Why don't guys want to date me?

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Yeah I shouldn't focus my energy on him because it's not worth it. You're a late bloomer? Explain please?
Hitting my mid 20's, Behind most of my peers in life experience, Not much dating/relationship experience. Just started driving/purchased car at age 25. Won't finish up college until next year.

Most people my age have done or experienced all of these things already while I'm just beginning to do them so in my mind I feel that I'm behind. That's why I say I'm a late bloomer. :manny:
 

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Military guys run through those girls. So I don't think it's her aura.

She may be a he.
Nope I'm a she. But it is a known fact about females in the military.. what you said. Basically we can't win. As a female in the military, if you don't put yourself out there, then you are considered gay or just a prude. If you talk to a bunch of guys and sleep around with them, you are considered a hoe.
 

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I am a stickler on hygiene. I swear I don't smell lol. But I think I'm starting to find out why I don't get approached now.

Guys are simps, dirtbags, and degenerates (some aren't but....) so if they aren't approaching you with that type of body, you must be wildly ugly in the face or a man.

nikkas aint even seen her face and already simping i see. :laff:

And that's why I don't believe her. Unless she doesn't date Black guys and their advances don't count. :sas1:
 

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Hitting my mid 20's, Behind most of my peers in life experience, Not much dating/relationship experience. Just started driving/purchased car at age 25. Won't finish up college until next year.

Most people my age have done or experienced all of these things already while I'm just beginning to do them so in my mind I feel that I'm behind. That's why I say I'm a late bloomer. :manny:
Don't feel bad. I don't have a car or license. I was so used to good public transportation but now I'm back in the states and in a city with shytty transportation. I still don't plan on getting a car soon. Just curious, what are you studying in college?
 

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#1 this is a bad place to ask this, most these nikkas are weirdos and aint had ass ever or in years...evident by the replies...you should have even posted a pic
#2 you're applying too much pressure on yourself and probably completely overlook men approaching you in favor of guys you want
#3 as a nikka, i aint shyt and most of us arent...relax and stop stressing us...unless you look like a creature or something
#4 as a 20 year old...feasibly there isnt much someone in your dating pool can offer you besides dikk...straight up....and :ehh: if you want that thats totally fine.
 

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Guys are simps, dirtbags, and degenerates (some aren't but....) so if they aren't approaching you with that type of body, you must be wildly ugly in the face or a man.



And that's why I don't believe her. Unless she doesn't date Black guys and their advances don't count. :sas1:
Black guys catch my attention first. Hey, I could be ugly in the face but no one on here will no that until I remove the markings. One thing I know for sure is that I'm not a man lol.
 

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Don't feel bad. I don't have a car or license. I was so used to good public transportation but now I'm back in the states and in a city with shytty transportation. I still don't plan on getting a car soon. Just curious, what are you studying in college?
I'm studying IT (Information Technology).
 

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Seems like you know your personality flaws, so you should work on them.

Do you normally dress like that pic? Even though I don't find anything wrong with it, I could reason that you may give off the wrong vibe to some :mjpls:

Maybe you should try dressing a little more appropriate for the occasion when you go out and let it be known you're looking :shaq:
 

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#1 this is a bad place to ask this, most these nikkas are weirdos and aint had ass ever or in years...evident by the replies...you should have even posted a pic
#2 you're applying too much pressure on yourself and probably completely overlook men approaching you in favor of guys you want
#3 as a nikka, i aint shyt and most of us arent...relax and stop stressing us...unless you look like a creature or something
#4 as a 20 year old...feasibly there isnt much someone in your dating pool can offer you besides dikk...straight up....and :ehh: if you want that thats totally fine.
I will probably delete this whole post soon. if possible. About #2, I have been told I am too hard on myself.
 
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