Why does a man do this?

[Mowgli]

Why is it that a man will always stare at you as a woman but won't even come up and talk to you? Like literally just stare and even at times tell other men he likes you but will spend months not even saying anything to you. Just curious.

Because hes married and tryna be a good nikka

 

[Guile]

Believe it or not some people can be attracted to you but not want to deal with you/relationship/aftermath of sex/intimacy.

 

[Cant Ban The Snow Man]

Believe it or not some people can be attracted to you but not want to deal with you/relationship/aftermath of sex/intimacy.

Wow. I could see that in certain situations though.

 

[mag357]

Cold approach like fukk it... shes just a woman. bleeds every month. probly has a ton of insecurities. nikkaz done did her dirty. Men put women on pedestals that they cant reach.
The craziest thing though is that women wonder why dudes have a hard time approaching them, but women can't cold approach men for shyt. even the women that say they have done it, never really just straight went up to a dude and asked for the digits. They just put the dude in an easier position to ask them out... their fear of rejection is at suicidal levels

 

[NeilCartwright]

Believe it or not some people can be attracted to you but not want to deal with you/relationship/aftermath of sex/intimacy.

My homegirl told me this when I was 19, I thought she was lying.

I'm 23 now and totally agree. I do it myself sometimesi can objectively say a chick looks good. She can show signs she's interested in me, but for whatever reason I won't approach her.

By now I know the game so I'm not just tryna Fck a couple times them go ghost on her. She'll be upset and I'll get labeled as a "dog ass Nikka"

Sex ain't that hard to come by. Sometimes it isn't even worth the hassle

 

[Art Barr]

Here's why:

dis shyt real, tho.

this is why you do all your own cold approaches.


art barr

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

It's called fear of rejection. Women don't have to do anything but sit on their ass and wait for men to come to them so it's clear why a lot of women don't understand it.

 

[TRY GOD]

I do this, its because, usual, the enfs don't justify the means @PearlsGalore

 

[HabitualChiller]

This question is more applicable for women honestly. Dudes even today are expected to make the first move so it's understandable for them to be nervous.

But women...you'll literally stare at a dude across the room and will be in the cut smiling all creepy and shyt

 

[rbksNgirbauds]

Why is it that a man will always stare at you as a woman but won't even come up and talk to you? Like literally just stare and even at times tell other men he likes you but will spend months not even saying anything to you. Just curious.

ay where u from op

 

[TRY GOD]

Believe it or not some people can be attracted to you but not want to deal with you/relationship/aftermath of sex/intimacy.

This all day

 

[Prince Mongo]

Wow. I could see that in certain situations though.

It seems short sighted and ignorant of you to think that every nikka that looks in your direction wants you

 

[JQ Legend]

Same reason u won't approach him

Social awkwardness

Plus women aren't as approachable these days

If u interested, act that way

 

[GreenGhxst]

A lot of guys talk heavy game but can't deliver when it's time to go approach because this online shyt

I'd suggest you flash a smile at them to show you really interested, even shy dudes will approach if you flash a smile

Sometimes you have to show you're interested, just leave the approaching up to them, don't be out here approaching dudes

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Married