Why don’t couples last after having a baby??

[datnigDASTARDLY]

It's also a wake up call for grandparents and those that traditionally help out with kids. Back when they had you it was a different time.

Unlike prior generations fukking EVERYONE is strapped for cash nowadays. So you can't rely on Grandma helping slide that extra $90 on diapers cuz everyone is financially stressed or want more for their effort.

When I had my first, lil man was in NICU for a couple weeks...guess how much that bill was? It was obscene breh

It's crazy

 

[2-Digit]

Nah I got pregnant to have someone who has my blood running through them. I love my husband but he’s just the donor.

I seriously hope you’re joking

That child also has his blood running through

And you may have been saying it in jest, but there are a lot of women who feel this way regardless of relationship status, and that’s a huge problem. It can create resentment being like that.

“Our bills”
“Our money”
“Our house”
“Our car”
“My child”

He’s not a donor. He’s the father.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

Is there any scientific proof of this accusation OP?

 

[Aimé]

We didn't make it because I was all about me. I didn't take her feelings into account. Honestly I wasn't ready for a relationship. I didn't know what it took. She did though, she treated me like a king. She moved on and so did I but we still take amazing care raising our child together.

i just wanted to quote and highlight this powerful growth.

carry on

 

[Rawtid]

The couple probably didn't like each other all that much before the baby came. Sex is all fun and games until the woman gets pregnant.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

I know plenty of women that lost weight after the baby. Didn't put on much in the first place . People are calling OP shallow for pointing out some real shyt.

I have a friend who is a personal trainer and his wife gained weight after the firrtborn and refused to work out. She doesn't represent him and is hurting his image as an effective trainer. He is also surrounded by beautiful women. I don't blame him for cheating at all. You can't be talking about baby weight years later.

 

[FukyourFort]

I seriously hope you’re joking

That child also has his blood running through

And you may have been saying it in jest, but there are a lot of women who feel this way regardless of relationship status, and that’s a huge problem. It can create resentment being like that.

“Our bills”
“Our money”
“Our house”
“Our car”
“My child”

He’s not a donor. He’s the father.

I won't comment on what she meant since she could be joking but some women do actually feel that way. You also got nikkas that feel its their right to have babies by multiple women. Basically treating them as vessels.

 

[ManxOfxThexYear]

Love...that's why...

No it isn't.



My daughter did not come cause of love.

 

[1thouwow]

You're a shallow individual.


Also, a lot of people don't understand and/or lack the mental fortitude it takes to raise a child.. but it's one of those mistakes you can't undo so they(most times the mother) just has live with it. I mean take a look at some of the childless people around you.. friends/coworkers/relatives.. look at the decisions they make in life and ask yourself if that person is mentally equipped to handle parenthood.

Gems

 

[street heat]

once the need to reproduce is satisfied, some people want to go back to the freedom they had when they were single. your significant other has server their purpose now they can beat feet

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

And y’all outchea reppin’ #RawGang

Play with your emotional and financial well-being for 30 minutes of pleasure brehs

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

The first thing OP does is blame a woman for her body changes after giving birth to a human

shyt is ridiculous man. It's at the point now where reading a thread on women here is almost a guaranteed L. I can't get that time back

 

[Gold]

Have kids out of wedlock and be surprised when people split brehs

 

[OGBIGBOY187]

Asked these brawds on FB why do they keep having kids with these nikkas they bash so much and the bytch deleted me

 

[Rawtid]

Have kids out of wedlock and be surprised when people split brehs

This would be a valid point if it didn't happen in committed relationships and marriages as well.