Why good girls have become unicorns

[Uncle Kingpin]

The only person that can make you better is yourself.

You're going to damage a good woman if you dont change before being with her

I would make myself better if i found a worthy partner. I'm loyal, honest, communicate well. I'm a self-admitted womanizer, but that doesnt mean i'm out here trying to get with every woman. Even a killer doesnt kill every day just because they can.

 

[Uncle Kingpin]

but with all that being said, the dude who wrote this is a hypocrite, he states he loves having one-night stands, hooking up with random women etc., but then claims theres no good girls out there

Imma let you finish, but i dont know a straight single man in america who doesnt like random one night stands.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Does being a polygamist make you a bad person?
IDK about bad but it certainly makes you selfish.
We're all selfish in our own ways. I choose to be selfish in this way, but i'm selfless in others.
Polygamy is the opposite of selfless.

You are faithful to the multiple women you date?
How do you achieve that? Promise one she's the only one whose spot is reserved for Tuesdays?
I'm faithful to them in the same way a father can be faithful to multiple children. Faithful does not = monogamous. people can be faithful swingers, etc.
And what exactly does you're faithfulness consist of because you sure aren't their daddy?

I dare you to show me a positive example of a stripper.
What a weird question. How many strippers do you know to even say something silly like that. A large percent of dancers do so to get through school or take care of their familys. I know plenty of postive strippers. My bff has a postive and faithful realtionship. She is in school and does lots of charity work and she is also a stripper.
That may be a weird question to you, but not to a female who isn't in the life. Taking your clothes off for money is not positive in any way. There are no respectable strippers, just like there are no respectable bums. Both degrade themselves and beg for money, and have no shame or self-respect.
The human body is beautiful and there is nothing bad about it or seeing it. But you are coming from a sexist religious perspective so I wouldn't expect you to agree. You are entitled to you're opinion. But you are already admited that you are "a womanizer, an @sshole, a jerk, a douchebag, etc." so I don't think I'll take you as the best judge of character nor on who is and is not a good person.

You're a womanizer who doesn't deserve a good woman. Take it like a man.

 

[HoloGraphic]

No disrespect to the virtuous women of the coli....... ........but I dont think i'll ever settle down with one modern woman of today unless they're down with sharing me but me not sharing them. I currently date multiple women, they all know it cuz i'm honest and upfront. Sometimes we even go out together. But I doubt i'l ever be married in the traditional, one man one woman way. One man, 3 women? Yeah i could commit to that for life under the right circumstances. If i could combine the things i like into one woman, i'd have the perfect woman. But that's not possible.

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Great minds think alike.

How is this working out for you? Is there any jealousy? Is it a balancing act? Words of wisdom?

 

[Uncle Kingpin]

You are faithful to the multiple women you date?
How do you achieve that? Promise one she's the only one whose spot is reserved for Tuesdays?
I'm faithful to them in the same way a father can be faithful to multiple children. Faithful does not = monogamous. people can be faithful swingers, etc.
And what exactly does you're faithfulness consist of because you sure aren't their daddy?


The definition of faithful is:

1faith·ful
adjective \ˈfāth-fəl\
: having or showing true and constant support or loyalty

: deserving trust : keeping your promises or doing what you are supposed to do

: not having sex with someone who is not your wife, husband, girlfriend, or boyfriend

I'm true, supportive, loyal. I keep my promises and am a man of my word. I dont have sex outside of the relationship, only w/ my gf's. By definition, i'm faithful. Once again, monogamous does not equal faithful.

I dare you to show me a positive example of a stripper.

The human body is beautiful and there is nothing bad about it or seeing it. But you are coming from a sexist religious perspective so I wouldn't expect you to agree. You are entitled to you're opinion. But you are already admited that you are "a womanizer, an @sshole, a jerk, a douchebag, etc." so I don't think I'll take you as the best judge of character nor on who is and is not a good person.

Nice try, but dont act like stripping for dollars is equivalent to a naked sculpture. You are a prostitute. You sell your body for money.


You're a womanizer who doesn't deserve a good woman. Take it like a man.

I may or may not deserve a good woman. But I know plenty of good men who cant find a good woman either.

 

[Uncle Kingpin]

Great minds think alike.

How is this working out for you? Is there any jealousy? Is it a balancing act? Words of wisdom?

It's working out pretty well. It's definitely not orgy time. Women are too jealous to share the same bed w/o catching feelings. So when i'm with one, i dedicate that time to her alone. As far as words of wisdom, i would say be honest from the beginning. That way they can take it or leave it. Most are surprisingly ok w/ it, but only at first. Girls will agree to anything, because they think they can change you. Women nowadays wont admit it, but it's in their nature to share a man. They want a man that other girls are with. And when it's more than 2, they develop their own pack mentality so one will be the pack leader. Most problems begin and end with the leader. It's best if they get along, so they should know each other and respect each other.

 

[Ashley Banks]

It's working out pretty well. It's definitely not orgy time. Women are too jealous to share the same bed w/o catching feelings. So when i'm with one, i dedicate that time to her alone. As far as words of wisdom, i would say be honest from the beginning. That way they can take it or leave it. Most are surprisingly ok w/ it, but only at first. Girls will agree to anything, because they think they can change you. Women nowadays wont admit it, but it's in their nature to share a man. They want a man that other girls are with. And when it's more than 2, they develop their own pack mentality so one will be the pack leader. Most problems begin and end with the leader. It's best if they get along, so they should know each other and respect each other.

How are you going to say "they're ok with it only at first and they'll agree to anything because they think they can change you" then say "it's in their nature to share"

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

faith·ful(f

th

f

l)
adj.
1. Adhering firmly and devotedly, as to a person, cause, or idea; loyal.
2. Engaging in sex only with one's spouse or only with one's partner in a sexual relationship.
3. Having or full of faith.
4. Worthy of trust or belief; reliable.
5. Consistent with truth or actuality: a faithful reproduction of the portrait.

1. Clearly you are not devoted since you spend you're time in multiple relationships
2. You have mulitple partners so you clearly don't meet that criteria
4. You're admitted womanizer.

Doesn't seem like you meet the defintion in my opinion

Nice try, but dont act like stripping for dollars is equivalent to a naked sculpture. You are a prostitute. You sell your body for money.

Watching a beautiful human being dance seductively is better than any sculpture I've ever seen. Why would a replica of a human being be better than the real thing? Again, you are coming from a sexist religous background so I can under why you would be a womanizer who would be bothered by a woman experssing her sexuality...unless of course she waiting her turn while you wipe off the juices from 1 and 2.

I may or may not deserve a good woman. But I know plenty of good men who cant find a good woman either.
Well they would be better representatives than a "douchebag"

 

[HoloGraphic]

It's working out pretty well. It's definitely not orgy time. Women are too jealous to share the same bed w/o catching feelings. So when i'm with one, i dedicate that time to her alone. As far as words of wisdom, i would say be honest from the beginning. That way they can take it or leave it. Most are surprisingly ok w/ it, but only at first. Girls will agree to anything, because they think they can change you. Women nowadays wont admit it, but it's in their nature to share a man. They want a man that other girls are with. And when it's more than 2, they develop their own pack mentality so one will be the pack leader. Most problems begin and end with the leader. It's best if they get along, so they should know each other and respect each other.

With good men being so rare nowadays, they have to share.
I'm assuming this "pack leader" is the one also known as the "bottom bytch" or "den mother" the foundation of the pyramid.

Have you ever thought about how it would end with these women or what you would do if you found "the one"?Could/would you marry within the pack or find someone new?

 

[Spoonz]

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[Uncle Kingpin]

How are you going to say "they're ok with it only at first and they'll agree to anything because they think they can change you" then say "it's in their nature to share"

Any man with money, status or even something stupid as "swag" can openly date multiple women because it's in a female's nature to share a man. Regardless to how ugly he may be, women care more about making each other jealous than they ever would about looks. Women want want the next woman has.

We could take it back to any time in humanity more than 100 years ago and prior. This whole disney movie, happily ever after, one man one woman bullshyt is a lie. It benefits a woman to share a man so he will continue to provide for her offspring. Men are hard-wired biologically to spread as much seed as possible to ensure success of the species, women are hard-wired to stay with one man because 1. the child wont be a fatherless b*stard 2. sharing resources (men) helps to ensure the success of the species.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Any man with money, status or even something stupid as "swag" can openly date multiple women because it's in a female's nature to share a man. Regardless to how ugly he may be, women care more about making each other jealous than they ever would about looks. Women want want the next woman has.

We could take it back to any time in humanity more than 100 years ago and prior. This whole disney movie, happily ever after, one man one woman bullshyt is a lie. It benefits a woman to share a man so he will continue to provide for her offspring. Men are hard-wired biologically to spread as much seed as possible to ensure success of the species, women are hard-wired to stay with one man because 1. the child wont be a fatherless b*stard 2. sharing resources (men) helps to ensure the success of the species.

Does this mean it's in a woman's nature to share a man or does it mean some women will do it if they want to? If it was in a woman's nature to do it they wouldn't be ok with it "only at first". It would be natural so they would be completely ok with it, not just for a short while.

 

[Uncle Kingpin]

With good men being so rare nowadays, they have to share.
I'm assuming this "pack leader" is the one also known as the "bottom bytch" or "den mother" the foundation of the pyramid.

Have you ever thought about how it would end with these women or what you would do if you found "the one"?Could/would you marry within the pack or find someone new?

I know how it ends. The names and faces my change, but it ends when i decide to square up and settle down. I dont plan on getting married to anyone i'm with now. If I felt like she was "the one", i could settle down. Until then, imma do what i want. They can all leave at once IDGAF

 

[HoloGraphic]

faith·ful(f

th

f

l)
adj.
1. Adhering firmly and devotedly, as to a person, cause, or idea; loyal.
2. Engaging in sex only with one's spouse or only with one's partner in a sexual relationship.
3. Having or full of faith.
4. Worthy of trust or belief; reliable.
5. Consistent with truth or actuality: a faithful reproduction of the portrait.

1. Clearly you are not devoted since you spend you're time in multiple relationships
2. You have mulitple partners so you clearly don't meet that criteria
4. You're admitted womanizer.

Doesn't seem like you meet the defintion in my opinion

As long as he remains "faithful" within the confines of clearly made arrangements and agreements, of which all these women have agreed to, I don't see what the problem is.

faith·ful(f

th

f

l)
Nice try, but dont act like stripping for dollars is equivalent to a naked sculpture. You are a prostitute. You sell your body for money.

Watching a beautiful human being dance seductively is better than any sculpture I've ever seen. Why would a replica of a human being be better than the real thing? Again, you are coming from sexist religous background so I can under why you would be awomanizer who would be bothered by a woman experssing her sexualy...unless of course she waiting her turn while for you wipe off the juices from 1 and 2.

Is not man allowed to enjoy and admire the feminine figure? This is just his way of doing so. He allows many women to express their sexuality with him. He doesn't want to hurt any of them and provides a masculine figure in their lives.

faith·ful(f

th

f

l)
I may or may not deserve a good woman. But I know plenty of good men who cant find a good woman either.
Well they would be better representative than a "douchebag"

"Good guys" and "bad boys" are the problem. We are simply men. You want the morals and dependability of the "good guy" and the assertiveness and strength of the "bad boy". A man should have both.
It is the bytchassness of the "good guy" that allows women to hurt him and leads to his failure in relationships. And the the badboy hurts the girls and so on and so on.

Kingpin is set up so they all know what their getting into. All is fair after that.

 

[Blackking]

OP is on some Warren Jeffs shyts. By good I think he means low self esteem.

you don't have to have low self esteem to wanna share ur man, or to be ok with it.

it's really not natural for us to wife women and just only smash them.

Most good women wont be down, but there are a few i know that.. if a man was willing to support them 100% - they would be ok w it. I've had women ignore the Obvious for as long as they could just to not lose me.