Why Is It So Easy For Women To Move On?

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i don't see the difference.
What is cheating or having side relationships other than having something new or different? Your mains grass may be green but the other yard has a pool
The man won't leave his main for the other chick, that's the difference.
 

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Why not? What's the rationale? Can't let go?
I don't really know cuz I've never had a chick on the side. These dudes want their cake and to eat it too. I don't know I guess dudes get bored of fukking the same chick. It's kinda like porn. You get bored and immune to jacking off/watching the same porn or type of porn so you start looking at other shyt.. black girls, white girls, latinas, big booty, big tidday, bbw, the list goes on.
 

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We don't move on easily, we just move on before you knew it was coming. You were fukking up somewhere along the way and didn't realize.

This..I realized this after my first major break up when I was in college and i learned a valuable lesson.

A lot of times men dont see it until it is too late
 

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This..I realized this after my first major break up when I was in college and i learned a valuable lesson.

A lot of times men dont see it until it is too late
That don't explain why women already have a date the night after they breakup with you :mjlol: men take time to heal after a breakup while women find the substitute before they even do the firing :scust:
 

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That don't explain why women already have a date the night after they breakup with you :mjlol: men take time to heal after a breakup while women find the substitute before they even do the firing :scust:

I think because women throw signs out there months in advance that the relationship isnt working and sometimes men brush it off or they change for a minute and then go back to there old ways.

Once women see that they start to set up a back up plan and then drop their dude..that's when you see men begging for their girls to come back but they dont and then the women gets labeled as cold.

I'm generalizing but most men like their alone time this they dont have a back up..sure they may have a jump off but it isnt the same...unlike women who like the attention, like to nurture and want to be with someone...you rarely see a man say "I'm 40 I gotta get married" or "I need a woman to complete me"

All my opinion of course
 

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Men are more sentimental and romantic

And express emotion less so when an emotional event occurs that causes emotions to release it's more intense:manny:


Also women jump into way more relationships than men and have more meaningless breakups:jbhmm:
 

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I think I figured this out. And it's not because "men care more / are better people" or that "women are trash" etc...

I think in general, most women have never been with a man that they really really like. Note: I said like, not love.

Most men simply aren't that desirable. Most of us are unattractive, boring, don't have a lot of resources, or some combination of the 3. Most of us are not going to be a woman's first choice. She will, in her mind, be setting on some level for about 80% of men, while still fawning over a 20%'er from her past.

Now, if you're a very desirable man, one of that elusive 20% of men that all the women desire, I can guarantee you she's not quickly / easily moving on from that if you dump her.

But... most of us aren't that. So when a woman gets dumped by an 80%'er, it's easy for her to convince herself that she can do better. And that feeling of being able to upgrade goes a long way towards mitigating the feeling of loss.
 
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