But what makes the men on here think they are capable of doing that?They're people with closets that aren't clean themselves.
This does not relate but I never gave you a follow up to that story.
Jace ended up texting me telling me he may say he's okay with me talking to his room mate but deep down he really doesn't want me to.This conversation led to him subliminally asking me out, which I turned down because I felt like the only reason he was trying to get me to be his girlfriend was because his room mate was interested in me & Jace did the "male," thing & got competitive.
But men are not any more "moral,"than women.
& Men are just as "mentally/emotionally unstable," y'all just try to hide it..
Why does this kind of women need to be saved?
That's a woman with a motive to get what she wants.
Destroy their life in what way? From having sex?
I wouldn't call those characters "saving," those women.There were other circumstances that put those women in a better place in life as well.(Cutting off past relationships, moving,etc).When people say "save," they usually say they were saved by a higher power (like God or Jesus).So for some of the men on here to say they want to "save," a woman just shows how they think they are some sort of superior, "godly," figure.
let me sit you down for a second
saved can mean many things... and it isn't some recent thing... it actually comes from the past in many ways
back when women couldn't work, she lived with pops and mom until she was married... and married was the thing to be... everyone in the family hitting her like "damn bytch when you gonna get married and get the fukk out"
so a man would come, court her, marry her, SAVE her from that lonely, live at home life
so some use it as "i'd save her from being single all her life and miserable and alone"
another is with a hoe... captain save a hoe...
meaning a woman is out here fukking 5 dudes at a time... or selling p*ssy (original saying)... and here comes a "nice guy" with money, who wants to SAVE her from having to do that anymore. he'll give her anything she wants, as long as she doesn't keep hoeing
so some use it as "damn that IG thot is fine, i'd save her from having to sell p*ssy online"
now whether these women actually want to be saved (she don't wanna be saved).... or these men can actually pull this off.... is up for debate.
on the coli it's usually said as a joke.. or to hype her up... like "good lord i'd consider fukking up my entire life for a hoe, just cause she that fine............... i'd save her"
but to answer your first question.... YES.. most men see women who aren't married by 30-35 as old lonely future cat women, who need to be saved by any nikka who will agree to marry them