Why is it so hard for women to just chill and not feel the need to "do something"??

[Mr Hate Coffee]

As a married man, I can assure you that the vast majority of women are like this and they never change. Just gotta deal with it and compromise

Ayyyyyo I’m

My nikka flexing that newfound status... “as a married man...”

 

[Bless't]

There are women who see doing stuff out the house as a stimulating, possibly even intellectual / memorable experience for BOTH of you - aka actually being considerate. Ones whose self worth and 'hobbies' aren't entirely validated on being seen.

...and then, there are women who expect you to entertain their whims the way you would when you had to watch your nephews/nieces back in the day and they just wanted to eat cereal and watch cartoons... and NOTHING else. This seems more common.

For me, even if it means sacrificing some p*ssy, I am not in the business of entertaining women like a court jester with how valuable time is. If I worked 60 hours last week, it is an insult to myself to not utilize self care and relax as opposed to further expending myself. Any rational human being should understand this.

I'm not gonna bother my chick with impulsive BS to acquiese me if she's been through a stressful week. Why? Cuz it's selfish af. But on many occasions, we don't get that benefit of the doubt. The key: choose wisely on who you date. Don't be afraid to cut it off even when you get the slightest whiff of that bullshyt (inconsiderateness).

The bold are both big facts.

If you choose wisely in whom you actually take seriously and "date", then the frequency in which her "restlessness" begins to bubble wont be as often. Simply because you vetted her out and noticed that she has hobbies/interests and can be cool doing her for a while.

Life's natural tedium and listlessness WILL still rear up though. But you should be able to compromise and go out to be social from time to time.

 

[perfectblack999]

Ayyyyyo I’m

My nikka flexing that newfound status... “as a married man...”

Washed Life

 

[Panther]

if they were spending their money they'd want to stay in

 

[filial_piety]

Yeah every woman I’ve dated has been like this.

Women are natural attention whores...they always want to go out, whether it’s “out for dinner” “out to the club/bar/lounge” “out to the movies” etc. Stayihg in for dinner, staying in for a drink or staying in for a movie is boring. They could care less about the dinner, the drink or the movie because it’s all about being “seen.”

I think they’re like this because women are conditioned to value themselves based on their social currency or how valuable of a commodity that they are relative to other women. And they’re constantly judging how valuable they are to the men that are around them. It’s all about testing, evaluating and elevating their social status. Going out, is just the method to do it.

And the best part about it? You get to pay for it. Gets who has the bill slid to them after one of these outings...

 

[Art Barr]

She don't like you bruh.

This.

I ain't took a female out since 2005, breh.
Find a female who wants to really mate with you
. Not use you is all i can say.



The woman who want you don't wanna go nowhere.
They just want you to put it down.

This shyt about mating dog.

Sound like the threadstarter is dating roster builders.

Art Barr

 

[Jalether]

Me and my brehs figured it out years ago
The entire U.S. economy thrives because of women. Men don't want or need half of the crap out there

And even most of the crap men buy is to impress women. Chris rock said it best "if men could fukk a bad bytch in a cardboard box, they wouldn't need a fly crib"

 

[AJD]

Some women are just never content and need constant drama in some form. Logically you want things to be always peaceful with the person you have feelings for but then you realize some would rather there be meaningless fights from time to time just to spark tension. Their twisted definition of "entertainment".

 

[Wild self]

Some women are just never content and need constant drama in some form. Logically you want things to be always peaceful with the person you have feelings for but then you realize some would rather there be meaningless fights from time to time just to spark tension. Their twisted definition of "entertainment".

Thats why men are waking up and not engaging marriage or long term relationships anymore. Too much headache.

 

[OfTheCross]

Like i can legit go an entire weekend just chilling, lounging etc completely comfortable...but literally every girlfriend/relationship i ever had always wants to nag and complain and "find things to do"..constantly asking "what are we gonna do tonight, tommorrow, five years from now etc etc? "

like women cant just take a moment in life to just be...the constantly have to find something to do. Im legit curious about that.

There was also a viral pic a few weeks ago where women where upset that guys apartment can just be bare bones/the essentials and someone mentioned that women are so upset because they realize men can just exist and be at peace with themselves without feeling the need to preoccupy their time/space.


yall notice that too or is it just a biased anecdotal evidence on my part?

fax

 

[shutterguy]

if they were spending their money they'd want to stay in

So much truth in this.

 

[johntheblackjew]

Link to the thread of that pic?

so i cant find the response that i mentioned but the original thread is this one

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

And even most of the crap men buy is to impress women. Chris rock said it best "if men could fukk a bad bytch in a cardboard box, they wouldn't need a fly crib"

That was Dave Chappelle sir

 

[Jalether]

That was Dave Chappelle sir

Nah I'm pretty sure it's Chris rock

 

[Silkk]

This shyt is so annoying

I be wanting to work on setting up ideas to bring in money, she be wanting to dress up, go out, and spend money