Why Is It So Easy For Women To Move On?

[Jimi Swagger]

Women are premeditated and calculated. They line up their options and move on from one man to another in a smooth transition.. That nikka been scouted and vetted for months. If he ain't the one he might hit it from time to time but if he's your replacement she won't even blink. No tears shed. Y'all gon learn tho..

God speed for this. Nukkas better get some ackright. Women who have something to offer will exercise their options, sometimes not exclusively.

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

But most of the times people know.
I think everybody knows but ignore those feelings that are laying in their guts. We all have to be more in tune with our bodies and feelings.
Not saying you shouldn't feel down or that your feelings are invalid, if I'm wrong please correct me, but I think you are feeling disappointed that you knew something wasn't right and ignored it.
A lot of times people ignore the flags and instincts that make us. It takes time to develop those senses but they will help in the long run.
That's why I believe that no break up is a surprise. Your first love, I will totally agree but after that initial heartbreak and if you take the time to reflect(both men and women) you will see the signs that you willingly ignored.
Also I don't think anybody in this thread is advocating staying with someone that is emotionally abusive or cheating because those are symptoms of extreme pain in someone's life. What I will say is not everybody is out here to get you. There are still some genuine people on this rotting planet but if you don't know you or love you, you will never see them.
One has to heal and observe and enjoy this year thing called life.
Relationships are not for everybody but companionship is.
No matter if it's just friends, fwb, whatever, you need some sort of love, even if it's just for life.
Break ups are easy, living after is hard.
Don't let hardships jade your eyes, we are all still too young to just give up.

Everything you said was absolutely true. No arguments here. I'm actually going to save this. Thank you.

 

[live it to the limit]

This. Usually when I break up I was done way before the break up. When I break up with a dude I could literally never see him again and be perfectly okay with that.

This x100

 

[live it to the limit]

I depends. It took me over a year to get over my ex after he broke up with me.
He moved on rather quickly though

 

[Rawtid]

It's not easier when you're the one who got dumped, especially if it came out of nowhere. Happened to me recently, and I'm still kinda down about it. Yea it's other dudes that are tryna holla or whatever, but I really liked him and he didn't even wanna work things out

fukk him.

 

[GoFlipAPack]

Women are premeditated and calculated. They line up their options and move on from one man to another in a smooth transition.. That nikka been scouted and vetted for months. If he ain't the one he might hit it from time to time but if he's your replacement she won't even blink. No tears shed. Y'all gon learn tho..

Came in here to pretty much say this.

 

[Sniper]

If the woman ended it, it's usually easy to move on for them because they were mentally done months before the decision was officially made to end the relationship.

If the man ended it, then they mostly likely are trying to occupy their time to get over it.

 

[shutterguy]

One of the realest relationship based threads in TLR in awhile. I'm pretty sure everyone who has been in a relationship can relate to what's being dropped in this thread. I have definitely been down that path where I knew something wasn't right but I let it go on, finally everything came to a screeching halt and it was over. Nothing left to do but pick yourself up, focus on you and move on.

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

fukk him.

Thanks gyal

 

[Lo-Co]

One of the realest relationship based threads in TLR in awhile. I'm pretty sure everyone who has been in a relationship can relate to what's being dropped in this thread. I have definitely been down that path where I knew something wasn't right but I let it go on, finally everything came to a screeching halt and it was over. Nothing left to do but pick yourself up, focus on you and move on.

Honestly I've had suspicion in my last relationship on some Ron isley shyt. But I just ignored it. Im 3 relationships in and I still feel inexperienced. Moved on a long time ago. Haven't dated in years.

 

[FreddyCalhoun]

Women are premeditated and calculated. They line up their options and move on from one man to another in a smooth transition.. That nikka been scouted and vetted for months. If he ain't the one he might hit it from time to time but if he's your replacement she won't even blink. No tears shed. Y'all gon learn tho..

Most woman also have a the ability to justify any action in their own heads...Esp when they have a friend to co-sign the bad decision

 

[Rawtid]

This the type shyt men be on and get mad when you've checked out in the 3rd year lmao say shyt like "you gave up too fast". Waste your mother's time. She has to love you, I don't.

 

[FreddyCalhoun]

damn bruh, nikkas can't catch feelings in 2016? that's not whats hot in the streets?

yall nikkas sounding like some sociopaths forreal

The amount of sociopaths that exist in this generation has probably tripled...

 

[̲̅$̲̅(̲̅ιοο̲̅)̲̅$̲̅]

Not easier, just different.

Years after breakup.

 

[̲̅$̲̅(̲̅ιοο̲̅)̲̅$̲̅]

I think a lot of women are conditioned in society to believe they are less than when they are alone. So they hang on after it's dead. I will cut out so fast the minute I've stopped loving you. But that's because I love myself and I'm okay being with myself for a bit.

This is women in a nutshell. Hoes act like the love is forever while y'all are together but their feelings are fickle as a mf.

MOB