Why I Decided to Adopt Without a Partner

[Mowgli]

I don't want to be pregnant or give birth. I want to skip that part.

i honestly don't even want kids but for some reason everyone has a problem with that.

So why would you adopt if you dont want kids. Like having a pet? A pet kid?

 

[BlackFruitPunch]

Let me guess nikkas in here hating like some suckas

 

[Ashley Banks]

So why would you adopt if you dont want kids. Like having a pet? A pet kid?

i need someone to leave my houses and money to.

 

[Colicat]

Kudos to that family. I personally don't think I could handle a child and their infinite needs on my own. I would prefer a partner to raise a child with; whether it was my birth child or adopted child.

And hopefully I will have a child with my husband and then adopt a child. In a perfect world, I guess

 

[Mowgli]

i need someone to leave my houses and money to.

A blood relative?

 

[Ashley Banks]

A blood relative?

i do what i want

 

[mamba]

i do what i want

You sound like you're missing a few marbles, friend.

 

[Ashley Banks]

You sound like you're missing a few marbles, friend.

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can you just put me on ignore already, thanks.

 

[3rdWorld]

So she actively chose to become another single mother..how original.

 

[KOOL-AID]

Awww, so cute! Something about gap-toothed kids just gets me, it's too adorable!!!

I have plans to adopt, probably a girl around 5... but not until I'm older and wiser and ready for it though!

I thot u and @BlackieRobinson were gonna have kids

 

[Mowgli]

i do what i want

I think we've got a vigilante in our midst.

Can I interview you for a coli expose: Behind The Poster?

 

[↓R↑LYB]

And ask any of the fukk boys making that comment how many young boys they're mentoring

 

[↓R↑LYB]

he's not lying breh

They still need that father figure though to balance it out.

Of course when they're young she doesn't see the need but when they become teenagers not having a father figure will be disastrous.

Yep it's all fun and games to her,but those middle school years will have her deep inside regretting her decision.It's one thing to adopt 1 kid and raise it by yourself but 2?

And she comes across as self centered and materialistic.
The cliched "I have a degree and I've traveled the world and I'm too good for everyone". And on top of that is a feminist. Feminist single moms are not going to be good parents. Especially for raising boys.

A stable home with no father... sounds like an oxymoron dear

Those kids need a father figure

So she actively chose to become another single mother..how original.

How many young black boys (that's not your family) do any of you mentor ?

Its almost like she needed living props\accessories to show her the unconditional love she was missing......

She just cut out the middle man and purchased it...

If she just adopted on kid, that would've have been beautiful, but two.........with no partner in sight...


I think she may have some slight issues

You have to be a cac. A black woman decides to adopt some children that would have been stuck in the foster care system and you still somehow find fault in it ? Are you planing to adopt any of of the 60,000 black children in foster care right now

Let me guess nikkas in here hating like some suckas

Of course they are. The same nikkas talking shyt about her not having a man are the same ones talking bout they'll never get married. Bunch of fakkits

To raise kids without a man?

Since it's important to raise a kid with a man present, when are you going to adopt a child?

 

[Diondon]

this is my plan.

 

[mcdivit85]

As a child of the 1970s, I was nursed on the second wave of feminism, which insisted that a woman did not need a man. My grandmothers had both been housewives who entered the workforce when their children became teenagers. My grandfathers, both providers, worried about the caliber of young men in the world. Their advice was simple: education first, career second and then marriage.

It always amazes me how we talk about women being feminazi and unfit for marriage. But sometimes it be their fathers, not their mothers, who turn them into the kind of women they wouldn't even date. No different than the single mothers who turn their boys into the responsible, sensible nerds they wouldn't give the time of day.

So ironic.

And look what happened. Chick got educated. Chick got a career. Chick got NO MAN and NO MARRIAGE. Chick adopts kids by herself.

I wonder if she thinks about her grandfathers and the self-fulfilling prophecy they helped create in her mind.

Peace