Why don't mothers typically put their sons on game?

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My mom and dad both put me onto excellent game. I admire them cause even though they might of had their disagreements with each other they are still together after 35+ years.

Mom told me....never live with a woman before marriage
Dad told me...make sure before you get married you think about if it's worth it and if you really think that person is worth it
My mom and sisters scolded me about making sure I respected women after they got mad at me for having nudie magazines in my collection.
Dad scolded me for making Cs....which in turn forced me to get Bs and As.
Both of them warned me about getting into dangerous activities that might make me end up in jail and lose my livelihood and job opportunities.
Since my Dad has his own medical practice when I was younger, I would always hang out in the lobby on saturdays and sundays while he did his rounds, especially at the hospital
IF it weren't for my mom....I would of never started skateboarding....she bought me my first skateboard
My mom told me that if I wanted to keep a good woman around, I had to be a better man
Dad told me always that I was his best son in the world and my mom always told me she couldn't be happier to have a son like me.

Alot about love and relationships I had to find out on my own.

But it was really my Grandma, along with my Dad, and Mom that pushed me to be the person I am today.
 

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  1. get an education: common sense
  2. have your shyt together: common sense
  3. be upwardly mobile: common sense
  4. know your worth: common sense.
Parents don't have to put their children "up on game" about the opposite sex, they just have to instill in their children good values and the children will do just fine.

If you get used by a woman and you allow it to happen perpetually, that's on you because anyone who know's their worth will not put up with that kind of nonsense.

If a woman leaves you because you're not doing anything with your life, that's on you because why should she put up with that.

nikkas get in relationships and become lazy and entitled children who expect things to stay good because they're good in the moment, completely oblivious to the fact that people will only allow themselves to deal with bullshyt up to a point before they make their way towards the exit.

But it's not common sense when you're a child :heh:
the hell are you even talking about?
The role of a parent is to bestow wisdom and knowledge to their children so they can manoeuvre through life with more ease than their parents did.
You would say literally anything to cape for women.

What children are taught on television and movies is toxic.
That women are the weaker sex that'll "love you for who you are" :pachaha:, when in reality women love you for what you provide. That's shyt that every young man NEEDS to know.
It provides motivation and also brings them down to earth.
The brainwashing that we go through that we'll meet our soul mate who will love us for who are is nonsense.
As a man things will not be handed to you. You have to work hard for everything you get in this world.
Once you became the best man you can be, you are in a position to choose women that are of great calibre, beauty and virtue. It's not difficult to understand.
 

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Before I hit puberty my mom always told me to wear a condom because women lie. She pounded that shyt into my head from a young age and I am forever grateful. Ever since I got over the initial lust of p*ssy, it has never been on a pedestal and I've never felt the need to impress women with anything than who I am because my mom was so #HOH :ohlawd:
 

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I'd literally tell my son to stay away from women like me. I'm a cheater, liar and I get men to use them. Not because I want to but a lot of times it's something I don't even know I'm doing. The only redeemable trait I have in relationships is honesty. I won't lie because I'm not afraid to lose you.

Regardless my son won't be played because if he brings a chick home I'll immediately be able to smell if she's like me. My mother told my brothers the same. My mother is a cold hearted woman that made my dad do all the work. She's a mean ass lady. I get my ain't shytness from her and am with a nikka who's a pushover like my dad. I'd want more for my son tho.
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I'd literally tell my son to stay away from women like me. I'm a cheater, liar and I get men to use them. Not because I want to but a lot of times it's something I don't even know I'm doing. The only redeemable trait I have in relationships is honesty. I won't lie because I'm not afraid to lose you.

Regardless my son won't be played because if he brings a chick home I'll immediately be able to smell if she's like me. My mother told my brothers the same. My mother is a cold hearted woman that made my dad do all the work. She's a mean ass lady. I get my ain't shytness from her and am with a nikka who's a pushover like my dad. I'd want more for my son tho.

@Matt504 bu bu bu but all women are good :mjlol:
 

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I can kind of understand where OP is coming from since I was raised by a single mother and felt I could've used some game, but in reality men don't need game. Men just need to be men. And indeed that's what mother's try and teach their sons.
 

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But it's not common sense when you're a child :heh:
the hell are you even talking about?
The role of a parent is to bestow wisdom and knowledge to their children so they can manoeuvre through life with more ease than their parents did.
You would say literally anything to cape for women.

What children are taught on television and movies is toxic.
That women are the weaker sex that'll "love you for who you are" :pachaha:, when in reality women love you for what you provide. That's shyt that every young man NEEDS to know.
It provides motivation and also brings them down to earth.
The brainwashing that we go through that we'll meet our soul mate who will love us for who are is nonsense.
As a man things will not be handed to you. You have to work hard for everything you get in this world.
Once you became the best man you can be, you are in a position to choose women that are of great calibre, beauty and virtue. It's not difficult to understand.

Again, if parents raise their children to be decent human beings with good values, the rest will come with experience.

Imagine the scenario of a mother trying to explain to her son that women will only love you for what he can provide, naturally as a child he will apply this rationale to every woman he interacts with and as a child who can't really provide anything to any woman, he will conclude that none of the women in his life actually love him.

If the concept of working hard because things won't be handed to you is a difficult concept for a child to grasp, then it's because the parent is setting a terrible example.
@Matt504 bu bu bu but all women are good :mjlol:

not sure where I suggested that all women or men were good.
 
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I'd literally tell my son to stay away from women like me. I'm a cheater, liar and I get men to use them. Not because I want to but a lot of times it's something I don't even know I'm doing. The only redeemable trait I have in relationships is honesty. I won't lie because I'm not afraid to lose you.

Regardless my son won't be played because if he brings a chick home I'll immediately be able to smell if she's like me. My mother told my brothers the same. My mother is a cold hearted woman that made my dad do all the work. She's a mean ass lady. I get my ain't shytness from her and am with a nikka who's a pushover like my dad. I'd want more for my son tho.

:mjlol:
 

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I'd literally tell my son to stay away from women like me. I'm a cheater, liar and I get men to use them. Not because I want to but a lot of times it's something I don't even know I'm doing. The only redeemable trait I have in relationships is honesty. I won't lie because I'm not afraid to lose you.

Regardless my son won't be played because if he brings a chick home I'll immediately be able to smell if she's like me. My mother told my brothers the same. My mother is a cold hearted woman that made my dad do all the work. She's a mean ass lady. I get my ain't shytness from her and am with a nikka who's a pushover like my dad. I'd want more for my son tho.
Is this an example of inception?:ohhh:
 

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My mom and dad both put me onto excellent game. I admire them cause even though they might of had their disagreements with each other they are still together after 35+ years.

Mom told me....never live with a woman before marriage
Dad told me...make sure before you get married you think about if it's worth it and if you really think that person is worth it
My mom and sisters scolded me about making sure I respected women after they got mad at me for having nudie magazines in my collection.
Dad scolded me for making Cs....which in turn forced me to get Bs and As.
Both of them warned me about getting into dangerous activities that might make me end up in jail and lose my livelihood and job opportunities.
Since my Dad has his own medical practice when I was younger, I would always hang out in the lobby on saturdays and sundays while he did his rounds, especially at the hospital
IF it weren't for my mom....I would of never started skateboarding....she bought me my first skateboard
My mom told me that if I wanted to keep a good woman around, I had to be a better man
Dad told me always that I was his best son in the world and my mom always told me she couldn't be happier to have a son like me.

Alot about love and relationships I had to find out on my own.

But it was really my Grandma, along with my Dad, and Mom that pushed me to be the person I am today.
Where your family from?
 

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I can kind of understand where OP is coming from since I was raised by a single mother and felt I could've used some game, but in reality men don't need game. Men just need to be men. And indeed that's what mother's try and teach their sons.
How exactly can they do this if they've never had to be men?
 

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  1. get an education: common sense
  2. have your shyt together: common sense
  3. be upwardly mobile: common sense
  4. know your worth: common sense.
Parents don't have to put their children "up on game" about the opposite sex, they just have to instill in their children good values and the children will do just fine.

If you get used by a woman and you allow it to happen perpetually, that's on you because anyone who know's their worth will not put up with that kind of nonsense.

If a woman leaves you because you're not doing anything with your life, that's on you because why should she put up with that.

nikkas get in relationships and become lazy and entitled children who expect things to stay good because they're good in the moment, completely oblivious to the fact that people will only allow themselves to deal with bullshyt up to a point before they make their way towards the exit.

Does throwing a cape on for thotties make you feel good :dame:
 
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