Why does a man do this?

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Its hard but I feel relief after I approach so I won't have the what ifs and full of regret. It is better to not be filled with regret cuz it hurts. Approaching is hard but it shouldn't be the only tool to get p*ssy. You meet women from circle of friends, approaching in the day and night time. In the daytime, you will see alot of women say they got a boyfriend. That is why I usually approach at night near clubs and bars cuz most of these broads are single.

Rejection isn't bad, however, I will say this. If you have low self-esteem and alot insecurities and never felt wanted you should not approach. Why? You are gonna get rejected alot and you will go down a rabbit hole of a vicious cycle of pain and lower self-esteem. Instead, find out what makes you insecure. Like get money and get in shape or get a hobby. If you never felt wanted when you get rejected alot it will bring further pain. My cousin went through that. I tild him to get in shape and get money and do not focus on woman for a while. He has to build himself up in order to get that confidence that if he gets rejected he knows his worth. He is a 25 year virgin and never been in a relationship. So he never felt wanted and has no experience. So when he went out to approach he got rejected 99.99% of the time. And his self-esteem got worse and worse that approaching became a chore. So he has to make himself better. In all dudes with no experience have to build themselves up. Then they should go out and approach.
This!

Chicks throw it at me alot...I have a hairstyle that stands out so I stick out everywhere I go. Last summer my confidence was at an all time high.

Lately too much shyt been going on my life and I'm not confident as much. I pretty much ignore chicks now until I start bettering myself.

Furniture for my apartment, stack my bread, start BJJ.

Tryna get at chicks when you're insecure about shyt is bad news. I spent last year losing weight, not giving a damn about women and it all worked out because I started to notice women threw it at me and I started to pickup signals easier.

Also realize women aren't some fukking rare creatures. Most are too damn shy,nervous and just wanting a breh to step to em...atleast here in Seattle because that shyt doesnt happen often. :pachaha:
 

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The answer is always "No" unless you ask :manny: I just figured that you're in the same place you were in had you started, so at least ask and play the odds.
 

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This!

Chicks throw it at me alot...I have a hairstyle that stands out so I stick out everywhere I go. Last summer my confidence was at an all time high.

Lately too much shyt been going on my life and I'm not confident as much. I pretty much ignore chicks now until I start bettering myself.

Furniture for my apartment, stack my bread, start BJJ.

Tryna get at chicks when you're insecure about shyt is bad news. I spent last year losing weight, not giving a damn about women and it all worked out because I started to notice women threw it at me and I started to pickup signals easier.

Also realize women aren't some fukking rare creatures. Most are too damn shy,nervous and just wanting a breh to step to em...atleast here in Seattle because that shyt doesnt happen often. :pachaha:

Yeah alot of dudes need to build themselves up before they approach. I see dudes with no experience go out there with low esteem get rejected and it further lowers it. Dudes have to learn from themselves. Not everyone grew up the same. My cousin is overweight but there is fat nikkas getting p*ssy. Difference is he has no relationship experience and suffers from low self-esteem. If he keeps approaching it will be a vicious cycle of pain and hurt. Plus they will put so much pressure on themselves that if it fails they fall apart. So they have to figure out themselves. Make money, get in shape,find a hobby etc. Just cuz this broke nikka gets p*ssy doesnt mean you can do the same if you broke with no experience. Different strokes and different folks. Keep doing what you doing bro.
 

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This!

Chicks throw it at me alot...I have a hairstyle that stands out so I stick out everywhere I go. Last summer my confidence was at an all time high.

Lately too much shyt been going on my life and I'm not confident as much. I pretty much ignore chicks now until I start bettering myself.

Furniture for my apartment, stack my bread, start BJJ.

Tryna get at chicks when you're insecure about shyt is bad news. I spent last year losing weight, not giving a damn about women and it all worked out because I started to notice women threw it at me and I started to pickup signals easier.

Also realize women aren't some fukking rare creatures. Most are too damn shy,nervous and just wanting a breh to step to em...atleast here in Seattle because that shyt doesnt happen often. :pachaha:
what's ya hairstyle? rocking them august alsina curls?
 
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