Why I Decided to Adopt Without a Partner

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Yes a stable home. It might not be a two parent home, but it is stable. I get you think foster home to foster home is better though.
Your right but it would be even more beneficial for them to have a good father figure.
 

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Or maybe her plan is to raise a child who has NO one else will. I'm guessing you think random foster homes year after year and potentially having no type of familial support when your life starts at 18 is better!
Pshhh, need better mentoring programs for foster homes. Wanna start a business and get rich?
 

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Your right but it would be even more beneficial for them to have a good father figure.

Well guess what? They don't and before she adopted them they didn't have a mother either. Hopefully they will get a father in the future as well.
 

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Those kids need a father figure

She aint horrible looking,im sure some nikkas gon come through:steviej:...and one day when they decide to figure out who they real mama is maybe theyll have a father figure there too:mjcry:

are men allowed to adopt when single?u dont see that story too often if its happening...a womans love yall:mjcry:
 

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he could die or we could get divorced. It's always good to have a back up plan :manny:



:ehh: I meant adopt but you could look at it that way.
Do you plan on choosing a leader or just procreating with a strong male and then sayig *i'll take it from here* :aicmon:

Do you have a medical problem preventing you from having a child of your own.
 

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Do you plan on choosing a leader or just procreating with a strong male and then sayig *i'll take it from here* :aicmon:

Do you have a medical problem preventing you from having a child of your own.

I'm a great leader.


No medical problems, just would prefer to not do it. :/
 

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I'm a great leader.


No medical problems, just would prefer to not do it. :/
You want someone elses leftovers instead of making your own baby, with a perfectly healthy body?

Are you afraid of being fat and abandoned or do you just fear pushing a child out of your body.

I delivered my son and my wife didnt yell out, she just PUSHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHED like :steviej: You can do it, dont be a coward.
 
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Yep it's all fun and games to her,but those middle school years will have her deep inside regretting her decision.It's one thing to adopt 1 kid and raise it by yourself but 2?


Its almost like she needed living props\accessories to show her the unconditional love she was missing......

She just cut out the middle man and purchased it...

If she just adopted on kid, that would've have been beautiful, but two.........with no partner in sight...


I think she may have some slight issues
 

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You want someone elses leftovers instead of making your own baby, with a perfectly healthy body?

Are you afraid of being fat and abandoned or do you just fear pushing a child out of your body.

I delivered my son and my wife didnt yell out, she just PUSHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHED like :steviej: You can do it, dont be a coward.

I don't want to be pregnant or give birth. I want to skip that part.

i honestly don't even want kids but for some reason everyone has a problem with that.
 
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