Men are paranoid about women and vice verse. I used to hate men and was very distrustful of them until an epiphany several years ago. Once I let the hate go, I was able to have meaningful relationships because my view of men stemmed from things I witnessed during childhood. It gets easier as time goes on but that's not to say I don't have moments here and there with negative thoughts trying to creep back in. I now know that not all men are bad. Being practical and asking questions can save yourself and the person involed a lot of trouble/heartbreak.
Why Is It So Easy For Women To Move On?
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BedRoomI'z
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Once you set boundaries you should be good. Know what you are not gonna tolerate
from a person up front and everything should fall into place whether it leads to a
relationship or not. You teach a person how you would like to be treated at the beginning.
Women: if you doing Netflix and Chill first couple of weeks, that's basically your
whole situationship with this dude. From beginning to end. Don't let him sell you no dreams of it
getting greater later. Tell that muthafukka to kill himself
Men: You worship a thot because she looks good, has a body and you can fukk her
on top of the ceiling, then don't be surprised if you catch her fukking somebody else
on top of the ceiling in your shyt(crib).
KNOW the game before you decide to take your green ass on the field and play.
from a person up front and everything should fall into place whether it leads to a
relationship or not. You teach a person how you would like to be treated at the beginning.
Women: if you doing Netflix and Chill first couple of weeks, that's basically your
whole situationship with this dude. From beginning to end. Don't let him sell you no dreams of it
getting greater later. Tell that muthafukka to kill himself
Men: You worship a thot because she looks good, has a body and you can fukk her
on top of the ceiling, then don't be surprised if you catch her fukking somebody else
on top of the ceiling in your shyt(crib).
KNOW the game before you decide to take your green ass on the field and play.
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SheWantTheD
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How can they heal when they are still with the guy? I'm pretty sure you gotta separate yourself from said person first.They start the healing process while they're still "with" you and by the time they initate the break up their over you and prolly already got some new dik to run to. I remember @Reinscarf dropping this gem years ago and im now realising how true it is
BedRoomI'z
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I know what he's saying because I have been there myself
It's called "one foot in, one foot out"
Virtuous_Brotha
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I see what you mean but I think this mainly applies to premeditated break ups where the dude just doesn't make the chick "tingle" anymore so she decides to break it off, the cold and unexpected break ups . Obviously in cases where shes been mistreated or had her heartbroken i.e cheating,betrayal e.t.c then it makes everything much harder on both sides.
That's the thing, some of us are just green. I don't want to learn the game. Why can't I just find someone that takes relationships seriously? Time is something I can't get back.Once you set boundaries you should be good. Know what you are not gonna tolerate
from a person up front and everything should fall into place whether it leads to a
relationship or not. You teach a person how you would like to be treated at the beginning.
Women: if you doing Netflix and Chill first couple of weeks, that's basically your
whole situationship with this dude. From beginning to end. Don't let him sell you no dreams of it
getting greater later. Tell that muthafukka to kill himself
Men: You worship a thot because she looks good, has a body and you can fukk her
on top of the ceiling, then don't be surprised if you catch her fukking somebody else
on top of the ceiling in your shyt(crib).
KNOW the game before you decide to take your green ass on the field and play.
Yes!! You get to a point where you don't say shyt. You mentally check out. Ugh.
Elle Driver
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Men are absent minded, they are lost, they don't pay attention to shyt even when you told them fiftyleven times that they're fukkin up. Then they act "surprised", but deep down they knew damn well, they reaction is just delayed.
BedRoomI'z
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That's true for everybody, ma
All I can say is what works for me.
By constantly improving and loving yourself, you
will find that by the time you do get into a relationship, it won't
be your everything. Your reason for breathing! Nah
Like frosting on a cake, it's there to add to most of the
important shyt that's already there.
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This is usually the case with inexperienced or younger men.
Once a dude gets to a certain age and has been through enough bullshyt with life in generally, he becomes more in tune with himself(hopefully). I know in my 20's I wasn't shyt. I hurt girls and vice versa but it clicked after my last serious relationship.
Once again I feel women have to take the reigns sometimes in a relationship and explicitly sit a mofo down and tell them what's going on.
Most men are aloof as fukk because we naturally don't share our feelings.
It's just an overall communication breakdown universally that needs to be fixed..
Crayola Coyote
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Wrong. Your momma lied to you that women are angelic creatures like unicorns that do no harm anyone. She lied and so did mine. When I have a son I'm gonna drop game on him at the age of 5, so he will treat women like nikkas. Gonna have me a sociopath just like me. Squad up.
Crayola Coyote
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Man just say all women. Eve didn't fuk up the 1st chapter in the bible for nothing.
Crayola Coyote
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70% of divorces are initiated by women - Reinscarf
They're built to seek that greener grass, breh
Reason why I don't see marriage as exciting. Imagine coming home at age 43 and catching your wife getting her back blown out by the pool boy..
Crayola Coyote
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Women that think like this are stupid if there is a problem tell the dude. Don't have homie mind reading.
