Why don't guys want to date me?

[Jabadahut]

ugy people approach and link up everyday

what world do you live in where ugly people aren't together, do you walk outside with your head down?

So if I'm not getting approached then is it me being ugly? I'm trying to understand your convo and it's making somewhat sense.

 

[Fade Runner 2049]

Any pics brehs?

 

[SuperGrizzy]

ugy people approach and link up everyday

what world do you live in where ugly people aren't together, do you walk outside with your head down?

I don't really see ugly couples TOO much, but 3 I'm aware they're out there


because they settled.


Nah all bullshyt aside, I said probably

 

[Jabadahut]

Yeah I shouldn't focus my energy on him because it's not worth it. You're a late bloomer? Explain please?

I do overthink a lot. I wake up sometimes and stress about little things.

 

[Jabadahut]

I posted a pic

Any pics brehs?

 

[Eddy Gordo]

Yo. You telling me only two dudes ever hit on you. In the military? Where thirst is a way of life and dudes routinely wife up strippers and fat slovenly chicks after a check.

Where you stationed? How many brehs in your squad? You being overseas the only thing that explains this. Dudes want some foreign tings why they got the chance.

 

[Jabadahut]

okay serious response time since I just seen the pic. Your 20ish so don't worry about being in a relationship focus on bringing shyt to the table. You said you want to travel that is the best way to find out who you really are and developing life long skill sets. Travelling forces you to be more social by stepping outside of your comfortable zone. Go do the teach English circuit.

That cute shyt don't last and if thats all you bring to the table any man of means will reup for the latest cute model, best believe. Focus on bringing shyt to the table. Now if you want a simp ass sucker than do cute they will get you all you want without making you better as a person. I have told my girls friends this that complain about not finding guys. Best of luck!

I will keep what you said in mind. And thank you!

 

[Donald Trumps Twitter]

Wtf, how do you post a damn photo on here?

20 and yet you are as tech-savvy as an old person

 

[SuperGrizzy]

In my eyes, the guys who did approach me weren't ugly.

Well, it's definitely what @King Musa said your arua probably leaves a lot to be desired. Probably you carry yourself in an unapproachable manner

I don't really know you so I'm guessing

 

[Donald Trumps Twitter]

Never heard of a skinny broad with big t*ts and an ok face not having thirst all around them,



Something aint adding up

 

[kwazzy100]

All of this is why.


Okay:
- it doesn't matter what happens in the Army, that's your (and everyone elses') time to slut it up. Don't act like you don't know what I mean.

- stop doing chit with "friends" If you're out to catch. Go by yourself. You don't need other (perhaps more attractive) folks there
squashing your game. Here's something you should've learned by now if you're an adult: All other females are your competition
for dudes.

- that "introverted" chit ain't cute. Knock it off.
Even if you seem "chill" and "approachable", if you get approached the dude is gonna want some interaction.
Don't get scurred, or you don't get served. Shake it fast.

- fucc that other nicca talmbat he stressin' over gettin' a lesbian back. That sounds like dumb nicca chit, for one.
For two, like you said I think you only sweatin' him because he kept it all the way 100 with you. So when the next dude
comes up to you and he comes correct, you won't even care about other cuzz no mo'.



...and really, it's not a rule that you have to be dating like that anyway.

You sound like every other 20 year old chick in the world, I would know because I dated one, she was 19 though

You sound just like her too. Overthinking things, always jumping to conclusions, impatient. You’re 20. You have plenty of years ahead of you to find a man that means well. I doubt you’re gonna find him in the service though

Just relax, focus on improving yourself and making money in the meantime. Again, you’re 20, there’s no need to rush anything. You sound like a good young woman with her head screwed on tight. Good luck



And oh yeah drop a couple pics

3 pages in and finally there's useful advice from non-thirsty brehs

 

[King Musa]

What that face looking like tho, don't be scared lil folk :MjGrinPat:

Ya'll nikkas are so focused on seeing some pics that ya'll don't even realize ya'll are quoting me....not her.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Lol...She linked the pic but, embedded it incorrectly so I went over to retrieve the pic thru the link and post it properly...But, @Marcelrellu quoted me and said "you look nice" instead of actually quoting her directly..hence that response. Ya'll nikkas mane...

Lol...She linked the pic but, embedded it incorrectly so I went over to retrieve the pic thru the link and post it properly...But, @Marcelrellu quoted me and said "you look nice" instead of actually quoting her directly..hence that response. Ya'll nikkas mane...

My bad musa I should of quoted her.

 

[Jabadahut]

Yo. You telling me only two dudes ever hit on you. In the military? Where thirst is a way of life and dudes routinely wife up strippers and fat slovenly chicks after a check.

Where you stationed? How many brehs in your squad? You being overseas the only thing that explains this. Dudes want some foreign tings why they got the chance.

I was in Korea for a year, but now I'm in the states in a somewhat major city. After my roommate leaves, I will be the only lower enlisted female in the company. So the exact number of males is roughly around 20ish. I am in a very small unit.

 

[Arris]

So if I'm not getting approached then is it me being ugly? I'm trying to understand your convo and it's making somewhat sense.

no I agree with @King Musa that it's the vibe you give off and/or being "one of the guys". but thats just the impression I get from the info you've provided. it would help if you listed out some of your character flaws or any social awkardness you have to help paint a better picture

you have a nice body, even if you were hit in the face you'd still have guys approaching you so it's something else