Because men spent thousands of years making a big deal out of something that all humans do, for 1/2 of the world’s population b/c they have a scarcity mindset when it comes to p*ssy and other weird hang ups.
The whore/Madonna complex, the silly ideas men believe about female sexuality, the way they tried to lock women down and shame them to the point that a lotta chicks barely know where their clit is.
When you grow with your own body as a woman and realize it’s all just hang ups that men and society have about female sexuality projected onto to you, you become healthy and well adjusted and learn who you are sexually. That takes time and growth.
Women have to slug off years of conditioning and bro babble that tries to drag them in the direction of being huge sluts and sexually permissive
or
Slut-shamed holier-than-thou prudes.
Im so glad my parents weren’t weirdos about sex growing up.
I was taught that sex is beautiful. That I have the gift of life in my body, so if I act on my hormones, I need to protect myself and also be sure of who I’m with. I thank god for them everyday.
There are some chicks who internalized either extreme of the fukkery female sexuality spectrum and they either out there getting trains ran on them for “empowerment” or they can’t even open up with their partners because they been so henpecked about sex that they think it dirty.
Doesn’t help that some men will judge even their partners if they wanna be freaky b/c they think they supposed to do kinky nasty stuff with side chicks and boring shyt with wives.
Imagine how fukked up that is. It’s just a big ole mess. And until we learn how to have healthier attitudes towards female sexuality as a society, the fukkery will continue.