why does masculinity always have to be "proved"

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.go get yo azz beat by ya brother and see how ya girl start lookin across the table at ya brother at thanksgiving dinners from now on.

But as an ALPHA I would be hard wired to understand the importance of my brother's strength and how it would be more beneficial to US as a pack then him or me, solo. I would also understand that me, him or ANYONE is above the survival or our way of life where there's equal sacrifice, and if he challenges that for his own selfish reasons I would have to sympathetically kill him and the pack would understand.

Masculinity has to be "proved" to the "weak" who covet the "power" and not the responsibility ...Alphas become alphas by being strong enough to appreciate the betas and not dismiss them as not needed. Subsequently he's GIVEN leadership, and it could NEVER be taken.

Wolves and Lions both either kill or abandon selfish leaders....so do humans.
 

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It's doesn't "always" have to be proven, just sometimes.

If you feel like you're "always" urged to prove it, then that's another thread...
 

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i find it interesting that men always have to "prove" their masculinity in some way...it reeks of insecurity

i also find it interesting how women allow men to abuse their masculinity on them
Because you have to earn the right to call yourself a man. Its this way in every society on the planet. Even someone living in a fukking jungle has tests to prepare and prove a boy is ready to be a man. Sad, so many of you want to be bytch nikkas.

Most fakkits dont want to be men which is why you get fukked, like women.
 
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I don't have to prove my masculinity, people prove it for me by insulting me. I've figured out that I make men insecure, even my own cousin tries to throw shade at me.

But I pay it no mind, I don't care what people think or say to me, I'm in my own world, on my own time, with my own dreams.

An older woman called me an Intellectual Alpha Male today, I like that.
 

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But as an ALPHA I would be hard wired to understand the importance of my brother's strength and how it would be more beneficial to US as a pack then him or me, solo. I would also understand that me, him or ANYONE is above the survival or our way of life where there's equal sacrifice, and if he challenges that for his own selfish reasons I would have to sympathetically kill him and the pack would understand.

Masculinity has to be "proved" to the "weak" who covet the "power" and not the responsibility ...Alphas become alphas by being strong enough to appreciate the betas and not dismiss them as not needed. Subsequently he's GIVEN leadership, and it could NEVER be taken.

Wolves and Lions both either kill or abandon selfish leaders....so do humans.

Your brother being a alpha would already know how you think,and thinking one step ahead and knowing that you THINK your an alpha too he would just sympathetically kill you as you are trying to reason with him "But bro were stronger as a unit:why:"....on some Highlander there can only be one shyt:pachaha:

Masculinity has to be proven to the weak and sometimes the strong too imo:manny:..maybe "proved" is a bad word becuz it doesn't always need to be proven but when it does it does if you ask me....theres a time and a place....for example some women may succumb to you on the simple foundation your the man and you have balls,some women you might have to "prove" that too....the word "prove" sounds negative as it sounds like im trying to convince them....but really im just being me,the proof is onesided....some kids need to touch the stove to prove to THEMSELF the stove is hot,but the stove is just bein a stove.:pachaha:.
 

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Cause nikkas is fakkits

"I need to know how much of a man you are" :why: nikkas soundin like @Yung Yogurt proteges

Not to mention beating your chest and fighting nikkas in the street doesnt make u a man. Hoodrats do that, homos like the one Mr Cee got caught with do that.
nikka i'm a mans man. Don't compare these new school nikkas to the kid...I'm an 80's baby ock. I was born in the the middle of the greatest era on earth boy boy. don't u ever forget that either homey. Sure, I might bang a nikka back out here and there, but nothing is not gangsta about the way i get down. I might dig out my homie and then give him a pack to move on the low. It's that real.
 

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Men take care of their families. Men build up their communities not tear them down. Men go to work and provide for their wives and children. Men take care of their responsibilities.
And what if you don't want to get married and have kids?
 

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If a nikka tests me tryna fight me or disrespect me then he's gettin what he asked for :birdman: it ain't about. "Provin masculinity" it's about showing a nikka you ain't playin games

Being tested is the only time you should have to prove yourself. You shouldn't be going out of your way to test yourself. That's how nikkas end up biting off more than they can chew.

And what if you don't want to get married and have kids?

There's plenty other things a man can do.
 

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I'm glad you brought that up. Maybe these coli nikkas will take your words to heed and stop trying to define femininity and what a woman should or shouldn't do. Every other thread in this bytch is from a weak ass nikka venting his frustration that women don't conform to his fukked up ideals.

This.
 
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