Why exactly do women friend zone guys?

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You can be friendzoned after the fact

Anytime a girl dumps you and offers the we can still be friends shea friendzoning you


Men are normally Friendzoned for not being assertive/aggressive enough. There's a window of opportunity for you to make your move. If you don't, it subcommunicates to her that you lack confidence. This is the ultimate deal breaker with women.
 

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Guys friendzone girls too. Its just men will still fukk you even if they don't necessarily want to be with you. :yeshrug:
Very true. I have a friend who I've friendzoned who has been into me for a few years now. And the only reason I haven't smashed is cuz she got a bf of like 8 years or some masochistic shyt like that. And I don't wanna be a home wrecker.
 

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Women don't friend zome guys
Guys put themselves there

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Nah

Men are normally Friendzoned for not being assertive/aggressive enough. There's a window of opportunity for you to make your move. If you don't, it subcommunicates to her that you lack confidence. This is the ultimate deal breaker with women.
This is true still. I remember this girl was eyeing me but I was a shook boy (no confidence days). When I did muster the courage she ain't even want anything to do with me :mjcry:
 

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they just don't find the guy sexually desirable for whatever reason.

when women say "nice" or "too nice" it means she recognizes and even appreciates that he has admirable traits, that could even make him a good mate, however, romantically/sexually, he just isn't what she wants.
 

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I'm not ashamed to say that I've been in the friendzone a couple of times.
It was self-imposed.
I saw it happening right before my very eyes and could not bring myself to stop it.


True story.

I was friends with this chick.
And I was chillin' in her dorm room.
She was blabbing about how her man was dogging her out.
Bla bla bla......here's how I ended that friendzone bullshyt.

Me: "Do you know who wouldn't treat you like garbage? Do you know who would worship the ground you walk on?"
Her: "You, right?" :comeon:


She literally made that face when she responded.
And I paused because that brief look on her face gave me my moment of clarity.
I hated myself so much for even being in her presence.


Me: "Hey, do you need anything from the store?"
Her: "No....I'm good. Are you alright?"
Me: "Yeah. I'm just gonna go grab some snacks. I'll be right back."
Her: "Okay."



That was the last major conversation I had with her.
 

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I'm not ashamed to say that I've been in the friendzone a couple of times.
It was self-imposed.
I saw it happening right before my very eyes and could not bring myself to stop it.


True story.

I was friends with this chick.
And I was chillin' in her dorm room.
She was blabbing about how her man was dogging her out.
Bla bla bla......here's how I ended that friendzone bullshyt.

Me: "Do you know who wouldn't treat you like garbage? Do you know who would worship the ground you walk on?"
Her: "You, right?" :comeon:


She literally made that face when she responded.
And I paused because that brief look on her face gave me my moment of clarity.
I hated myself so much for even being in her presence.


Me: "Hey, do you need anything from the store?"
Her: "No....I'm good. Are you alright?"
Me: "Yeah. I'm just gonna go grab some snacks. I'll be right back."
Her: "Okay."



That was the last major conversation I had with her.

smart exit

make your intentions known and they say no DEPART

even the bible says

If anyone will not welcome you or listen to your words, leave that home or town and shake the dust off your feet.

you cant be friend zone if you dont accept
 

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Step 1: Say no to friendship
Step 2: tell her you want her, but not as a friend
Step 3: Wait for the inevitable phonecall that leads to sex.

Worked like a charm 3 times.:yeshrug:

Every other time, that was the end of the "friendship"

:camby:fukk that second place. Every moment spent with your "friend" is a wasted opportunity. Somebody else wants
your ass. Keep digging.
 

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@SuperCoolP_Cal Why'd you neg me for something I got repped for 4 times?

1. At the time I negged you, I had no idea whether you were repped/negged for that post nor who negged/repped you.

2. I negged you because any woman complaining about being in the friend zone is doing it ALL TYPES OF WRONG

3. :umad:
 

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I don't understand why more guys don't do the same, are you really trying to deal with EVERY woman who's willing to sleep with you?
 

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I don't mind being in the friendzone if I get the occassional puss...


If not then we can be cool af... just no best friend shyt.
 

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1) they are not attracted to you and just sparingly enjoy your company (smarten up and drop her. at least she's not wasting your money)
2) if things ever go bad with their boyfriend your choice number one. (your playing the long game. might not even work out)
3) they use you for attention, she'll use you to go to the movies or dinner while single. (the worst situation for a guy)
4) maybe they would be receptive to you but they are definitely not gonna approach you about it. (100% your fault. man up)

proly a couple other situations but Im too lazy to type them out :ehh:
 
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