Why do women hide behind victimhood after they do you wrong?

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Everything is an absolute when it comes to us, but somehow men are without flaw.
It's crazy how I feel the exact same way about the dialogue of women online. Offline too

Women cry to me about how "all men are trash" but im an exception. Toxic women at work tell me these things. Then flirt with me. It's a sick world we live in. Don't let it break you sis
 

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Work needs to be the one place where men should practice extreme d*ck-discipline.
Establish boundaries with women, and make sure YOU stick the boundaries yourself. Don't even let the women converse with you outside of work related stuff.

Cuz women at work get really bored, and they have no problem "shytting where they eat" or however you say that phrase. Women will flirt for attention out of boredom, even if they don't even like you. Seen a couple times over the years women clearly flirt with some dude out in the open, then run to HR claiming he harassed her. :mjlol:
I fist bump these women and they still go further

One of them groped me
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And my concerns get brushed aside by management. Like it's my "perception" and not reality

Imagine if I was a woman

This is the problem
 

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OP you should have started with a story. You're gonna have hurt feeling fueled deflectors flooding the thread.
To be fair, the reverse would happen had this been a thread about men

The redpill Andrew Taters would be in here on some
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Women play victim in these situations. It is what it is. They try to get over just like men do. It's in a different way. We can acknowledge these facts without getting defensive

People, men and women, have flaws. Not all men or all women either. This isn't a generalization

This is a reality that is rarely discussed because of the coddling perception online. It's easy to feel sorry for women and feel like men are sorry

Men in general have no safe spaces to talk about this without being nitpicked. It's generally ok for women to vent online

Why isn't it ok for men? Your answer to this question will probably coincide with this thread's subject

Have you ever asked yourself why in a male dominated world are men afraid to talk about being victimized by women? Is it fear of retaliation? If so that's something most victims fear. Is it shame? Well, most victims feel that way too.

Why isn't it okay for men to have safe spaces? Well that's something you'll have to ask your male peers about because as far as I know most men who have been raped, molested, and sexually harassed aren't typically forthcoming about it and there's usually little sympathy in male dominated spaces for that.

As you can see there's nothing but jokes and slander in this thread yet no sympathy for you. Hardly anyone in here has told you to seek justice or linked you to a support group.

:francis:
 

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No!! It’s a constant bashing of women and saying that we don’t take no responsibility, or we get mad or some stupid shyt. Like all the men of the world are fukking perfect, and women are the only ones that have shyt wrong with them. Maybe, maybe it’s just a piece of shyt women that people exposed to, but. A constant bashing on here. Everything is an absolute when it comes to us, but somehow men are without flaw. All the shyt that I read about on here, none of the females I know are like that. I know that there are some women out there that are like that, but I am not exposed (and don’t expose myself) to people with shytty traits, men or women. That’s enough Internet for me for today.
That's why it's good to have a balanced perspective always. Everything isn't black or white or up and down. And almost everyone online has some sort of bias or issue going on that gets tossed into the fray. As for the OP he's going through something quite serious and I just hope it's resolved and he keeps on pushing. A lot of victims of harassment don't find justice. It's just the way of the world.
 

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No!! It’s a constant bashing of women and saying that we don’t take no responsibility, or we get mad or some stupid shyt. Like all the men of the world are fukking perfect, and women are the only ones that have shyt wrong with them. Maybe, maybe it’s just a piece of shyt women that people exposed to, but. A constant bashing on here. Everything is an absolute when it comes to us, but somehow men are without flaw. All the shyt that I read about on here, none of the females I know are like that. I know that there are some women out there that are like that, but I am not exposed (and don’t expose myself) to people with shytty traits, men or women. That’s enough Internet for me for today.

I remember you were on here unable to get your head around how your sister was wrong for breaking up with her man at his sister’s funeral

Maybe you should sit this one out

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Have you ever asked yourself why in a male dominated world are men afraid to talk about being victimized by women? Is it fear of retaliation? If so that's something most victims fear. Is it shame? Well, most victims feel that way too.

Why isn't it okay for men to have safe spaces? Well that's something you'll have to ask your male peers about because as far as I know most men who have been raped, molested, and sexually harassed aren't typically forthcoming about it and there's usually little sympathy in male dominated spaces for that.

As you can see there's nothing but jokes and slander in this thread yet no sympathy for you. Hardly anyone in here has told you to seek justice or linked you to a support group.

:francis:
And thats the problem. I'm blessed to have friends, mentors, a girl, family, and a therapist in my support system

I can't say the same for most men on here. And I can't save the world. Jesus saves
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. As for the OP he's going through something quite serious and I just hope it's resolved and he keeps on pushing. A lot of victims of harassment don't find justice. It's just the way of the world.
Exactly. And I really feel for all women after going through this

Women get harassed wayyyyyyyy more than I ever have. I have had trauma throughout my life by the hands of women. I've healed from it. Some people aren't blessed to be in that position

The majority of women have to face their abusers every single day. That makes it almost impossible to heal. PTSD is real

Life is hard. Balance is key. Empathy is one of the most important qualities to have





Hopefully they cut the check for my emotional damages and I can empathize with the rich man's plight. Wishful thinking
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There are 3 things women love… money, a big dikk and not taking responsibility. They’ve all confided with me in secrecy.

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And thats the problem. I'm blessed to have friends, mentors, a girl, family, and a therapist in my support system

I can't say the same for most men on here. And I can't save the world. Jesus saves
:hubie:
Can't say the same for a lot of people. It's a scary world out there. People just suffering in silence. Men, women, and children.

I'm happy for you 😊

And I hope you receive justice.
 

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Exactly. And I really feel for all women after going through this

Women get harassed wayyyyyyyy more than I ever have. I have had trauma throughout my life by the hands of women. I've healed from it. Some people aren't blessed to be in that position

The majority of women have to face their abusers every single day. That makes it almost impossible to heal. PTSD is real

Life is hard. Balance is key. Empathy is one of the most important qualities to have





Hopefully they cut the check for my emotional damages and I can empathize with the rich man's plight. Wishful thinking
:ahh:

Oh yes sir. But you know, you'd b surprised by the amount of men who were taken advantage of by other men and women. Even some women take advantage of other women. Remember that scene from The Players Club when Diamond (Lisaraye) was raped by Ronnie, a whole woman? Stuff like that is real.

Ultimately I just wish yall would speak out more about your experiences and not try to say "oh its okay". It's not okay. The stories I've heard were very heartbreaking. 💔
 
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