Why don’t couples last after having a baby??

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

So has he tried to work out with her, come up with a work out plan for her to follow?

yes

She has a flexible schedule and works for her father. She had an extended matt leave and when she came back she was working like half days maybe 3 times a week. Her husband and her moms take care of the kid because they all live together. The most she has been willing to do is go on a weak diet she never sticks to. She is just used to a bad lifestyle, her whole family fat but she married a personal trainer cuz she like swole nikkaz.

 

[MaxPain]

You guys are on the outside looking in. I’m willing to bet you’ve never sat these women down to ask the nitty gritty details of their pregnancy and postpartum recovery, even if they were smooth and problem free. I doubt these women are talking to their man’s friends or men at work about their postpartum body changes lol. All you see is the result and not the process. I think it really depends on the body and the genetics. They say every woman is different and within every woman, every pregnancy is different. My friend had a baby in her early 20s and said she felt fine, no problems, got her abs back quick. She just recently had her second at 29 and she gained a little more weight, had issues walking and regaining stability in her pelvis, is more tired, and on and on. It really is a mind blowing process. It’s so varied but so similar. You’re doing yourself a disservice by assuming and not learning.

Do people need to hold onto the extra 20-30 lbs? No, but a little education on why some do goes a long way if you want to inspire change.

Huh?

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Exactly! that dude is a coward and should have never gotten married.

meh

you are being disingenuous

Women always got an excuse on why they cheating. "I'm not getting attention" or whatever classic cliche lies y'all gotta tell yourselves while taking outside dikk and y'all be cheerleading your friends too. That's why bishes love the titanic and notebook type romanticized spinage of said foul act.

I can't be mad at my nikka if he tried. He gotta eat. He's a great father too. His wife I don't care for. The family I suspect they are closet bigots and we have fought many times, they always sneak diss my nikka when he isn't around like their daughter could have did better with her fat ass.

 

[Diondon]

How did everything boil down to weight?

 

[Nintendough]

Because hoes forget the man comes #1. They stop fukking, sucking, stop staying in shape, make excuses for having a kangaroo pouch after like 5 years later.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

It's deeper than that and I usually don't cosign cheaters but her family is white trash and he the only nikka that married a cac

I know her folks ignorant because I worked with her father and he stayed hating on my nikka with some slick shyt acting like his daughter deserves better (white man)... so I don't care what he do cuz that old fukks daughter couldn't do any better. Her mom seen her wedding picture surrounded by Black groomsmen and told the daughter she looked like a whore... facts.

If my nikka get what's coming to him it has to be positive cuz he can't hold anymore L's

Thanks for your wishes tho

What does her family being trash have to do with her... you know what, never mind.

 

[PewPew]

We didn't make it because I was all about me. I didn't take her feelings into account. Honestly I wasn't ready for a relationship. I didn't know what it took. She did though, she treated me like a king. She moved on and so did I but we still take amazing care raising our child together.

I got chills reading this because it perfectly describes my situation with my ex/daughter's mom.

 

[Ronnie Macho]

Nah I got pregnant to have someone who has my blood running through them. I love my husband but he’s just the donor.

Lol...

 

[InfinateOpulance]

meh

you are being disingenuous

Women always got an excuse on why they cheating. "I'm not getting attention" or whatever classic cliche lies y'all gotta tell yourselves while taking outside dikk and y'all be cheerleading your friends too. That's why bishes love the titanic and notebook type romanticized spinage of said foul act.

I can't be mad at my nikka if he tried. He gotta eat. He's a great father too. His wife I don't care for. The family I suspect they are closet bigots and we have fought many times, they always sneak diss my nikka when he isn't around like their daughter could have did better with her fat ass.

If gaining weight was all it took for him to cheat he shouldn't have gotten married. Its not ok to cheat on your wife just because she had your baby and got fat. As a personal trainer I'm sure he had to study the human body so weight gain after pregnancy shouldn't have shocked him so much. The vows say for better or worse. That includes weight gain. If the roles were reversed and if he gained weight from not being able to work out because he was injured, you would not be so understanding if she decided to cheat.

Both you and your friend are shallow af.

 

[MaxPain]

If gaining weight was all it took for him to cheat he shouldn't have gotten married. Its not ok to cheat on your wife just because she had your baby and got fat. As a personal trainer I'm sure he had to study the human body so weight gain after pregnancy shouldn't have shocked him so much. The vows say for better or worse. That includes weight gain. If the roles were reversed and if he gained weight from not being able to work out because he was injured, you would not be so understanding if she decided to cheat.

Both you and your friend are shallow af.

Lol u must be fat

 

[Hovsta]

Imma keep my short and sweet (pause)

Men(17-25) aren’t ready to have kids because they are too selfish. They haven’t explored alll there options and don’t have patience for kids

Women (16-30) want the perfect fairy tale scenario. Where there baby never cry’s and there aren’t no arguments ever and the man is getting bags and she is free to do her liberal arts shyt

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

If gaining weight was all it took for him to cheat he shouldn't have gotten married. Its not ok to cheat on your wife just because she had your baby and got fat. As a personal trainer I'm sure he had to study the human body so weight gain after pregnancy shouldn't have shocked him so much. The vows say for better or worse. That includes weight gain. If the roles were reversed and if he gained weight from not being able to work out because he was injured, you would not be so understanding if she decided to cheat.

Both you and your friend are shallow af.

I'm sorry you feel that way. I'm not shallow at all I just have standards I stick to same as most women. I'm 35 I been around the block and been more than understanding to women and accepted their flaws because I liked them as people. I'm not doing that anymore. Live and learn. Don't compromise yourself for anyone.

When I was a skinny breh women were always telling me to gain weight I never told a girl to loose weight not even the fat bytch I lived with. She seen one rinkle on my face and bought a nikka anti-aging cream for my birthday

What if I hit her with some Slim Jim

My girl now stay active running, climbing she's always up for it and reflects my personality. We go hard together.

 

[Cat piss martini]

Manbearpigizm.

 

[drugxglory]

Seen this shyt on facebook

 

[InfinateOpulance]

I'm sorry you feel that way. I'm not shallow at all I just have standards I stick to same as most women. I'm 35 I been around the block and been more than understanding to women and accepted their flaws because I liked them as people. I'm not doing that anymore. Live and learn. Don't compromise yourself for anyone.

When I was a skinny breh women were always telling me to gain weight I never told a girl to loose weight not even the fat bytch I lived with. She seen one rinkle on my face and bought a nikka anti-aging cream for my birthday

What if I hit her with some Slim Jim

My girl now stay active running, climbing she's always up for it and reflects my personality. We go hard together.

That's great you and your girl can workout together. I still feel the same way about everything else tho.