Why Is It So Easy For Women To Move On?

[StarGirl]

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[̲̅$̲̅(̲̅ιοο̲̅)̲̅$̲̅]

That's not what the people in the thread are saying. They're saying they've left you in their mind a long time ago.

That's because these nikkas don't know women.

Women move on easily after a breakup because real love was never there to begin with. Like you said, "I will cut out so fast the minute I've stopped loving you." That's not true love. True love is when even if you lose feelings for a person, you still want to see the best for them. You help them understand and cope with the relationship being over. Hoes with fake love want to one up their man and see him disheveled, and then take some type of sick pride with it.

Most hoes today weren't raised by true women to grow into women, that's why y'all can never look back at your relationships and see true substance.

Get it together.

 

[StarGirl]

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[̲̅$̲̅(̲̅ιοο̲̅)̲̅$̲̅]

No, you get it together.

You can't define love. And I didn't mean love- it was just the easiest word to pick, how about the minute I stop having feelings for you.

You really can't make this shyt up.

 

[StarGirl]

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[awkwardblackgirl]

I still think that in most relationships men shouldn't share everything. That conditioning exists for a reason. Not gonna doubt that there are relationships with full transparency though...still few and far in between.

Why not???

 

[JLova]

A woman can find a man very easily. But many men can't find a woman worth a shyt. Most men are useless.

 

[iBrowse]

Why not???

I explained it in my response to Elle

 

[BmoreGorilla]

When I found out my wife was cheating she said she had checked out and all that shyt. But my thing is if she had checked out why cheat instead of moving on first? She had some complaints about stuff but I didn't notice any changes in her until she got involved with the other dude. We both say we've moved on but whats crazy is there still involved and she's the one acting all bitter like I was the one who cheated on her

 

[360dagod]

When I found out my wife was cheating she said she had checked out and all that shyt. But my thing is if she had checked out why cheat instead of moving on first? She had some complaints about stuff but I didn't notice any changes in her until she got involved with the other dude. We both say we've moved on but whats crazy is there still involved and she's the one acting all bitter like I was the one who cheated on her

women are masters of justifying and rationalization...

I dont think she's happy...women do shyt without logic involved...

Just keeep it pushing

 

[BmoreGorilla]

women are masters of justifying and rationalization...

I dont think she's happy...women do shyt without logic involved...

Just keeep it pushing

Its apparent shes thrown all reason out the window. Im convinced its only a matter of time before she attempts to come back even tho shes not welcome. Until that time she'll try to keep her situation going so she doesn't look like a fool

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

There are a lot of reasons for this. Women tend to deal with emotions better. There was a study that showed young girls get over parents divorcing quicker than young boys.

So when it comes to relationships we project our own understandings of emotional situations onto men. We have it in our heads that a grown ass man should know how to act, so when he does something hurtful we believe it's intentional and thus this starts the process of preparing for the end. Notice all of this is internal dialogue. But really this assumption hurts relationships because resentment builds in women instead of communicating. Although men don't help either by being dismissive of a woman's emotions or abrasive or defensive when she does try to communicate.

Moreover, Women have been told by men countless times that we have an expiration date, that men want as much p*ssy as possible...and so on. So women who are ultimately practical creatures oftentimes go into relationships with eyes open to the possibility of it ending. The love they had for the guy is no less real, just because someone is able to bounce back soon afterwards, it's just that there is bigger cultural pressure for women to do so sooner given common negative cultural tropes such as "old cat lady" and so on.

 

[Pineal Gland]

Women check out and have the next dude lined up before the relationship is over.


Speaking from experience

 

[JQ Legend]

Good thread

Women have a harder time moving on when u cut them off abruptly

If u allow problems to linger she'll have time to check out before y'all are officially over

Cut her off soon as problems arise and it would be a lot harder for her to just pick up and keep it moving

 

[Elle Driver]

Agreed to disagree.

I think it's detrimental not to share. You can't guard yourself like that.