Why don't guys want to date me?
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The BasedFather
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Da hell wrong with you thirsty simp niqqas 
Y’all act like she build like prime pinky and look like Megan Good in the face. She hasn’t even shown her face
Y’all act like she build like prime pinky and look like Megan Good in the face. She hasn’t even shown her face
I was thinking the same thing... It was kind of odd of the reactions because my face isn't shown.Da hell wrong with you thirsty simp niqqas
Y’all act like she built like prime pinky and look like Megan Goode in the face. She hasn’t even shown her face
I know this post will sound whiney and over dramatic but I just want to hear a guys insight on this. I have an older brother who I could probably talk to about this but he's overprotective and I'm sure he doesn't want to hear me complain about this stuff. Anyway, I'm 20, female and in the Army. I've been in about two years. I have a problem with over thinking. One of things I think about a lot is why I haven't had dating experience or had a guy even want to date me. Yes I know I should approach too, but from my observations I had two guys approach me but they were drunk. One was a weird sergeant (long story about him) who tried hitting on all the females and another was a guy friend who told me how he felt. He also said that I'm "wifey " material when sober. Yet when I eventually
grew closer to him and I returned those feelings, he said that he doesn't want to ruin the friendship or make things awkward at work. He also said he would probably screw it up because he is trying to get back with his ex who is married to a woman. It did make me feel some type of way but I told him I understand since I didn't return my feelings that night drunkenly told me. I just wanted to get to know him more because he was new to the unit... After that we still talked and hung out but now he acts distant and weird. So some days he'll joke around with me and another day he acts cold. He said me rejecting him the first time wasn't the issue . He said it's him. I still don't get it though.
I guess I went a little off topic. I mentioned that friend because it is bothering me about how he is acting toward me and I still have feelings for him. He's the only guy I've had strong feelings for... probably because he's the only guy who approached me directly and told me he likes me. What I don't understand is why some guys will say so much good things to a girl but not date her. What's the purpose of that?
Another thing I notice is that guys choose my friends over me. I don't think I'm ugly personally and strangers tell me I'm beautiful. I'm certainly not a dime or a 10 though. Personality... hard to describe to people who don't know me but I am approachable and introverted. The reason why I say I'm approachable is that I attract male and female friends. They all said that I seemed like a chill person and was friendly. I'm not trying to make myself sound perfect because I'm not. I can be very sensitive and jump to conclusions. I can also be too defensive when someone wants to debate with me. I enjoy learning languages, game of thrones fan, harry potter fan, going to school for political science, and I love to travel. Do you guys think me being kind of a nerd has a lot to do with why I've been single my whole life and me not having a curvy body (slim thick)? Most of my friends are and they can have any guy they want. It's not even just their bodies that attract men... I can't pinpoint what else it is but if a thing for one guy doesn't work out, they have others waiting in line. And I'm over here like I can't even get the guy i like to date me and I'm a loner over here lol.
Guys, I can't remember how I discovered this website but I would like input. I can take criticism and if some of you find this post ridiculous, I don't mind. I'm just saying how I feel. Also, if what I said above doesn't make sense, just ask me and I'll elaborate more.
Imma break it down real quick... You come off as a dude in your writing. And that's how you come across in real life.
It sounds like people claiming you as wifey material don't want to call you a square. You most likely dress modestly and there's no problem with that but you're burying your features.
Remember those nerdy chicks in high school movies? That's you. When they remove the glasses and have body fitting clothes they get looks. You don't have to be an IG slore but you don't have an identity.
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Keep thinking that. I won't change your mind
Negged
These guys giving serious advice to a troll...
joeychizzle
光復香港，時代革命
Stupid hoe wont post pics after 16 pages
No wonder your best option trying to get with a dyke
Hop off the coli and on some dikk
No wonder your best option trying to get with a dyke
Hop off the coli and on some dikk
So angry I seeStupid hoe wont post pics after 16 pages
No wonder your best option trying to get with a dyke
Hop off the coli and on some dikk
Well this has been interesting. I can see why some of you think I am a troll. It's very understandable but I'm not. I don't know much about this site but I can guarantee I am not trolling. Those that gave me their opinions besides the trolling stuff, I appreciate your input!
Since you are in the service, then maybe you can request to be stationed overseas? As for style of dress, maybe you can spruce up your gear a lil which may help attract potential suitors.
Regarding guys and age, you may have to date older, but not too old. Someone who is more mature and got his stuff together. But, I say definitely travel, join special interest groups, dating sites and attend various events and venues where there are a lot of guys.
When you do get out, move to a big city as opposed to a small town and continue to travel. Eventually, you will find that special guy. Just be sure to get your education, stack your paper and think positive along with be patient. Good luck!! :-)
Thank you! Yeah I should wear something more stylish so I see where you coming from. I was in Korea but I got orders to a not so typical duty station in the states. It's very rare but I do regret not filling out a form to go to Germany next. I am saving up leave and money to travel to Europe soon!
