Why Is It So Easy For Women To Move On?

[Rawtid]

I'm trying to figure out how you got that from what he said?!

Your broad generilzations of men AND women make it hard to have a decent discourse.

All men are not habitual womanizers and not all women try to communicate before moving on.

Like the breh said, trying too say something can be different from straight saying something.

IMO

You made a broad generalization about women with "daddy issues" but you're mad I did the same? Ok. Thank you. Point proven.

 

[Cynic]

If you are screwing around with other women, why should someone try to work it out or be loyal to you? That's not a two parent thing that's just common sense. Small issues and arguments sure, but lies and cheating is some other shyt b

Keyword "if"

Now stop taking what I said out of context.

 

[Numpsay]

We don't move on easily, we just move on before you knew it was coming. You were fukking up somewhere along the way and didn't realize.

I didn't read all 4 pages so maybe this was answered but...

Where is the communication in this case?

 

[Crucial]

You made a broad generalization about women with "daddy issues" but you're mad I did the same? Ok. Thank you. Point proven.

First of all, I didn't say shyt.

But now I can see why you have problems communicating with men.

 

[intruder]

...while my heart is still ripped in half

anyone else notice its usually much easier for women to move on from relationships and become serial daters?

these bytches are cold mang

they say they love you until the next swinging dikk comes along

I always say best way to move on is have another chick lined up to replace the departed one.

If you're used to good p*ssy and cuddling every night it's hard to go without once you break up. So therefore do what you gotta do to keep the sidepieces happy while you're with your main because once the main is gone you'll need them to hold you down while you find another main.

Sure it takes money and energy to do all this but what can you do?

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

It's not easier when you're the one who got dumped, especially if it came out of nowhere. Happened to me recently, and I'm still kinda down about it. Yea it's other dudes that are tryna holla or whatever, but I really liked him and he didn't even wanna work things out

 

[iBrowse]

Not necessarily.

Agreed to disagree.

 

[GoGetMyDamnBelt_]

We don't move on easily, we just move on before you knew it was coming. You were fukking up somewhere along the way and didn't realize.

Exactly.

 

[360dagod]

When a female thinks you cant get other p*ssy, thats when she feels she's not losing anything by leaving you...

 

[Groot]

How do women do this? I don't believe this at all. Most dudes will chase and blow up an ex's phone if she breaks up with him. He's still giving you attention even if it isn't as much as you had when y'all were together. If he fell back and completely cut off all contact, y'all would wonder why he isn't simping, go crazy and ultimately get back together with him.

It's much easier for you to move on if you were already preparing yourself for it mentally months in advance, and when you actually do go through with the breakup said person is constantly trying to communicate with you. The desperation and clinginess turns you off making it easier.

For some reason a lot of women like it when a man doesn't give af. And you know that's the truth.

:ahhhh:

I am Groot!

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

It's not easier when you're the one who got dumped, especially if it came out of nowhere. Happened to me recently, and I'm still kinda down about it. Yea it's other dudes that are tryna holla or whatever, but I really liked him and he didn't even wanna work things out

But most of the times people know.
I think everybody knows but ignore those feelings that are laying in their guts. We all have to be more in tune with our bodies and feelings.
Not saying you shouldn't feel down or that your feelings are invalid, if I'm wrong please correct me, but I think you are feeling disappointed that you knew something wasn't right and ignored it.
A lot of times people ignore the flags and instincts that make us. It takes time to develop those senses but they will help in the long run.
That's why I believe that no break up is a surprise. Your first love, I will totally agree but after that initial heartbreak and if you take the time to reflect(both men and women) you will see the signs that you willingly ignored.
Also I don't think anybody in this thread is advocating staying with someone that is emotionally abusive or cheating because those are symptoms of extreme pain in someone's life. What I will say is not everybody is out here to get you. There are still some genuine people on this rotting planet but if you don't know you or love you, you will never see them.
One has to heal and observe and enjoy this year thing called life.
Relationships are not for everybody but companionship is.
No matter if it's just friends, fwb, whatever, you need some sort of love, even if it's just for life.
Break ups are easy, living after is hard.
Don't let hardships jade your eyes, we are all still too young to just give up.

 

[BlueHeffner]

To me its simple: women have more options

Women are usually afraid of being alone, so they aint leaving without a backup plan

Every girl no matter how they look, have thirsty dudes either at their job, on their social media, or whatever there usual hang out spot it is.

Guys would be the exact way if we have or could have mad bishes on deck

 

[BronxFleeZ]

she pretty and her body bangin but a demon in it - lloyd banks

the most important quote in these times

 

[mr. smoke weed]

...while my heart is still ripped in half

anyone else notice its usually much easier for women to move on from relationships and become serial daters?

these bytches are cold mang

they say they love you until the next swinging dikk comes along

That's life breh. You live and you learn.

 

[NoChillJones]

Women play mind games, I think that shyt is embedded into their DNA. That play hard to get shyt. They have to show you that they are not emotionally attached to shyt, its their defense mechanism. In reality though they are much more emotional then we are, so on the outside they are playing that "Im not upset" bullshyt, but inside they are crying and dying to let you know how venerable they are, but if they do then you have the emotional upper hand and they aint about to let that shyt happen. Just got to sulk it up. Let their feelings play out and play nice if you want her back. If she playing games though, play them shyts back. Jealousy will always come to the top and show through their emotional games.