3G3ntleman]

If your answer isn't both parties are equally at fault you've lost.

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

 

[Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam]

Both are to blame

But the nice guy who wanted a relationship and marriage to build a family was overlooked.

The guy she chose didn't commit to her, fukked her raw and sometimes has other children. She then wishes herself happy father's day on Facebook every year.

 

[filial_piety]

Outside of death of a spouse/baby daddy...I'd say 95% of the time being a single mom could have been avoided by these moms

 

[Vandelay]

It's a mutual fukk up.

There needs to be accountability on the woman for letting any dude nut in her raw, especially...ESPECIALLY when she has multiple kids. But on the converse stop treating nikkas who bust and run with kid gloves.

There isn't any mutual accountability in the black community in regards to this or it wouldn't continue to happen for generations.

 

[PL368Z]

Abortion exist for a reason, don't have the capability to rise children alone, don't have them.

 

[EndDomination]

The men deserve 50% of the blame, and more if they played it like they wanted to raise the kid(s).

One of my high school friends had a *fine* ass older cousin who was definitely a star student with bird tendencies - but when she found her college boyfriend and got pregnant, we all watched her get sweet-talked. He immediately dipped on her after promising her that family life and even going through with an engagement.

Its a fairly common story

Even if I didn't fukk with the woman I would absolutely still take full parental responsibilities and do right by my kids. The "mother is trying to keep the father away" story is largely nonsense, every man I know actually going through that is fighting for his rights instead of whining on Facebook about it

 

[BK The Great]

Both need to accountable. One for the woman who let the dude nut in her raw and get impregnated and two for the man who made a bad choice not strapping up.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Most of the time, the fathers weren’t responsible, accomplished men in the first place.


The women knew what they were dealing with, but still chose to have unprotected sex anyway. It’s a woman’s job to protect her body.

I’m not excusing the men AT ALL, and I will get in these threads about men smashing raw all the time and post this:

Short term gratification vs long term consequences

But ultimately, the women bare more responsibility, because they have to carry the baby, take time off work, etc.

 

[FcKuPaYmE]

I heard the ugly and fat ones do it to let the public know somebody is fukking them.