Women are cheap. No way they are going to go dutch on dates with every dude they deal with.I've noticed that the women didn't chime in on my points about the lesbian thing, or going Dutch until sex is involved..etc? No rebuttals?
Why is having sex early on in a relationship seen as a bad thing?
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havoc
Superstar
Thats a very good question.
SadimirPutin
Superstar
1) religious upbringing which vilifies extra-marital and pre-marital sex
2)Silly men who are hustling backwards by shaming women for having sex when that has never stopped a man from piping a hot loose woman....If you heard Mya, Beyonce or Janelle Monae was loose would that stop you from fukking? Certainly it wouldnt for me
3)Women who slut shame other women. Women brand one another with the scarlet letter to make themselves appear more desirable in the dating and relationship pool. Men get props from other men for sleeping with a lot of women. Women should then in theory get props for screwing a lot of men from other women....well tell me how that dynamic works...
4)In theory women are supposed to be more emotionally connected via the act of sex.....there has been a lot of literature on this but I am not sold on this....women have biological needs just like men....men have emotional needs just like women...and people just like to fukk period...
2)Silly men who are hustling backwards by shaming women for having sex when that has never stopped a man from piping a hot loose woman....If you heard Mya, Beyonce or Janelle Monae was loose would that stop you from fukking? Certainly it wouldnt for me
3)Women who slut shame other women. Women brand one another with the scarlet letter to make themselves appear more desirable in the dating and relationship pool. Men get props from other men for sleeping with a lot of women. Women should then in theory get props for screwing a lot of men from other women....well tell me how that dynamic works...
4)In theory women are supposed to be more emotionally connected via the act of sex.....there has been a lot of literature on this but I am not sold on this....women have biological needs just like men....men have emotional needs just like women...and people just like to fukk period...
Because women don't want to lose the power so quickly.
Reno89
All Star
Who has sex with someone before actually knowing them? A ho who doesn't respect themselves
It depends on how you view it. It seems like the ones that made me wait the longest, turned out to be the biggest hoes. Almost every girl that I have been monogamous with, had sex with me on the first or second date.
Therefore, to me, a Telltale sign that a female already has multiple guys that she is talking to and/or smashing is when she makes me wait.
The girls that I had sex with on the first or second date tend to be the ones that have been holding out and/or haven't had any in awhile.
It depends on the person. I def want it up front, but I can respect a little wait period. My girl tried to do the 3 month thing with me and I went along with it because I knew we wouldnt make it no 3 months of waiting and we maybe made it like a month before we had to attack each other. It really built up a good want for each other, but in other instances it can backfire on either side.
If she really woulda made me go the 3 months maybe we still wouldnt be together almost 2 years later
The idea of building up a want is what i was gonna say but you're right it can easily backfire...could be less than what the person expected lol .. However, I feel like waiting a bit is a good idea not only for "Moral reasons" but .. i'm like if you won't let someone you don't know use your phone why would you let someone you barely know put you at risk for catching diseases, having a kid etc.
& Before someone says something about using protection, there's still a risk either way