Why good girls have become unicorns

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Good girls aren't hard to find. You're just looking through your ratchet-colored glasses
Most "Good girls" are boring or unattractive....

Of course not every chick is out there, "slutting it up" but if a chick is reasonably attractive, there shouldn't be a doubt as to whether she's sexually active...
 

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OP is right.... to an extent.

It feels like because I grew up under a two parent household that had me and my sister under wedlock, I'm screwed. This doesn't go for just me either. I know a lot of people and have a lot of friends who go through the same shyt because they carry a set of morals. If that's not attractive in this day of age, then fukk it. I'm not lowering my standards just to cuff up a chick, only to feel miserable for being desperate to change my relationship status. So yeah, There really isn't much out there. I don't live in some "candyland" to say otherwise nor I need to date multiple chicks at once to come up with that conclusion.
 

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Read every other statement he posted and you will see why he is sexist. Most dancers don't dance for very long and/or move on to other jobs. So quite a bit more than you think get wifed. Just because the are not married in the club doesn't mean that they don't get married at some point.
some dancers dance for more than 4 years.. I feel that anything past 4 is wayyyy to long. Thats a freakin lifestyle... plus it mentally changes your limits and values.


The types of nikkas that are gonna wife a girl who has been through all that either doesn't know any better.... or really isn't the type of nikka that u should let wife u.



and I think you're wrong about calling dudes "scum of the Earth" The things society puts on men is simply unnatural. I saw like 20 bad bish just on my way home from work today... this world isn't set up for the faithful.
 

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OP is right.... to an extent.

It feels like because I grew up under a two parent household that had me and my sister under wedlock, I'm screwed. This doesn't go for just me either. I know a lot of people and have a lot of friends who go through the same shyt because they carry a set of morals. If that's not attractive in this day of age, then fukk it. I'm not lowering my standards just to cuff up a chick, only to feel miserable for being desperate to change my relationship status. So yeah, There really isn't much out there. I don't live in some "candyland" to say otherwise nor I need to date multiple chicks at once to come up with that conclusion.

daps and this is it, i also grew up in a two parent household and parents were married when they had me and my sister. My list of what to look for in a wife or even a girlfriend is not built on big titties and a big aa
 

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OP is right.... to an extent.

It feels like because I grew up under a two parent household that had me and my sister under wedlock, I'm screwed. This doesn't go for just me either. I know a lot of people and have a lot of friends who go through the same shyt because they carry a set of morals. If that's not attractive in this day of age, then fukk it. I'm not lowering my standards just to cuff up a chick, only to feel miserable for being desperate to change my relationship status. So yeah, There really isn't much out there. I don't live in some "candyland" to say otherwise nor I need to date multiple chicks at once to come up with that conclusion.
If there are no wify types... then y not date more than one woman at once.... for companionship reasons?
 

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If there are no wify types... then y not date more than one woman at once.... for companionship reasons?

My mom has been telling me to do the same thing, but it hasn't as been as easy as you think. I've done it in the past. Just because what I posted before doesn't mean I'm looking for the home run everytime I get out of the house. I just wanna date right now. Yeah, I got plenty of friends but I'm bored with being single. Plus its getting chilly now in NorCal so yeah, I'm admitting it, I'm paying attention to cuddling season :youngsabo: . Just trying to have fun.

IDK, maybe I need to travel out more cause I don't even have someone of the opposite sex to hit up to go out for lunch. Chicks in my area play too many fukking games and are just satisfied with all of the thristbuckets gassing up on social media networks than ACTUALLY being social :shaq2:
 

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My mom has been telling me to do the same thing, but it hasn't as been as easy as you think. I've done it in the past. Just because what I posted before doesn't mean I'm looking for the home run everytime I get out of the house. I just wanna date right now. Yeah, I got plenty of friends but I'm bored with being single. Plus its getting chilly now in NorCal so yeah, I'm admitting it, I'm paying attention to cuddling season :youngsabo: . Just trying to have fun.

IDK, maybe I need to travel out more cause I don't even have someone of the opposite sex to hit up to go out for lunch. Chicks in my area play too many fukking games and are just satisfied with all of the thristbuckets gassing up on social media networks than ACTUALLY being social :shaq2:
well, i think maybe u should do what i do... 1 date then1 invite over house. whatever happens happens... but even if I smash, that's just mission complete and on the the next. There will always be the loveyduby type that will try to get u to wife her. Then wife her for a while, regardless if she meets all ur standards just so u can get that cuddle time in and companionship and keep ur husband material skills fresh.....

the good women find u, not the other way around.... That's why this thread exist, most men are confused about that shyt.
 

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the good women find u, not the other way around.... That's why this thread exist, most men are confused about that shyt.

this may be true , but it's also true for the hoodrats and undercover hoes :laugh:
 

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this may be true , but it's also true for the hoodrats and undercover hoes :laugh:
I welcome both of those types, so doesn't matter to me. everything eventually comes out if ur not a bytch ass trick simp nikka - u will be able to tell eventually.


just recently i went from tellin my boy, "yo this chick is blah blah ''some embarrassing shyt" .... to "man this girl might have used to be a hoe, really she might be a proper sounding rat"

regardless i love rats. Those and white girls are simply practice until a queen comes along.
 

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:whoa:No disrespect to the virtuous women of the coli.......:shaq2: ........but I dont think i'll ever settle down with one modern woman of today unless they're down with sharing me but me not sharing them.

Wants other p*ssy but is scared of her getting shyt on the side. Your dikk game is weak.
 

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well, i think maybe u should do what i do... 1 date then1 invite over house. whatever happens happens... but even if I smash, that's just mission complete and on the the next. There will always be the loveyduby type that will try to get u to wife her. Then wife her for a while, regardless if she meets all ur standards just so u can get that cuddle time in and companionship and keep ur husband material skills fresh.....

the good women find u, not the other way around.... That's why this thread exist, most men are confused about that shyt.


He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD.

Even if you are not religious...this is the problem. If you want a good woman and not just sex, look for that. Men go out saying if she's down to have sex than so be it, I'll take that and move on to the next. That's not what you want though is it? You want a good woman, but keep running into whores and obliging them. I just see so many contradictions with the last statement. Woman aren't how they used to be blahblah...women are the chased....etc, etc. Men are supposed to court women, but I suppose have gotten lazy with all the vagine being thrown at them, so they expect a good woman to throw themselves at them too...not going to happen.

If you build it they will come...
 
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Does being a polygamist make you a bad person?
IDK about bad but it certainly makes you selfish.

You are faithful to the multiple women you date?
How do you achieve that? Promise one she's the only one whose spot is reserved for Tuesdays?

I dare you to show me a positive example of a stripper.
What a weird question. How many strippers do you know to even say something silly like that. A large percent of dancers do so to get through school or take care of their familys. I know plenty of postive strippers. My bff has a postive and faithful realtionship. She is in school and does lots of charity work and she is also a stripper.

:laff:

I was with you until you got to that part......
 
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