Why is having sex early on in a relationship seen as a bad thing?

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Yeah because you could "make him happy" then he goes around calling you a hoe and then ruins your chance at getting with another dude because everyone thinks you're a hoe.

Men make shyt extremely hard. You guys want sex but belittle insult and shame womem for doing it then you tell us if we don't do it by a certain time no dude will take us seriously but if we do it too early they won't take us seriously. You guys give women impossible rules to follow. Then get mad when we don't follow them.

Maybe you could ask the guy his views on sex during the relationship incubation phase. Every man different. Also, the maturity level of the dudes that you're referring to could be a little low. Sounds like high shyt to me. I've had long happy relationships with women that I've fukked the day I've met them.
 

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Don't curse my thread b, you and me in the same set.:ufdup:
Im just saying. I type up a lot of shyt and nobody reads it, whats the point? There is nuance to why and how, but people might not wanna read it.

@Chelsea Bridge not every woman who fukks a man she doesn't really know is a hoe :francis:It means she LIKELY is one, but this could literally be

her first foray into uncommitted sex, or her second, whatever.
 

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Im just saying. I type up a lot of shyt and nobody reads it, whats the point? There is nuance to why and how, but people might not wanna read it.

@Chelsea Bridge not every woman who fukks a man she doesn't really know is a hoe :francis:It means she LIKELY is one, but this could literally be

her first foray into uncommitted sex, or her second, whatever.
I feel like women slut shame more than men do.
 

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Im just saying. I type up a lot of shyt and nobody reads it, whats the point? There is nuance to why and how, but people might not wanna read it.

@Chelsea Bridge not every woman who fukks a man she doesn't really know is a hoe :francis:It means she LIKELY is one, but this could literally be

her first foray into uncommitted sex, or her second, whatever.

Who said anything about a "She"?


FYI, I don't shame women. They're not the ones I have to watch out for.
 

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Who said anything about a "She"?


FYI, I don't shame women. They're not the ones I have to watch out for.
:leon:Oh, didnt realize that. You hard on He-hoes and She-Hoes.

And im glad you said the bolded, and wish more people would understand that about these conversations. When men on the boards say stuff about women, and women

go "Well what about men!:damn:" We aren't dating men:francis:So how someone else treated you doesn't matter.

In any case, early sex isn't necessarily indicative of a hoe-in-waiting, but it is the trait of a hoe.
 

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Because its the only chip women hold in this dating game and they withhold sex from males thinking that if he willing to wait he must be a good guy.

Unfortunately this often backfires as making him wait could prompt him to seek sex elsewhere if he feels you're playing games, in which case you just lost a potential mate because "if he really likes me he'll be willing to wait".

Women need to realise their p*ssy isn't the key to mortality and that men are also putting up their chips in the dating game.
 
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