Why is being a hoe seen as empowering?

[King]

It's like women wanna be like men, but don't notice that a lot of men just stumbling in the meaningful connections department. We ain't doing no better out here.



Shout out to @Speaking Womanese for this.

It’s because non-black women and white gay men base their confidence on stereotypes and racist sexualized caricatures of black women. It’s simply racist exploitation.

That’s why you have all of these overly sexualized black artists being peak examples of hoes. It’s incredibly popular because people inherently see black women as less human so they can be extraordinarily sexually stereotyped in some unique conception of femininity.

While the stereotypes became deeply embedded as a result of the crack era - black women never were out here proudly claiming to be hoes. It has been a steady phenomenon of hoe culture being built up as a result of corporations realizing that sex sells. But the supreme catalyst for that is the black woman.

I think black women themselves got wrapped up in it after the fact like pretty recently as a result of social media.

 

[Speaking Womanese]

It's more like

Girl: How are you doing today, did you eat?

Guy: Yeah I did? Internal dialog. No woman has ever asked me if I ate, damn I need a woman like that.

I'm a little zooted off an edible so forgive me.

Does the man love this woman or the fact that she cares about him? He doesn't know because he doesn't know the difference. He's with her because he thinks its love when really it's the fact that he is attracted to nurturing qualities.

How’s he supposed to find out the difference between nurture and love if he never opens up to ANY WOMAN?

I’ve got a friend like this.

She wants to date but rarely leaves the house.

I’m like, “no one ain’t climbing up your balcony like Richard Gere in Pretty Woman - get out there!”

It’s like watching a snake eat it’s own tail.

 

[qwasi]

Absolute bird babble. The media is not controlled by men for men. Consumerism is dominated by women. They are categorically the greatest consumers - both directly or indicretly through spousal access. Culturally (post ww-2) feminism served as the promotion of female sexual autonomy. And challenged gender roles and male dominanc over sexual expression - hence empowerment. Most western societies are gynocentric - and promotion of sexual empowerment is means to reinvent the wheel.

 

[Speaking Womanese]

Plenty men do.
If you tell people what the deal is up front, some will be down for it.
Granted, some women if they like the guy enough, will agree to it in bad faith because they think they can change it.
Women could have it like that, too.
That's what the film She's Gotta Have It is about.

I see it irl.

My uncle has a wife, gf, bm and a side piece and they all know about each other.

He throws up pics of them and everything.

What’s your opinion on men who women claim, “waste their prime years,” in a relationship that doesn’t lead to a deeper commitment?

 

[Neuromancer]

How’s he supposed to find out the difference between nurture and love if he never opens up to ANY WOMAN?

I’ve got a friend like this.

She wants to date but rarely leaves the house.

I’m like, “no one ain’t climbing up your balcony like Richard Gere in Pretty Woman - get out there!”

It’s like watching a snake eat it’s own tail.

How does a blind man describe the color red??

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

This song ain't about being a hoe.

you cant be a hoe without genitals

 

[FlyRy]

American women, regardless of race are so masculine. it's gross. Go to south america and you can feel the feminine energy wash over you as soon as you get off the plane.

 

[KingFreeman]

Now that this topic has me thinking, somebody quote me on this:

If society broke down tomorrow Walking Dead apocalyptic style in a free for all, guarantee all of this confusion would disappear. Without the societal safety nets, laws, security, etc. watch the gender dynamics resemble something closer to nature.

Hell, not even a societal collapse, just remove child support and governmental assistance programs and watch the shift in family dynamics. Guarantee shyt will start looking a hell of a lot more conservative. For all ethnicities before somebody hits me with the MJ smiley.

 

[Speaking Womanese]

How does a blind man describe the color red??

Omg

What do you think would happen to society if women in the West renounced sex with men before wedlock?

 

[Neuromancer]

Omg

What do you think would happen to society if women in the West renounced sex with men before wedlock?

More stable families probably.

 

[Speaking Womanese]

Because men will pretty much sleep with any woman, but woman will only sleep with a select group of men, that they won’t require to go through many hoops. Also most men, would never get into relationships until way later in life, but when a woman likes u, they usually end the casual fun once they get attached and give ultimatums. Sometimes it works, but these days it’s working less and less.

Is that because men have more options or because they generally dgaf anymore?

 

[Speaking Womanese]

More stable families probably.

Do you think that would heighten or lessen adultery in marriage?

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

It's like women wanna be like men, but don't notice that a lot of men just stumbling in the meaningful connections department. We ain't doing no better out here.



Shout out to @Speaking Womanese for this.

Same reason nikka is seen as that way now. People used hoe to shyt on women for doing the same thing men was doing. So now instead of them being shamed and crying when you say it, they embrace it, say so what, and leave you with nothing but “hey well society had said that’s bad”


Same way a white man saying shyt, I COULD be like “yea I am a nikka and what?” and it feels better to me than going home and crying cause I was supposed to be hurt by it

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Is that because men have more options or because they generally dgaf anymore?

More options cause most women in the past didn’t sleep around like that. Nowadays, not only can I view all the women in the world from my desk… I can chat with them, visit them easy, and they all fukking in 1 month or less

 

[RareHunter]

Omg

What do you think would happen to society if women in the West renounced sex with men before wedlock?

It would be much better than it is now. Coming from a dude that had his share, and tried that in reverse earlier in life and took a major L .