Why do you think women need to be "saved?"

[bcrusaderw]

@WHIPPEDCream


women arent mentally stable as men....men make decisions on logic and women make decisions on emotion....thats why a women need a strong male to protect and guide them...

This coming from you is hilarious.

 

[Neuromancer]

Also OP you state that competition is a male thing? I had a home girl of mine send me a picture of her ass after I told her my new girl had a big booty. And nah we don’t have that kind of relationship. My other homework who knows her was like "why is she trying to compete?"

@WHIPPEDCream

 

[Bless't]

How old are you?

Every time I read a post of hers... I'm like... naaaaah, has to be an alias.

 

[AkaDemiK]

"fonts"

what the bloodclat?

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

Op you're asking a loaded question. People don't think women need to be saved. the sentiments around here are actually very anti saving lol.

some women will play damsel in distress and attemp to manipulate a man's natural instinct to protect and provide in order to take advantage of him.

We are mindful off these women.

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

@WHIPPEDCream it dont matter, a female cant console a man....y'all see things from a sensitive nurturing prospective....we need realistic answers

Not all women are sugar coaters.

but if she uses her sexuality to manipulate or deceive, she's most likely a ho.

I disagree.Just like men "gotta eat," women "gotta," eat too.Men are very manipulative when it comes to getting sex from women.They will say things they don't really mean & do things with the ultimate goal of f*cking her then leaving her.So I have no problem with women using men to get what she ultimately wants.& If the woman is smart with how she uses men,I respect her all the more.

Save is basically providing a woman with a lifestyle she doesn't deserve or hasn't worked for.

For example the chick in school who slept with everyone and hoed out, partied out of control, then graduates and finds a good, successful, man to settle with. Or a chick who doesn't work and is a well-put together bum, living off of men she can catch with her sexuality, or looks.



Which isn't wrong persay but usually peoples behaivor in their pasts hav epatterns that exist in the future. Live two different lives and the negative one will catch up to you first.

I don't consider either of the situations "saving," especially the second one.

This has been posted already ...

it should be self explanatory ...



but I see that it's not ...

saving means treating random jumpoffs like a wife with all those privileges

like paying for everything and defending her even if she isn't into you or if she cheats

other than other posters already explained it ...

and yeah the term "I'll save her" is a joke

it's said ironically, in a mocking way or insincerely usually ...

No on means it ...

no one is saving anyone irl ...

So being a doormat.

gotcha.

Nah but basically, Some women enjoy promiscuity for a good amount of their youth. Somewhere along the line their proverbial "biological clock" starts ticking, and so they clean up their image and conceal their pasts so they can attract the right guy so they can become wives and mothers. Most guys familiar with women see through that, but then they snag that one dude who is willing to marry her. Eventually the marriage falls apart, cause her thirst for new dikk never died out like she wanted to pretend it did. She gets tired of the dude and leaves, or she gets caught cheating sooner or later.

It's like for women marrying a dude and finding out he's cheating on you

So the old school teaches men not to save these hoes, or in other words, don't be that guy. Don't catch that L. That's the original definition of the term.

Nowadays it still means that, but also just dating the wrong woman. Cause the wrong chick can trap you with a kid for money even though she doesn't like you. Or accuse you of rape or abuse, or set you up to get robbed by some nikkas


So sometimes guys see a chick with all the red flags, but she looks good, so they say "i'll save her" in jest. Like chicks seeing a male celebrity their attracted to and saying they'll fukk and cook that nikka breakfast. It's (half) jokes on some simp shyt

But men enjoy "promiscuity," throughout their youth & even their older adulthood as well.Tyrone & his friends may have all f*cked Becky, but Tyrone was f*cking 3 other girls on the regular when he f*cked Becky last night.Tyrone is not in a position to save anyone, even if the girl genuinely wanted to be "saved."

let me sit you down for a second

saved can mean many things... and it isn't some recent thing... it actually comes from the past in many ways


back when women couldn't work, she lived with pops and mom until she was married... and married was the thing to be... everyone in the family hitting her like "damn bytch when you gonna get married and get the fukk out"

so a man would come, court her, marry her, SAVE her from that lonely, live at home life



so some use it as "i'd save her from being single all her life and miserable and alone"




another is with a hoe... captain save a hoe...

meaning a woman is out here fukking 5 dudes at a time... or selling p*ssy (original saying)... and here comes a "nice guy" with money, who wants to SAVE her from having to do that anymore. he'll give her anything she wants, as long as she doesn't keep hoeing


so some use it as "damn that IG thot is fine, i'd save her from having to sell p*ssy online"




now whether these women actually want to be saved (she don't wanna be saved).... or these men can actually pull this off.... is up for debate.

on the coli it's usually said as a joke.. or to hype her up... like "good lord i'd consider fukking up my entire life for a hoe, just cause she that fine............... i'd save her"








but to answer your first question.... YES.. most men see women who aren't married by 30-35 as old lonely future cat women, who need to be saved by any nikka who will agree to marry them

I understand what you are saying I just don't agree with the whole concept of "saving."I view a man that allows women to use him & walk all over him as simply a doormat, not a savior.

okay.... look at it like this.

You've done well for yourself. Fresh out of college and into your career. Love your job. Money's good. The World is Yours.

Sometimes when you're out and about, you see this dude you used to know of. He's chilling outside somewhere and doing nothing. You know he had a good head on his shoulders. Hell, the few times he tried to talk to YOU, he still sounded incredibly smart, just a little rough around the edges. He may be a bit... bitter. Distrustful of women. But he still treats you with respect.

But you also hear the girls talk. Some real women. Some hoodrats. None of them really like him. He got a few kids he don't claim. He ain't shyt. Etc. etc.....

But he doesn't seem that bad. You can still see his potential. He just never had someone in his corner to help him stand up. And you KNOW he has potential. Plus, he's never even tried to fukk you like that or anything.

So you go and talk to him on some friendly shyt.


A year later, your credit's shot, your car is repo'ed and your career is derailed cause you had to take a maternity leave.

He's.... right back on the curb.

You tried to save him from these harsh realities, show him a better world.

He ain't wanna be saved.

This hypothetical situation would NEVER happen btw. He wasn't sh*t from the point of me seeing him chilling outside doing nothing.A successful woman who puts herself in that situation is dumb &I feel no sympathy for her.She is not a savior.

Also OP you state that competition is a male thing? I had a home girl of mine send me a picture of her ass after I told her my new girl had a big booty. And nah we don’t have that kind of relationship. My other homework who knows her was like "why is she trying to compete?"

@WHIPPEDCream

You're right.Both men & women "compete."

Op you're asking a loaded question. People don't think women need to be saved. the sentiments around here are actually very anti saving lol.

some women will play damsel in distress and attemp to manipulate a man's natural instinct to protect and provide in order to take advantage of him.

We are mindful off these women.

I have no problem with this.

 

[KravenMorehead™]

But men enjoy "promiscuity," throughout their youth & even their older adulthood as well.Tyrone & his friends may have all f*cked Becky, but Tyrone was f*cking 3 other girls on the regular when he f*cked Becky last night.Tyrone is not in a position to save anyone, even if the girl genuinely wanted to be "saved."

aight

 

[unit321]

Why do you think women need to be "saved?What does that mean? I've come across many posts on here with fonts saying things such as "I would save her," & other "saving," comments.Saved from what exactly?The way some fonts talk on here is like women need to be guided like children.

Well, Slaimon usually wants to save women from their evil lifestyles. He knows they are living that lifestyle while watching Brian Pumper videos.
@Slaimon Khan Shah

 

[DrX]

@WHIPPEDCream

OK what is your advice in this scenario

Pretend I was your husband and I told u that I just lost my job and were going to lose the house and we have 3 kids with no savings

What would u say to me?

 

[Mr. Negative]

This hypothetical situation would NEVER happen btw. He wasn't sh*t from the point of me seeing him chilling outside doing nothing.A successful woman who puts herself in that situation is dumb &I feel no sympathy for her.She is not a savior.

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you can't be serious.

you think all those stories of successful chick choosing ghetto name dirtbag nikka from the hood doesn't happen!?































naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah....... you aren't serious. never mind.

 

[TEH]

If if you don't agree with how the term "saving" is being used it already is being used that way and not just on the Coli. The term is way bigger than this board so even if we agreed to use another word its too late, it's already established slang.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

This is why..........

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/i-am-not-your-nut-rag-i-was-your-sister-your-blood-sister.366415/

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[Turbulent]

but if she uses her sexuality to manipulate or deceive, she's most likely a ho.

I disagree.Just like men "gotta eat," women "gotta," eat too.Men are very manipulative when it comes to getting sex from women.They will say things they don't really mean & do things with the ultimate goal of f*cking her then leaving her.So I have no problem with women using men to get what she ultimately wants.& If the woman is smart with how she uses men,I respect her all the more.

you say you disagree with me but what you said has nothing to do with what i said. i said if a woman uses her sexuality to manipulate or gain, she's a hoe. i never said men don't manipulate or deceive. who you respect or not is your business. how does that disagree with what i said though? you're in too deep in the battle of the sexes to the point you're not even trying to seek the truth. you're just trying to make your points without even listening to what other people are saying. you're trying to start a debate where there is none.