Why I Don’t Respect Married Men

Hungerpain

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Brehs who come across this comment.

Y'all say dawg in the video says women don't like thirsty men and I think we all can agree on that.

Y'all also say get your shyt together and women will approach.

But women rarely approach in real life(not thecoli fantasy)

Ad if your not thirsty and sit back for women to approach,but most never will,how y'all getting women then?:jbhmm:
bytches will definitely approach if you put yourself in position,have the right bait and give off the right body language.
 

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Removing yall bias as happily married men (which I salute),

Would you encourage marriage to young brehs the same way older women encourage younger women to get married?

why? Or why not?

Genuine question.


As a married brotha.....I just say do you. But I will say the older you are the harder it is to find someone to grow with because you and them are set in your ways.

There are pros and cons of being married and or single. You just have to think about what you willing to live with at 50 and 60 and 70 years old.

When you young.....you don't think about mortality, age, death and leaving a legacy. But when you get older you start to think about that shyt more and more.

Also one of the easiest ways of building money is marrying someone like minded and building with them. Because you pull your resources together, are on the same page and your kids are with the same person.

Problem with the internet is folks always focus on the negative and not the positive. So when folks talk about marriage it is always from the standpoint of divorce and not successful marriages.
 
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The shyt that I just typed to you.:heh:
Im in shape,I get fly and i carry myself like i dont give a fukk about anybody.
bytches make eye contact and I speak to them.Sometimes they speak to me first in the form of stupid ass questions or shyt like that.
shyt isn't hard.

But some coli brehs would say you don't get any females with this approach :stopitslime::stopitslime:
 

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I knew something was wrong with marriage when I seen my mother go hard on my older sister to get married and she told me to take my time and play the field for as long as I can

Even women understand that men have the short end of the stick in marriage

Your mother probably just knows that men and women are playing on two different shot clocks. Women are working with that .04 shot clock whether they know it or not.Where as men have a nice 24 seconds.You notice she didn't tell you not to get married,just that there is no need for you to pressure it. Like it or not,there is a valid reason women have for putting ultimatums on men to get married,or at least for the man to show some sort of viable commitment and have a long term plan laid out for them.

After a while women ask men where do the say the relationship going and men say "I don't know:francis:",or "Lets just take it one day at a time:whoa:".

This is pathetic,and you are a time waster:hhh:. You should have a short term plan after a few months,then after that you should have a long term plan for where yall are going,then after that another long term plan.

Black men have to step up our planning,you have your woman and kids out here living like nomads with no type of plan?Then wonder why these women are quick to leave and start over on her own or with somebody else. Why not?whats the difference? Is it really starting over when she didn't have a house?a savings?business?long term goals of any kind with you as a couple. It's easy to move around when you aren't losing anything but maybe some average dikk and some laughs.
 

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And in no way I'm I saying men should cave into ultimatums,just that I understand the need for women to give them. It's usually just to get you thinking long term because you weren't before. Women don't have time to waste with the opposite sex like we do.
 

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Yes,because whats the point in focusing on yourself,bettering yourself,becoming a success. Just to be out here spreading your seed and laying among demonic women you barely know on a nightly basis,just to get your dikk wet:martin:

This man actually said "I'm all for having families,but you don't have to get the courts involved in your business to have families". Does he not realize that the courts will be in your business when you end up having children out of wedlock and the relationship doesn't work out?yet he is advocating being sexually promiscuous among black people. This is horrible advice for successful blacks and poor blacks alike.

Marriage won't financially cripple a broke black man who has nothing, like CHILD SUPPORT and children out of wedlock does FAR MORE commonly in our community. Most nikkas don't have it like that where they should be afraid of marriage,but they could get it like that if they went into relationships with women with a business plan in mind like real alphas do. Not thinking of strategies to get your dikk wetted by different randoms whos past and mental states you know little about,and may not find out about until its too late. Supposedly succesful nikkas taking chances with women they meet on plenty of fish and tinder calling themselves alphas and mocking men for not thinking with their dikks,this shyt is tragic all around. A huge problem in our community.
I agree with everything until the last sentence. Take that clown shyt elsewhere. Tired of you nikkas with this our community stupid talk that's damn near always negative.. Foh that's individual shyt regardless of race.
 

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All dude is sayin' is that he doesn't respect men who get married to lock in a companion for sex...or for fear of being alone...on the other hand he respects men that get married on their own accord while still following their purpose...
 

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I agree with everything until the last sentence. Take that clown shyt elsewhere. Tired of you nikkas with this our community stupid talk that's damn near always negative.. Foh that's individual shyt regardless of race.

Well,nikkas not wanting to hear the truth is another problem in our community.:francis:

If you want to just say other races have the same problem,go right ahead.I just was not concerned with what problems they have that don't involve us,so I didn't think to bring it up randomly:martin:.
 
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