Why don't guys want to date me?

Black Cher

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This is @HotChocolate alt account. Im convinced

nikka I’m not in the military :dahell:

If I was this would be me on my way to your house right now...
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Why do you say that? I do sound kind of dumb over thinking what men think of me anyway
You're not supposed to over-think anything but don't be shamed because you care about the opposite sex and how they see you. Don't be shamed for wanting to build and start a family with someone. Now I didn't read your entire OP or through the thread like that to know if that's what you want or not.

I'm just calling out the "it's better being single, fukk men and just get money" mentality. No it's not better to be single and I suspect you realize that which is evident by you even making this thread. One of the main reasons that our community is so dysfunction is because we've been conditioned to not value family. We're purposely conditioned as blacks to be on some self centered individual shyt and it's keeping us weak and dependent on our oppressors.
Yeah whatever you do don't focus on bettering yourself :snoop:

Foh :camby:
You basically said "it's better to be single, fukk men, get money". Getting money doesn't necessarily mean "bettering yourself". You didn't say anything g about bettering yourself. Clown.
 

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You're not supposed to over-think anything but don't be shamed because you care about the opposite sex and how they see you. Don't be shamed for wanting to build and start a family with someone. Now I didn't read your entire OP or through the thread like that to know if that's what you want or not.

I'm just calling out the "it's better being single, fukk men and just get money" mentality. No it's not better to be single and I suspect you realize that which is evident by you even making this thread. One of the main reasons that our community is so dysfunction is because we've been conditioned to not value family. We're purposely conditioned as blacks to be on some self centered individual shyt and it's keeping us weak and dependent on our oppressors.

You basically said "it's better to be single, fukk men, get money". Getting money doesn't necessarily mean "bettering yourself". You didn't say anything g about bettering yourself. Clown.

Look at this emotional nikka.:mjlol:

Maybe you should go stack some bread too, it'll calm ya nerves :umad:
 

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Look at this emotional nikka.:mjlol:

Maybe you should go stack some bread too, it'll calm ya nerves :umad:
I'd bet my bread is stacked higher than your geek ass with your your 20 posts a day average. Plus you're a no life having single dude.
 

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You sound like every other 20 year old chick in the world, I would know because I dated one, she was 19 though :snoop:

You sound just like her too. Overthinking things, always jumping to conclusions, impatient. You’re 20. You have plenty of years ahead of you to find a man that means well. I doubt you’re gonna find him in the service though :huhldup:

Just relax, focus on improving yourself and making money in the meantime. Again, you’re 20, there’s no need to rush anything. You sound like a good young woman with her head screwed on tight. Good luck :salute:



And oh yeah drop a couple pics :youngsabo:

She probably won't listen to you breh. :yeshrug:
 
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