Why do you think so called "smart" men struggle with women?

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You’re good at what you focus on and practice. Smart at what? Smart at one thing doesn’t mean you’re good at everything.

A lot of “smart” dudes fail with women because they think all women want romance and for them to be accommodating and they come off as soft, insecure and easy to manipulate. They also lack the practice of talking to and dealing with women because they put them on pedestals and focus on one rather than being cool with a lot of them at one time.
 

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A lot of intelligent people don't want to have to "try" with anything.
I think about it like this for myself, I've spent 99% of my life being able to do damn near anything without having to try twice, or read the instructions, or anything like that.
I happened to develop great social skills by trying out different things and learning, but I haven't had to work on my social skills either.

Social skills are something that if you're not on the ball with developing, will take painstaking effort to develop. And most "smart guys" aren't ready to put in the effort.

Having to be able to exist both in Black social spaces and White social spaces, casually, academically, at party-settings, professionally, etc. allowed me to slide through effortlessly.

Most smart guys cannot do that.
 

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You’re good at what you focus on and practice. Smart at what? Smart at one thing doesn’t mean you’re good at everything.

A lot of “smart” dudes fail with women because they think all women want romance and for them to be accommodating and they come off as soft, insecure and easy to manipulate. They also lack the practice of talking to and dealing with women because they put them on pedestals and focus on one rather than being cool with a lot of them at one time.
This.
 

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You’re good at what you focus on and practice. Smart at what? Smart at one thing doesn’t mean you’re good at everything.

A lot of “smart” dudes fail with women because they think all women want romance and for them to be accommodating and they come off as soft, insecure and easy to manipulate. They also lack the practice of talking to and dealing with women because they put them on pedestals and focus on one rather than being cool with a lot of them at one time.
The biggest lie women have sold men :mjgrin:


They'll say that shyt but biologically they go for the opposite:mjgrin:
 
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