Why do we blame single mothers for their situation?

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Look at E.Badu.

She got 4+ kids by different dudes and nobody is going "Look at this poor single mother"

She chose to do it and owns up to it.

Accountability and most, not all,,women is almost an oxymoron when it comes to personal choices...so they may default to being a victim to save face and protect their "value".

We all know that one person that is joking/not joking about trapping a lawyer or athlete with a kid.
 

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I’ll be honest. I’m getting older and the thought of dating a woman with kids doesn’t bother me as much as it used to. It’s hard to find a good woman without kids the older you get.

I been talking to a single mom who’s beautiful, smart, and a great mother. Id be a fool not to be with her cuz some idiot knocked her up and ran.
 

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Aren’t the men at fault for not staying to build a family? Why so much anger and vitryall towards women doing their best to raise kids alone.
I don't think anybody has a problem with widows or divorcees with kids.

If we're talking about OWK, then what "family" did the man leave if the couple were never married?
 

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I don't think anybody has a problem with widows or divorcees with kids.

If we're talking about OWK, then what "family" did the man leave if the couple were never married?
How many people really die in a year tho. Come on. He could’ve stayed and made a family is what I mean. But the man chooses to run.
 
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When do men take a accountability and step up tho.
A lot of them never will :yeshrug:.

and slot of these women are on the brink of psychological breakdowns trying to mother and father these kids by themselves. I see the shyt every day.

wouldn’t wish trying to raise a kid and work full time by yourself on no one. shyt is work all day
 

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A lot of them never will :yeshrug:.

Im and slot of these women are on the brink of psychological breakdowns trying to mother and father these kids by themselves. I see the shyt every day.

wouldn’t wish trying to raise a kid and work full time by yourself on no one. shyt is work all day
This is what pisses me off. These women have to do it all only to be met with harsh criticism.
 

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How many people really die in a year tho. Come on. He could’ve stayed and made a family is what I mean. But the man chooses to run.
What makes you assume the man was the one running? (sounds kind of sexist)

People have these unplanned kids when they're young and broke and a lot of young women just do the math; why why give up her freedom and struggle to build a family with another young broke person when you could be a little more stable and get a government check as a single mother.

Despite the stereotypes is not always the man who doesn't want to stay and build
 

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What makes you assume the man was the one running? (sounds kind of sexist)

People have these unplanned kids when they're young and broke and a lot of young women just do the math; why why give up her freedom and struggle to build a family with another young broke person when you could be a little more stable and get a government check as a single mother.

Despite the stereotypes is not always the man who doesn't want to stay and build
They might get food stamps but that’s about it. No woman wants to raise kids alone.
 

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They might get food stamps but that’s about it. No woman wants to raise kids alone.

Breh, they get foodstamps, housing vouchers, energy assistance, cash assistance, daycare vouchers....they get almost 30k worth of assistance.

They could do that or "build a family" with another young broke person who may end up just being another dependent.
 
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