Why don't guys want to date me?

[SeveroDrgnfli]

I think ur fixated on the dude u described that u like and so ur ignoring other potential males.

Also it might be ur femininity. Being in the military can dampen that in some women. Some men stereotype women in the military.

Being introverted isn't a problem. It also doesn't mean u are necessarily shy. I pick up weird vibes from u so it could mean ur socially awkward which is totally different.
Expand ur social circle, work on ur self-esteem. Above all, stop only being emotionally available to guys who aren't emotionally available to you.

I was going to tag you, and yes I agree with all your points. Lol you say what I think concisely and intelligently. If I think about what I want to say I lose motivation to say it.

 

[Obreh Winfrey]

This is the shyt I wake up to? There's more simping going on in this thread than I've seen in the past month combined . Something damn sure is wrong for a thread to hit 26 pages and not go plat. Y'all should be ashamed of y'all damn selves

 

[Jabadahut]

I think ur fixated on the dude u described that u like and so ur ignoring other potential males.

Also it might be ur femininity. Being in the military can dampen that in some women. Some men stereotype women in the military.

Being introverted isn't a problem. It also doesn't mean u are necessarily shy. I pick up weird vibes from u so it could mean ur socially awkward which is totally different.
Expand ur social circle, work on ur self-esteem. Above all, stop only being emotionally available to guys who aren't emotionally available to you.

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How long have you been lurking this site?
Try here on Wednesday, where they have relationship discussions. Black fellas: A place for men of all shades • r/Blackfellas
I don't follow, but it may help.

I used to lurk around on some posts but never any post like this. I guess a few weeks. That shows that females really don't be posting stuff like this on the coli. I'm a risk taker.

 

[Gold]

Come hold this L op

 

[Jabadahut]

Come hold this L op

I been holding L's. That's why my ass single

 

[Gold]

This is the shyt I wake up to? There's more simping going on in this thread than I've seen in the past month combined . Something damn sure is wrong for a thread to hit 26 pages and not go plat. Y'all should be ashamed of y'all damn selves

All this simpin and not a pic in sight at 7:17 in the am is a clear indicator of how alotta breh's night went last night

 

[Luna]

It could be your default facial expression. People celebrate when I smile, because apparently I have a mean mug.

 

[Gold]

I been holding L's. That's why my ass single

Being single is better than a relationship.

Stop wasting your time chasing men and go stack some bread

 

[AceMan]

So what I learned from posting on this site is that it'should not reddit. I use reddit a lot. I also learned that yall won't believe someone unless they post pictures. I did appreciate most of the advice tho but I learned my lesson about this site lol

Then take this neg and bounce until you’re ready to drop pics forreal

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

I was going to tag you, and yes I agree with all your points. Lol you say what I think concisely and intelligently. If I think about what I want to say I lose motivation to say it.

Lmao! Thanks! I think @Larry Lambo is pithier than me. Actually @Poitier and @BrokePhiBroke are good at cuttin thru bullshyt too.

I be literally writing long post b/c my brain takes these mental journeys when processing shyt. It's rarely nice clean linear logic b/c I have too many connections to make inside. It doesn't help the fact that I get easily distracted by shyt too. Lmao!

 

[Jabadahut]

It could be your default facial expression. People celebrate when I smile, because apparently I have a mean mug.

Never thougot about that! People ask me if I'm okay all the time and its annoying because I look sad naturally. If I'm just chillen, I have that face. But if I smiled all the time even when no one is talking to me, that would be weird too. I can't win lol.

 

[Jabadahut]

Being single is better than a relationship.

Stop wasting your time chasing men and go stack some bread

My brother said the same thing when I used to complain to him about stuff like that. Even my friends. They tell me this stuff but still jump from one relationship to another. So it's like they can't stand being single.

 

[Gold]

My brother said the same thing when I used to complain to him about stuff like that. Even my friends. They tell me this stuff but still jump from one relationship to another. So it's like they can't stand being single.

Nah they just like the benefits. Dikk and free meals.

Don't overcomplicate this, if all your friends and family are telling you the same thing you should listen.

Trust me, I'm TheColi's resident bad decision maker. Stay your ass single

 

[Jabadahut]

Then take this neg and bounce until you’re ready to drop pics forreal

A neg won't affect my life sir. And no, I won't post another photo

 

[Jabadahut]

Nah they just like the benefits. Dikk and free meals.

Don't overcomplicate this, if all your friends and family are telling you the same thing you should listen.

Trust me, I'm TheColi's resident bad decision maker. Stay your ass single

I do overcomplicate shyt and it's not good for my inner health. Thanks for your advice. I'm just going to finish my degree and travel the world. That's important to me and I shouldn't let what men think of me change my goals

 

[Luna]

Never thougot about that! People ask me if I'm okay all the time and its annoying because I look sad naturally. If I'm just chillen, I have that face. But if I smiled all the time even when no one is talking to me, that would be weird too. I can't win lol.

Yeah, can't change that natural expression. What's neutral to us may look unapproachable to the rest.
I reckon if you have a sad look or if you emanate insecurity/innocence, the most you'll attract is a predator. When you do find someone, don't be so quick to tell them you've had limited romantic interactions.