Don’t dare bring up 50cent and Diddy, because they are known for taking care of ALL of their women.
I don't know about Diddy, but 50 is not taking care of any bytch that ain't his wife. Hell, he aint even taking care of the son he had with his first baby mama. You take an L for this analogy.
The only person saying a bunch of nothing here is You!
Immature, and NOTHING.
If you can’t understand that there is security on a deeper level with a strong family, and in a relationship with a woman who loves you, and RESPECTS you...
You are a moron! And extremely immature. Keep living.
Go knock up a bytch just to have a kid.
So you can be on YouTube crying about child support, and the system holding black men back.
In the future, other niccas playing football with your son and all....
And this is all coming from a black woman, who's net worth is only $5...
And as for the man you posted an example of, Russel Wilson- Russel is a simp through and through. Now I'm not knocking the man, or Ciara, and if they have a happy union, and he's accepted her, then I wish the both of them the best. But Im not taking care of a another mans kid, and that includes a woman; since you and OP want to put yourselves
I answered the question very clearly.
It’s your mentality and immaturity causing you not to see the clear answer.
The man gains Security, a family and a continuance of his legacy!
You know, his life’s purpose.
Men are always going to have to work.
men are always going to have to be providers & protectors.
Men always have the financial responsibilities of their families.
Rather it be their parents (mom) as they age, or the family they start.
Just like women have to give birth and nurture babies.
What if all women said... “why i gotta have a baby”? What’s in it for me? 
on that level.
Well many women of all races are already asking "whats in it for me when it comes to producing children." Why do you think the birthrates are falling with the millennial demographic?
Men have financial responsibilities to provide for their families- yes this is absolutely true. But it is also dependent on the wife being able to fulfill her duty as a wife- funny how you never bring up that point.
Second, the ability of a man to have financial means to be capable of taking care of his family and pass down his legacy is contingent upon his ability TO be financially stable. This also requires BLACK WOMEN to be suitable mates and mothers to their children; which many ARE NOT. Those other communities understand this; hence why they are able to pass down generational wealth. Our community is so fukked up, and do to a certain female who decided to go out and receive welfare, and all of it's perks, while choosing to lay up and have a tone of kids while not having men in their household.
Also since black women want so bad to be men, and to be INDEPENDENT, they are now always going to have to work, and have ALL the financial responsibilities to their families; especially since ya'll lead in 72% of single motherhood in the community.
Lastly, whether it matters or not, I don't know why you keep throwing up your "HUSBAND...." None of us on here know you personally from behind a computer screen, so whether you have a husband or not is pretty much a moot point. However, I can tell from your replies that you have the opposite of what you claim... It's funny, a LOT of single black women like to throw up and claim that they have a husband when they don't. Nothing personal of course.
