Why is finding a decent job so hard?

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Yes I do because I dont fukk with deadbeat dads.



Its not that simple. He directly pays most of the bills himself and just leaves me a few hundreds every time i see him. And Im not going to be a bum and let TJ go without so that pocket change gets ate up fast by the end of the month. I do have a little bit of money stashed away but Id just prefer not to touch it unless absoloutley necessary.

Do u have a father or older brother? I'm guessing no. Should've went to nursing school right after HS instead of hoeing and u would've been straight.
 

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I havent had a regular job since I was in high school in 2008.

Most of that money is going towards rent and utilities though. And yes I do like to treat myself to certain luxuries from time to time I deserve it after all the work I put in.
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How much should I be paying for a 2 bedroom 2 bath with a parking spot that is safe and clean on the westside? Houses are like double my rent but again emphasis on quality of living conditions. Im not living in the hood with a bunch of section 8 tenants and roaches

Unless you're insisting on living in Marina Del Rey or Santa Monica, you can get a place like you are describing for $1000 less than you are paying fairly easily and it would only be 1-2 miles away. I'd rethink your insurance decisions too. You're paying $8k a year before you even step into a doctors office. I doubt having a low deductible outweighs those high costs unless you have Munchausen syndrome. If you're wasting money like that, you're going to be on the hamster wheel even if you find a high paying job.
 

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nikka? She chose to be a hoe I mean is it any suprise she has a child out of wedlock with a drug dealer? I could've predicted her life for her.

That hard work ain't shyt. Flipping that degree,cert, business into succes is hard work. This isn't close.
Man, there's so many ways to live a life. Sex work is one of the hardest.

The 9 to 5 corporate gig is probably the "easiest" life in America.
 

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Y'all comin at her like she don't deserve to make a decent living just because of her past.

Honestly @thoushallhustle it's hard as fukk to get decent jobs now a days, you gotta know someone's that's connected to get anything decent. fukk working for minimum wage. You should just work at the clubs I'm apply for anything in your area at the same time so you can have money coming in while u looking .and dong let these nikkas bring you down , dudes wanna act all high and mighty cuz they went to college. Most of my homegirls work currently or have worked in clubs . It's good ass money and nothing to be ashamed about. And so wat you smoke weed it's not like u on heroin. The shyt ppl talk on here sometimes Jesus Christ.
 

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I'm trying to tell yall, I'm not just fishing for daps, they are phasing blacks out of the employment sector. They what you to be DEPENDENT; either on welfare and unemployment to which they will give and take away your benefits as they feel; you will work low wage jobs so you can't afford to live; and if you do get a break they want you isolated, thats why their are few blacks and other minorities in decent wage jobs, swimming in a sea of white people - they want you to feel vulnerable to their demands.

you gotta do your own thing brehs and brehettes.


this and your last post is the whole and exact truth,...


art barr
 

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what's with all this hostility towards her?? :wtf:

:ehh:my oversimplified budget is 25/25/25/25 of what's coming in
25% housing
25% insurance, transportation, other essential bills
25% food, entertainment, optional stuff
25% savings (or paydown of existing debt if that's the circumstances)

using some numbers, it is like you would need roughly $165,000 annual salary:sas1:
for monethly take home of $10,000
just to maintain present lifestyle ($2500 housing, $2500 bills, ...??)

on other hand, if you downsized everything by 50%
if you had a job with $75,000 salary:sas2:
everything would be golden
if you wanted to shrug off savings
(not advisible, but some people wait til kids are grown to start retirement prep)
you'd only need $55,000 salary:sas2:
which should be doable to someone in nurse/medical profession

so even long-term, in a sunny future of steady employment in the $55-75k range
you are looking at a 50% reduction in living expenses

the father is helping- so that's a plus
but he might or might not be helping two years from now
so i don't factor him in the budget
or maybe he can be the 25% savings and half the food/entertainment
which would still require $45,000 salary:sas2:
 

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Scust at this simp




Y'all comin at her like she don't deserve to make a decent living just because of her past.

Honestly @thoushallhustle it's hard as fukk to get decent jobs now a days, you gotta know someone's that's connected to get anything decent. fukk working for minimum wage. You should just work at the clubs I'm apply for anything in your area at the same time so you can have money coming in while u looking .and dong let these nikkas bring you down , dudes wanna act all high and mighty cuz they went to college. Most of my homegirls work currently or have worked in clubs . It's good ass money and nothing to be ashamed about. And so wat you smoke weed it's not like u on heroin. The shyt ppl talk on here sometimes Jesus Christ.
 

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Let men smut you out but be unwilling to "stand on your feet doing hard labor" brehettes :mjcry:
 
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