Why do you think so called "smart" men struggle with women?

[Mandarin Duck]

I was just wondering this.

A lot of men who struggle with women would consider themselves smart.

Yet for whatever reason they can't figure out women.

Why is that?

If a person was truly smart wouldn't they have the ability to understand women just like they understand concepts in the work field or school?

 

[TAYLONDO SAMSWORTHY]

Why does struggling with women make them smart

 

[ignorethis]

Different types of intelligence.

Expanding on this, knowledge and mastery of something really comes from experience and repetition. Like somebody might be naturally inclined to being good at math and learn it easier but even if you're not naturally inclined towards math you can become good with enough dedication.

But while getting good at math involves repetition and repeatedly getting shyt wrong with numbers and questions. Becoming really good with women usually means getting shyt wrong with actual women repeatedly, which a lot of dudes aren't comfortable with. Which is why dudes always talk about how you have to become comfortable with rejection and shyt.

Don't get confused, the nikkas that get the most women usually also get curved the most, because they play the numbers game. But even with those fails they're still getting their reps in and learning more about dealing with women.

A lot of times book smart types are scared of failure, especially failure with women.

 

[Gonzo]

I was just wondering this.

A lot of men who struggle with women would consider themselves smart.

Yet for whatever reason they can't figure out women.

Why is that?

If a person was truly smart wouldn't they have the ability to understand women just like they understand concepts in the work field or school?

You sound like a feminist.

You can’t understand something that’s illogical.

 

[Wildhundreds]

"Smart" people usually struggle socially because they spent most of their life in books..

 

[BaggerofTea]

Most idiotic thread title i have seen in a while

 

[Nemesis]

I was just wondering this.

A lot of men who struggle with women would consider themselves smart.

Yet for whatever reason they can't figure out women.

Why is that?

If a person was truly smart wouldn't they have the ability to understand women just like they understand concepts in the work field or school?

1. this is a myth

2. A lot of people dont know the difference between "smart" and 'intelligent" ...... they are two different things

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

More time studying and hitting the books than going outside socializing and shyt.

 

[The Fade]

Dating is shallow

Look good and tell these hoes what they want to hear

 

[Silent_H]

From my experience, "nerds" or as you say smart guys are more inclined for logical connections, but rarely can connect on an emotional level. They under A + B = C, but with emotions, all of that is thrown out of the window. Women crave the emotional rollercoaster, the uncertainty of it excites them. Just my opinion

 

[Ol’Otis]

they think they're smarter than what they are

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

I was just wondering this.

A lot of men who struggle with women would consider themselves smart.

Yet for whatever reason they can't figure out women.

Why is that?

If a person was truly smart wouldn't they have the ability to understand women just like they understand concepts in the work field or school?

I wanna chime in and say its because you see through the bullshyt and become jaded by it. It took me a minute to get out of this way of thinking myself. Like Ok This dude is obviously lying to this hoe and she's batting lashes and loving it. But like anything I've learned nobody and I mean NOBODY wants the truth without a little bit of sugar to shovel the shyt down.

 

[Apollo Creed]

They value a woman more than themselves thus they cancel out any logical intelligence they have.

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

I was just wondering this.

A lot of men who struggle with women would consider themselves smart.

Yet for whatever reason they can't figure out women.

Why is that?

If a person was truly smart wouldn't they have the ability to understand women just like they understand concepts in the work field or school?

You can't apply this to people. let alone women.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

They don't realize that they're not really smart, just studious and well trained.
Intelligence adapts. Game is social engineering.