Why do we blame single mothers for their situation?

[Fat Fred Jones]

I blame both parents equally. However, the woman bears all of the health risks and burdens of pregnancy. Should the man decide to bail and shirk his moral and legal responsibility, the mother is typically left to raise and provide for the child on her own. With that said, we can argue all day about whom to "blame", but I'm sure we can all agree that it's unwise to risk getting pregnant by a man who hasn't proven by his actions over a reasonable period of time that he'll be around to do what's right.

 

[Brolic]

4 pages in and no one posted the Kevin Samuels gif.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

I’ll be honest. I’m getting older and the thought of dating a woman with kids doesn’t bother me as much as it used to. It’s hard to find a good woman without kids the older you get.

I been talking to a single mom who’s beautiful, smart, and a great mother. Id be a fool not to be with her cuz some idiot knocked her up and ran.

Only if she has bread

 

[ISO]

To be expected you nikkas hate women

 

[dh86]

No woman is even able to keep a man from his kids in 2021 the courts learned its lesson from when I was a kid in most places, so I think the worst if a dad a deadbeat.

 

[Wear My Dawg's Hat]

I don't think anybody has a problem with widows or divorcees with kids.

If we're talking about OWK, then what "family" did the man leave if the couple were never married?

A man cannot abandon a "family" that was never formed to begin with.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

The people blaming the single mothers are mostly men whose mindset boils down to
"She curved a responsible man because he's boring to her. She chose a man that she knew had the potential to vanish after an unplanned pregnancy. She made her choice "

But that leaves that dude off the hook entirely and acts like men don't have a choice in whether they wrap up or avoid women who aren't on birth control.

 

[Emoryal]

Abortion is a sin in certain religions. Women do want to coparent. No one wants to raise kids alone.

So is premarital sex. And if you want to coparent choose a person who wants to be a parent. Also, thats false. A growing number of women are choosing to be single parents.

 

[Hoodoo Child]

Because women decide who will become a Father. The next generation literally goes through them

But like as the old saying goes, it takes 2 to 'tango'.

 

[Wear My Dawg's Hat]

We've had fifty years of legal movements that stipulate bringing children into the world is the sole choice of a woman.

By 50 years of law and culture in the United States, being a single mother is by her solo decision.

 

[KingFreeman]

No woman is even able to keep a man from his kids in 2021 the courts learned its lesson from when I was a kid in most places, so I think the worst if a dad a deadbeat.

Learned it's lesson? I wanna hear that story

 

[dh86]

Learned it's lesson? I wanna hear that story

Men get joint custody if they want it, my dad got sole custody of me at 10 and it was considered a one in a million

 

[New Jeruzalem Journalist]

Aren’t the men at fault for not staying to build a family? Why so much anger and vitryall towards women doing their best to raise kids alone.

 

[ItzRailT]

The majority are at fault some these chicks know ole boy ain’t bout shyt but still have the baby so yes it is their fault majority of it.

 

[Brehcepticon]

Don't ask TLR sensible questions, brodie.