Why do we pretend Black girls/ Women didn’t have a thing for the light skin brothas?

Micky Mikey

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Would you date a dark skin breh? Or does your preference supercede everything else? And would you say colorism is just as prevalent among women as it is men?

Nothing wrong with having preferences btw. I think a lot of brehs are just tired of being gas lighted when reality paints a totally different picture. Almost every black chick I know who big up dark skin brehs and swear off light skin dude are ironically w a light skin dude. Why do you think this is?
 

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Nobody ever denied that some blk women had preferences for light dudes or internalized self hate. It’s just that growing up blk women weren’t the ones literally turning skin tone into a roast session to the same extent some blk dudes did.
Or telling dark dudes they couldn’ty get into clubs or parties.
Or putting bows on pictures of roaches with captions reading “blk girls at prom”

Or telling the world every 20 seconds randomly about their PREFERENCE for light brites, while calling dark dudes, dark butts, dirt butts, dirty, ugly, masculine, or saying dark chicks are good for beating b/c you can’t see the bruises on them…and so on.:comeon:

Plenty of blk women have internalized self-hate but growing up some blk dudes literally made an identity out of hating any female darker than a paper bag. Even if they were dark themselves.

But I hate this conversation on this site b:c somebody just gon deny, get defensive, be disingenuous like colorism against dark chicks didn’t exist unless it’s the evil dark skin chicks hating on the innocent light skinned chicks or fetishizing light skinned features.

As someone who ain’t even dark skinned and watched this shyt play out, some of ya’ll go full retard revisionist when it comes to colorism. The crazy thing is some of the worse roasting of dark dudes didn’t even come from blk women. It came from other blk dudes themselves but that’s another conversation too b/c if we go too deep some loser gon come through like a hit bytch hollering being defensive. :snooze:
People need to stop it.:comeon:
 

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I dont think any brehs pretend this didnt happen. Difference is alotta black women (not all, some) stopped doing this in highschool.

Its been decades since ive heard a black woman say "i only date lightskin men"

Its been about 3 weeks since ive heard a breh say he only messes with lightskin women :yeshrug:



And im not even saying its wrong to have a preference. Im just being honest because this is a very disingenuous conversation and yall know this is.:yeshrug:
 

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If you a grown man what you worried about what girls were looking at when you were a kid :dahell:
 

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As a light skin breh I have to agree. Mad play from sistas in grade school. I grew up in the days of kris kross. Girls loved that light skin cat.

And I’ve heard some of thr most ridiculous shyt out of women’s mouths. So when thry get on brehs for fukking hard with lightskin women I have to laugh. There are women who only fukk with beige brehs...but never get that blowback.

Also agree a lot of lightskin women only fukk with dark skin men. It’s either dark skin men or white men. Ro ably due to many being biracial and align with one side. Majority of the sistas who fukk with lightskin men are mostly brown to dark skin.

Lightskin men mainly getting play from all the other races. And yes, it has to do with lightskin men being seen as weak and pretty while dark skin men are seen as hard and assertive in the black community. Just retardedness all around.
 
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Would you date a dark skin breh? Or does your preference supercede everything else? And would you say colorism is just as prevalent among women as it is men?

Nothing wrong with having preferences btw. I think a lot of brehs are just tired of being gas lighted when reality paints a totally different picture. Almost every black chick I know who big up dark skin brehs and swear off light skin dude are ironically w a light skin dude. Why do you think this is?
colorism is just as prevalent among women as it is men
 
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Nobody ever denied that some blk women had preferences for light dudes or internalized self hate. It’s just that growing up blk women weren’t the ones literally turning skin tone into a roast session to the same extent some blk dudes did.
Or telling dark dudes they couldn’ty get into clubs or parties.
Or putting bows on pictures of roaches with captions reading “blk girls at prom”

Or telling the world every 20 seconds randomly about their PREFERENCE for light brites, while calling dark dudes, dark butts, dirt butts, dirty, ugly, masculine, or saying dark chicks are good for beating b/c you can’t see the bruises on them…and so on.:comeon:

Plenty of blk women have internalized self-hate but growing up some blk dudes literally made an identity out of hating any female darker than a paper bag. Even if they were dark themselves.

But I hate this conversation on this site b:c somebody just gon deny, get defensive, be disingenuous like colorism against dark chicks didn’t exist unless it’s the evil dark skin chicks hating on the innocent light skinned chicks or fetishizing light skinned features.

As someone who ain’t even dark skinned and watched this shyt play out, some of ya’ll go full retard revisionist when it comes to colorism. The crazy thing is some of the worse roasting of dark dudes didn’t even come from blk women. It came from other blk dudes themselves but that’s another conversation too b/c if we go too deep some loser gon come through like a hit bytch hollering being defensive. :snooze:
People need to stop it.:comeon:



This is more opposites attract books than self hate

Alot of light women have always love dark brothas

So dark men gravitated to them more than its dislike for dark women

Alot of light men love dark sistas

And get love back for them

I think anytyime a dark man dont choose a dark women some feel a type of way

But

If light women choose dark

No issue

If light men choose dark

No issue

Dark women choose light

No issue

Usually the men critcized for preference are dark men only



Did bw get made fun of yea

But alot of the racist stuff u said cacs called them more than dark dudes did


Black people are equal in the dozens everyone got it

I just think this more dark dudes may prefer light cause opposite attraction

More than hate for dark girls


Same with dark girls and light men
 

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It was easy for me. To be honest, I'm not sure if I've ever been turned down by someone I actually asked to date.

I've been married for a long time so I haven't been in the game but looking back, I got a lotta looks just for being lightskin.
 

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I swear I had a job just because the boss had a thing for lite skinned dudes.
 

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i said “most” not all
but in the NorthEast it’s extremely rear to see a lite skin BW with a lite skin BM
and thats still false generalization because there are alot of them who date the male version of their skin tone.
 
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