Why Is It So Hard For Men To Leave There Women When They Dont Want Them No More

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I don't understand when the relationship is over its over move on and be happy with someone else

For me (never married) it’s been projecting the fact that they can change. I’ve had to break up with girls over stupid shyt that I learned to just screen for up front now to save heartache.

I won’t be:
*trying to get you into physical fitness/going to the gym
*trying to get you to dress like you did when we 1st met
*trying to get you to not dwell on shyt from work after work

These are small things that have been the death of multiple relationships. Sometimes women refuse to change until you walk.
 

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Do you mean that in a regular human way

Or in the weirdo obsessed stalker way?
 

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The amount of times I have become jealous of myself, the way I was treated at the start to the way I gradually became treated eroded . .

I know it's natural for passion to fade a bit as it you get more used to / familiar with one another . . .

But Ive been with my girl for 3 years now and for about a year she drained me . .
Other day I had to give myself a hand shandy while she had a bath and watched some shyt on her tablet

When do you decide to just stick or twist?
 

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The amount of times I have become jealous of myself, the way I was treated at the start to the way I gradually became treated eroded . .

I know it's natural for passion to fade a bit as it you get more used to / familiar with one another . . .

But Ive been with my girl for 3 years now and for about a year she drained me . .
Other day I had to give myself a hand shandy while she had a bath and watched some shyt on her tablet

When do you decide to just stick or twist?
Some folks will say you should never not be happy in a relationship, bounce as soon as you feel the heat.
 

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Some folks will say you should never not be happy in a relationship, bounce as soon as you feel the heat.

It's hard to explain it to your girl without sounding like you are putting on pressure . . . Which is not sexy to me . .

Just as time goes on in a relationship it generally turns from get it out, to put it away. . . . . . .

Then from how do you want it? How does it feel? . . . To how do you want your eggs? Bread toasted or non toasted?

:shaq2:
 

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Only reasonable factor are children to me. Money, who cares, you can make more of that.
 

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Ha, I used to think that, too. Life requires finesse so you don't end up in a murder-suicide situation.

I played 3D chess with my last chick in order to break up. Even now, I am still not sure she has broken up with me in her mind:sadcam:

Y'all need to be careful with these chicks:ufdup:
 

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Because men love in a truer sense than women do.

When a man picks a woman as his main he’s generally saying you’re doing things and meeting all the qualifications I want from a partner that I haven’t found in tooo many other women. Women love in a more selfish way. They pick men based on who was there at the right time and who placed her on that pedestal. It’s all about her.

So yes I agree men invest more than women in most every way but especially emotionally. Most women will always have more options than most men so men are generally more disposable to them.
 
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