Why Is It So Easy For Women To Move On?

[The Devil's Advocate]

...while my heart is still ripped in half

anyone else notice its usually much easier for women to move on from relationships and become serial daters?

these bytches are cold mang

they say they love you until the next swinging dikk comes along

truth is... they don't... they just play it off better

a woman can be actively fukking a new man and still be in thinking bout/in love with the old one


i been in both situations..... fukking some girl and she still in love with this other nikka... and seeing some girl fukk someone new then crawl back like "i really love you tho"


they just pump faking

 

[bogey_j]

I think it's detrimental not to share. You can't guard yourself like that.

what he says here was 100% right

It consciously or subconsciously undermines diminishes her perception of him. In moments of weakenes and/or anger women are known to throw those things said in confidence at their man. It has happened time and time again.

 

[Elle Driver]

what he says here was 100% right

That's a dumbass way to think.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

That's a dumbass way to think.

It's the truth. Men don't generally speak that deepley to their boys and often have their women as a confidant but time and time again things said in confidence become ammunition during a fight. It's nice to think that there is a line to not be crossed but I've found that to generally not be the case.

Even if an apology follows the damage is done. I once told my ex about my familys financial woes... My dad put everything into giving his kids a better life and left himself with nothing as a result so I now support him sometimes. She knowing this called him a failure in a heated debate.

I lost all confidence in her character as a result. I would never go there with her family. This is just but a brief example of how things play out often as such. The low blow is a very common female arguing tactic and in those moments the truth presents itself

 

[Elle Driver]

It's the truth. Men don't generally speak that deepley to their boys and often have their women as a confidant but time and time again things said in confidence become ammunition during a fight. It's nice to think that there is a line to not be crossed but I've found that to generally not be the case.

Even if an apology follows the damage is done. I once told my ex about my familys financial woes... My dad put everything into giving his kids a better life and left himself with nothing as a result so I now support him sometimes. She knowing this called him a failure in a heated debate.

I lost all confidence in her character as a result. I would never go there with her family. This is just but a brief example of how things play out often as such. The low blow is a very common female arguing tactic and in those moments the truth presents itself

That's just vindictive people, has very little to do with gender. My mother did it to my father a lot and I hold resentment.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

See and that's how shyt goes south.
Especially when you are a young cat with your nose open for the first time.
Communication is by far the most important skill as humans that we have forgotten the art of.
We get into situations and let things fester without acknowledging the presence of said problems and we all lose in the situation. I wish (at least with my first love) that we talked about shyt, no telling where we would be. I think that's the most frustrating thing as a man because we want to fix things. I like my women with honesty. So if you not feeling a nikka, let it be known, so I can dip or at least see if it's savagable(if that's a word,lol)..
I think that would save both parties heartache..

This this this. Everybody is scared of stating issues. Communicate. If I'm fukking up tell me. Too many folks want to keep searching around and communication is on trash status so the problem will continue. Communication is a big time key. That festering shyt will sink the ship every time. Resentment comes in big time because you both feel you don't listen to each other. I've been there too. Just stupid shyt.

 

[Turbulent]

I think this is bullshyt. Men have way more options especially because you guys don't have feelings. You can pretend to like a chick and fukk her and not feel anything.

 

[Rawtid]

Y'all don't. Man y'all don't be caring like you say you do.

 

[Turbulent]

Y'all don't. Man y'all don't be caring like you say you do.

we care in a different way. we show it in a different way. but yes, we do have feelings. I think out of all humans, men are way more simpish than women on average.

 

[Rawtid]

we care in a different way. we show it in a different way. but yes, we do have feelings. I think out of all humans, men are way more simpish than women on average.

Not tying to argue, but I just don't believe it.

 

[iBrowse]

I think it's detrimental not to share. You can't guard yourself like that.

Not every woman doesn't need to know everything on her man's mind. It only sounds good on paper.

 

[shutterguy]

Honestly I've had suspicion in my last relationship on some Ron isley shyt. But I just ignored it. Im 3 relationships in and I still feel inexperienced. Moved on a long time ago. Haven't dated in years.

It took me a few weeks to get my head back right, not ready to give up on finding a good woman. The one I was with was emotionally checked out the last month of us being together, compound that with being insecure, having trust issues, and wounds that hadn't healed from her previous relationship before me, I felt like I was walking on a minefield some weeks, some things would turn from crumbs to bricks so fast. Now I look back its some stuff that should have been red flagged, but when your in it and comfortable with the sex, affection, and having someone made me turn a blind eye and say fukk it a lot of times, now I know what I am willing to deal with going forward.

 

[Elle Driver]

Not every woman doesn't need to know everything on her man's mind. It only sounds good on paper.

It's too bad I'm a mind reader, can't hide shyt from me.

 

[iBrowse]

It's the truth. Men don't generally speak that deepley to their boys and often have their women as a confidant but time and time again things said in confidence become ammunition during a fight. It's nice to think that there is a line to not be crossed but I've found that to generally not be the case.

Even if an apology follows the damage is done. I once told my ex about my familys financial woes... My dad put everything into giving his kids a better life and left himself with nothing as a result so I now support him sometimes. She knowing this called him a failure in a heated debate.

I lost all confidence in her character as a result. I would never go there with her family. This is just but a brief example of how things play out often as such. The low blow is a very common female arguing tactic and in those moments the truth presents itself

nikkas think I'm just making shyt up to be difficult. I've dealt with the same thing from experience on a few occasions and like you, I never threw shyt back in their face that they told me.

shyt there was a thread on here from last year about instances where coli brehs have seen dudes withered by their women and 9/10 of the stories posted were instances of women airing out dirty laundry on them.

 

[Lo-Co]

It took me a few weeks to get my head back right, not ready to give up on finding a good woman. The one I was with was emotionally checked out the last month of us being together, compound that with being insecure, having trust issues, and wounds that hadn't healed from her previous relationship before me, I felt like I was walking on a minefield some weeks, some things would turn from crumbs to bricks so fast. Now I look back its some stuff that should have been red flagged, but when your in it and comfortable with the sex, affection, and having someone made me turn a blind eye and say fukk it a lot of times, now I know what I am willing to deal with going forward.

last relationship i was in she didn't want to hang out, made excuses for why she couldn't. yet id try and go out of my way to help. yet id get brushed off. i felt like i was tap dancing on egg shells, like i wasnt good enough at times. id try and show love, but i felt like george costanza on seinfeld.