Why do women hide behind victimhood after they do you wrong?
- Thread starter A Pimp Named Slickback
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Because vulnerability is one of the defining characteristics of femininity
Women have an instinct for understanding the power of female vulnerability and it's effect on men, so they play the numbers game and invoke it at every opportunity. The idea is if "I act on this feeling there will be someone to come to my defense/rescue"
If you had a support system and a defense force everytime you played the victim you'd abuse that shyt too
Women have an instinct for understanding the power of female vulnerability and it's effect on men, so they play the numbers game and invoke it at every opportunity. The idea is if "I act on this feeling there will be someone to come to my defense/rescue"
If you had a support system and a defense force everytime you played the victim you'd abuse that shyt too
I'll tell you the same thing I'd tell a woman in your situation: keep trying. Don't stop seeking justice for yourself. Victims or harassment and sexual assault often feel ashamed and hopeless when these things happen to them because they think nothing can be done and the perpetrator stole their power.Yep. Nothing happened
Because of their defense mechanisms
My sexuality even got questioned by one of these women because I didnt want her toxic ass. Now rumors are being spread
It's toxic, brehettes
Keep trying. You're doing yourself and other men in your situation a disservice by chopping it up to women playing victim hood on a forum.
Women play victim in these situations. It is what it is. They try to get over just like men do. It's in a different way. We can acknowledge these facts without getting defensive
People, men and women, have flaws. Not all men or all women either. This isn't a generalization
This is a reality that is rarely discussed because of the coddling perception online. It's easy to feel sorry for women and feel like men are sorry
Men in general have no safe spaces to talk about this without being nitpicked. It's generally ok for women to vent online
Why isn't it ok for men? Your answer to this question will probably coincide with this thread's subject
The older you get, the more other older people get tired of the sh*t.. Even the support system gets tired of it. This is why miserable people always find themselves with one another.. Everyone has something going on in their life and it gets tiring listening to a victim complain.. Like who isn't a victim of something?
That's why venting needs to be succinct and then getting to the solution needs to happen right after
Alot of men and women are comfortable in victimhood. They don't want to take accountability and take real action. It's easier to wallow in misery
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
Yep. Liars who refuse to be held accountable they are!
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
You right. My mama is cool.
You must be a woman
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Apprentice
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Your overall point is strong but brotherhood is cap
My bible study group would prove you wrong