Why is it so hard for women to just chill and not feel the need to "do something"??

[Rich Spirit]

Women love brunch and Sunday Funday

 

[Lord Bison]

Me and my brehs figured it out years ago
The entire U.S. economy thrives because of women. Men don't want or need half of the crap out there

That's why I don't shyt on cacs who talk about going MGTOW. You wont find a single one on here disagreeing with most of whats been said here. Whether the coli simps on here want to admit it or not, all roads lead to men going their own way.

The more men that go MGTOW, the more financial hurt a lot of these businesses will take. Jewelry stores, wedding planners and even luxury cars will take a huge hit because men are starting ask themselves "Why the fck am I working so hard to impress this basic bytch?"

I can have the time of my life staying indoors, enjoying my hobbies, exercising, building my business and stacking my bread whilst not having to deal with the pressure of entertaining a woman who likely wont even be around 6 months to a year from now.

I dont need the most expensive things in life to be happy. I dont need a big ass rock on my hand to show I'm committed to one person. I don't need to have this WWE Wrestlemania spectacle of walking down an aisle in a white dress so I can feel validated and make others jealous.

 

[xCivicx]

A lot of human beings seem to unable to just sit and exist in their own head and be alone with their own thoughts

It's a really powerful meditation technique that most people lack the fortitude to learn

But yeah it does seem to be disproportionately prevalent in females

 

[Drip Bayless]

I swear some of yall be extra corny the way you go out of your way try to clown broads on here

Writing is not a real hobby but I bet making beats is right?

Whole ass communities,, TV networks and shyt dedicated to food and cooking.

Its 2019 just relax and talk with folk without all that extra rah rah shyt you would never dare say in front of someone face

No simp at least she has hobbies
Most young women are at home watching Netflix if they’re not at the club

 

[Another Man]

A lot of women are like children. They constantly have to be entertained.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Where do women usually ask y'all to go? I imagine it's something you not interested in where staying inside is better. If some brehs asked me to come play paintball, ride atvs, or play football then I'm up.

 

[johntheblackjew]

interesting responses, i must say. GUess its not just me that encounters this. I was thinking its the women im dating but after so many and the pattern is still the same.

Btw..im not just talking about alwyas going out...but even doing things in the house..there always has to be a plan that revolves around keeping her attention....it cant just be chilling. Like, one of my hobbies is making music....we could both be in the house and im in my own corner doing my thing and she'll always find ways to complain about how long ive been doing it and we should be doing something together or i should find a more productive thing to do(ie, you're supposed to be doing something that entertains me or i think is "productive" somehow). We could literally be hanging out all day and still she cant just chill in her own world and not feel like this few minutes i could be not be entertaining her somehow.

But like a lot of you guys seem to mention, it comes down to the fact that a lot f women are often not socialized to have hobbies, things to keep them occupied and just be in their own world. There constantly has to be activities or things to do.

Most days i truly feel like a trained monkey, my entire job is to make sure the women im dating are always entertained and laughing and engaged somehow. Honestly, it can get exhausting.

 

[daboywonder2002]

I go through that all the time. WHAT'S NEXT. WHAT'S NEXT. I feel like she always has to be entertained. It's been worse since we moved away from family and friends. Constantly going to the mall. Just shopping for no reason. Nothing expensive at all, even clearance items. but it's to the point now where you don't need clothes. You just shopping just to shop.

 

[You Win Perfect]

my lady used to wanna do shyt every weekend. "its nice out i don't wanna be cooped up inside all day."

well shyt the cowboys game comin on. i mean what do you want from me.

that's usually how it starts and then they end up just falling in line and shuttin the hell up cuz they know the routine. majority of women don't have hobbies or any type of real ambition so look for the man to provide entertainment.
I be like well i'm going to the gym, you should come. nope. ok then get the fukk outta my face.

My current girl fortunately has her degree and shyt to keep her occupied for the most part and she actually does like to go for runs and what not around the track.

 

[HoldThisL]

I was skimming through this thread at Lunch and been thinking about it all day. Starting a relationship in this time sounds stressful especially since I'm a homebody and it makes me want to stay single forever

I would not like going out every weekend at all, maybe every once in a while.

I work long hours and like coming home to chill or sleep, not do any other shyt. If I do go out it is when I am on vacation and I am traveling to a different state or sum shyt. But sometimes I like to use my vacation to catch up on sleep .

 

[LiveFromLondon]

Because they are horny but you aren't their true type as they settled,so they rather go dikk hunting for a nikka that's they type.
How do I know? Sometimes I am exactly that sexy nikka to bag that they wanted up their alley.
Other times, I been the nikka they settled, heheheh you'd be surprised how much sexual tensions are hidden by women not piss men off.
Me on the other hand because I'm Afrocentric they are usually open about it and up for it. Dont take my word alone though.
Yes it does actually take being around women to "get it."
Because I tell you, after a woman enjoys good fukking they not going to want to no where but lay on your chest and admire you. Atleast that's how I see it.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

women love chaos

 

[The Fade]

interesting responses, i must say. GUess its not just me that encounters this. I was thinking its the women im dating but after so many and the pattern is still the same.

Btw..im not just talking about alwyas going out...but even doing things in the house..there always has to be a plan that revolves around keeping her attention....it cant just be chilling. Like, one of my hobbies is making music....we could both be in the house and im in my own corner doing my thing and she'll always find ways to complain about how long ive been doing it and we should be doing something together or i should find a more productive thing to do(ie, you're supposed to be doing something that entertains me or i think is "productive" somehow). We could literally be hanging out all day and still she cant just chill in her own world and not feel like this few minutes i could be not be entertaining her somehow.

But like a lot of you guys seem to mention, it comes down to the fact that a lot f women are often not socialized to have hobbies, things to keep them occupied and just be in their own world. There constantly has to be activities or things to do.

Most days i truly feel like a trained monkey, my entire job is to make sure the women im dating are always entertained and laughing and engaged somehow. Honestly, it can get exhausting.

Damn. Those chicks that try to stop you from your hobby..

If a bytch told me to practice music less on an “off day” where I can at least have an hour to myself I’m ditching her. Especially if it’s to do something that involves my money that I DONT want to do.

 

[BoogeyMan]

Like i can legit go an entire weekend just chilling, lounging etc completely comfortable...but literally every girlfriend/relationship i ever had always wants to nag and complain and "find things to do"..constantly asking "what are we gonna do tonight, tommorrow, five years from now etc etc? "

like women cant just take a moment in life to just be...the constantly have to find something to do. Im legit curious about that.

There was also a viral pic a few weeks ago where women where upset that guys apartment can just be bare bones/the essentials and someone mentioned that women are so upset because they realize men can just exist and be at peace with themselves without feeling the need to preoccupy their time/space.


yall notice that too or is it just a biased anecdotal evidence on my part?

Link to the thread of that pic?

 

[desjardins]

This is a clear sign a chick might be with you only because you in the mix
I talked to a chick who told me NONE of her ex's ever took her any where nice or did nice shyt with her
And she wanted to marry one of them. So I come in the picture on my 6 figure 6 international trips per annum tip and she wanted to go somewhere every weekend
First couple weekends i was down cause the p*ssy was new. after a while i started feeling like a simp thinking how I was doing way more than the previous nikkas while getting the same benefits (actually less cause i wasn't single so only could see her so often)