Why do women get validation from being in relationships?

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I read somewhere men should be focused on their mission and subsequently, a woman's main focus in her life is Her Man.

So a mans duty is to get his life together and pursue a craft or something of the sort. A woman's duty is to support her man in that capacity.

So a woman without a man is missing her other half. Usually women have pretty comfortable lifestyles already built, so their next priority is her relationship.

While for a man, its the opposite, he can't even correctly "pursue" women until he's on track with his life. And from there, depending on his character, he may already be highly desirable.
 

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I read somewhere men should be focused on their mission and subsequently, a woman's main focus in her life is Her Man.

So a mans duty is to get his life together and pursue a craft or something of the sort. A woman's duty is to support her man in that capacity.

So a woman without a man is missing her other half. Usually women have pretty comfortable lifestyles already built, so their next priority is her relationship.

While for a man, its the opposite, he can't even correctly "pursue" women until he's on track with his life. And from there, depending on his character, he may already be highly desirable.


LMFAOOO WTF that's so fukking stupid. who the hell said that dumb shyt?
 

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The proof is in the way yall act tbh im not a sexist but tbh this really fits yall actions really gotta be true

only an idiot would do that. I hope you don't teach your daughter to make a man her life. what she gonna do when her "life" decides he doesn't want to be with her anymore? or cheats on her? that's just fukking stupid. men are always looking for away to fukk you over, making a man your entire life is the quickest way to end up miserable.
 

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I read somewhere men should be focused on their mission and subsequently, a woman's main focus in her life is Her Man.

So a mans duty is to get his life together and pursue a craft or something of the sort. A woman's duty is to support her man in that capacity.

So a woman without a man is missing her other half. Usually women have pretty comfortable lifestyles already built, so their next priority is her relationship.

While for a man, its the opposite, he can't even correctly "pursue" women until he's on track with his life. And from there, depending on his character, he may already be highly desirable.

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only an idiot would do that. I hope you don't teach your daughter to make a man her life. what she gonna do when her "life" decides he doesn't want to be with her anymore? or cheats on her? that's just fukking stupid. men are always looking for away to fukk you over, making a man your entire life is the quickest way to end up miserable.
yet girls still do it:yeshrug:

Im just discussing wat I see juicy bae
 

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But guys are way more focused we get what we want and we would WAIT if we wanna meet the right one.
Women on the other hand just give in u see a ugly meek mill nikka just slide in outta nowhere...even if a girl not in a relationship she got some dude that givin her attention she talking to its like girls hatee being alone wayy more than guys
but if a girl dates a nice looking dude, y'all are all "women are just as shallow as men. :sadcam:. blah blah blah feminism"
 

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Women just showing how flawed, selfish, thirsty cowardly etc. they are. Smh and they dont even see it.

And try to tell them this and you got the problem.

And watch someone bring up "what men do" like thats the topic of the thread.
 

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Funny that u say this cause every guy I've been with has had the nerve to say this about women but then when things ended they wanted to be in a relationship 2.5 sec later instead of chilling. And out of my friends list on fb the people who break up the most but turn around a week or 2 later dating and claiming someone else is a guy not a girl.

Men are so needy. women can be alone and often are. I hardly ever see a guy alone just chilling not really talking to anyone. Men always got someone else they dealing with. I guess for this thread these so called rosters of women YALL be talking about don't exist:sas2:
 

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the bible talks about this

In that day seven women will take hold of one man and say, "We will eat our own food and provide our own clothes; only let us be called by your name

women would rather share a man than be single
 

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Funny that u say this cause every guy I've been with has had the nerve to say this about women but then when things ended they wanted to be in a relationship 2.5 sec later instead of chilling. And out of my friends list on fb the people who break up the most but turn around a week or 2 later dating and claiming someone else is a guy not a girl.

Men are so needy. women can be alone and often are. I hardly ever see a guy alone just chilling not really talking to anyone. Men always got someone else they dealing with. I guess for this thread these so called rosters of women YALL be talking about don't exist:sas2:

to men of value commitment = the male vagina

guys who throw commitment and beg to be in a relationship are just like sluts who give it up on the first night

secondly you can't compare the two, because a woman can just throw up a picture on tinder or a online dating site and be bombarded even if she ugly and fat, the average guy has to constantly be working take time off he'll have nothing. its the mindset a woman can be alone and knowing at the drop of a hat she can have 50 simp dudes willing to do anything men can't

as wel if men cared so much about relaitonships and marriage the black marriage rate would be high :sas2:.

I've never really seen 30 plus year old black men crying out to be married
 

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to men of value commitment = the male vagina

guys who throw commitment and beg to be in a relationship are just like sluts who give it up on the first night

secondly you can't compare the two, because a woman can just throw up a picture on tinder or a online dating site and be bombarded even if she ugly and fat, the average guy has to constantly be working take time off he'll have nothing. its the mindset a woman can be alone and knowing at the drop of a hat she can have 50 simp dudes willing to do anything men can't

as wel if men cared so much about relaitonships and marriage the black marriage rate would be high :sas2:.

I've never really seen 30 plus year old black men crying out to be married
but I wasn't talking about marriage period. A lot of women don't want to get married either anymore. I don't see how the social media thing that u said has anything to do with this. Men want female companionship just as much as a woman wants companionship from a man. Dudes will go from woman to woman. They are just as needy. nikkas be whining all the time All over my news feeds about it.

Plus you men up here stay making threads about women in relationships.

And out off all those men who hit up a woman only about 2 of them will be worth her time
 

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but I wasn't talking about marriage period. A lot of women don't want to get married either anymore. I don't see how the social media thing that u said has anything to do with this. Men want female companionship just as much as a woman wants companionship from a man. Dudes will go from woman to woman. They are just as needy. nikkas be whining all the time All over my news feeds about it.

Plus you men up here stay making threads about women in relationships.

And out off all those men who hit up a woman only about 2 of them will be worth her time

im talking about relationships, and you bringing up companionship, a man who is desperate to commit and be in a relationship is akin to a skank who gives it up the first night. See you even admit it, you'd look at a dude on teh first date asking what are we, i want you to be my girlfriend as a needy pathetic little nikka.

I've only committed to two women ever in my life that's it and both had to work for it.
 
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