Why is it so hard for women to just chill and not feel the need to "do something"??

Deafheaven

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No one said they’re special :what:

Unless you’re into shyt like cliff jumping and deep sea diving, most hobbies are common, especially for people with a traditional 9-5. A hobby is simply how you fill your free time, it’s not meant to “wow” people.

No shade thats the point. Most women have ordinary, boring ass hobbies and interests. So its no surprise they have a fervent desire to get out and do shyt incessantly.

:hubie:
 

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My nikka, I am not flabby at all.

My point is, if you’re working a real high-stakes job, the weekend gives you time to recharge. Most truly successful people make time to recharge. If you are truly grinding as an employee or business owner, if you do not make time to recharge, you will eventually burn out.

I’m not saying you have to be in the house every weekend.

But, the Thursday-Sunday on-the-go lifestyle this new-age FOMO culture is promoting is not conducive to being successful in one of those high-stakes, high-paying careers in finance, technology, etc.

Most women aren’t in those careers, so they would never understand how mentally taxing those careers are despite the big paychecks.

And most Coli nikkas aren’t sniffing $100k/year in their lifetimes, so they’d never understand the work that goes into making that type of money.

Once you cross that $100k threshold, the shyt doesn’t get easier! The expectations rise. I’ve been a six-figga nikka since my 20s. So, I think I know what I’m talking about.

As a Black man, to maintain that type of salary, you’ve got to be on your A-game.

If a woman can’t understand that, she’s not the right woman for you. Because, if you wear yourself out trying to entertain her and it ends up impacting your work, your ass may be out of a job and she’ll be on to the next nikka.

You’d think that such a woman would understand the the better you a prepared to hit the office on Monday, the better off she’ll be as well in the long run due to your increased earning power, moving up the ladder, etc. But, they’d rather nag about getting out!

Get your rest, brehs. Look out for yourself and your pockets because women are always going to look out for themselves.
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A woman being on social media is already a deal breaker. I can make exceptions for Facebook but if you’re on Snapchat, you’re already relegated to jump off status.

I went out to dinner with one woman (bare in mind she was in her early 30s) who pulled out her phone and began snapchatting the dinner table. I nearly smacked the phone out of her hands. :gucci:

How the fukk are you going to come to dinner acting like some fukking teenager? Grow the hell up. Anyone over 30 using snapchat is an embarrassment.
 

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My nikka, I am not flabby at all.

My point is, if you’re working a real high-stakes job, the weekend gives you time to recharge. Most truly successful people make time to recharge. If you are truly grinding as an employee or business owner, if you do not make time to recharge, you will eventually burn out.

I’m not saying you have to be in the house every weekend.

But, the Thursday-Sunday on-the-go lifestyle this new-age FOMO culture is promoting is not conducive to being successful in one of those high-stakes, high-paying careers in finance, technology, etc.

Most women aren’t in those careers, so they would never understand how mentally taxing those careers are despite the big paychecks.

And most Coli nikkas aren’t sniffing $100k/year in their lifetimes, so they’d never understand the work that goes into making that type of money.

Once you cross that $100k threshold, the shyt doesn’t get easier! The expectations rise. I’ve been a six-figga nikka since my 20s. So, I think I know what I’m talking about.

As a Black man, to maintain that type of salary, you’ve got to be on your A-game.

If a woman can’t understand that, she’s not the right woman for you. Because, if you wear yourself out trying to entertain her and it ends up impacting your work, your ass may be out of a job and she’ll be on to the next nikka.

You’d think that such a woman would understand the the better you a prepared to hit the office on Monday, the better off she’ll be as well in the long run due to your increased earning power, moving up the ladder, etc. But, they’d rather nag about getting out!

Get your rest, brehs. Look out for yourself and your pockets because women are always going to look out for themselves.

At one point, labor unions vouched for a 4 day work week FOR ALL PROFESSIONS

Your work should get easier as you get older, not harder.
 

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A woman being on social media is already a deal breaker. I can make exceptions for Facebook but if you’re on Snapchat, you’re already relegated to jump off status.

I went out to dinner with one woman (bare in mind she was in her early 30s) who pulled out her phone and began snapchatting the dinner table. I nearly smacked the phone out of her hands. :gucci:

How the fukk are you going to come to dinner acting like some fukking teenager? Grow the hell up. Anyone over 30 using snapchat is an embarrassment.

YeaI, I agree. Women who use snapchat or constantly goes on IG Live are thots in training. Wanting stalker dudes knowing how her ass look like or know how she loves sucking dikk, is basically signing up for cukhold lifestyle :scust:
 

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No shade thats the point. Most women have ordinary, boring ass hobbies and interests. So its no surprise they have a fervent desire to get out and do shyt incessantly.

:hubie:
the two have nothing to do with one another, people don't take up hobbies that bore them :what:

that's literally not the point of a hobby...

hob·by1
/ˈhäbē/
noun1.
  1. an activity done regularly in one's leisure time for pleasure.
    "her hobbies are reading and gardening"
    synonyms: pastime, leisure activity, leisure pursuit; More

people who want to get out all the time simply want to get out all the time, or they're likely to not have hobbies or they're trying to fill an interpersonal gap in their lives
 

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A woman being on social media is already a deal breaker. I can make exceptions for Facebook but if you’re on Snapchat, you’re already relegated to jump off status.

I went out to dinner with one woman (bare in mind she was in her early 30s) who pulled out her phone and began snapchatting the dinner table. I nearly smacked the phone out of her hands. :gucci:

How the fukk are you going to come to dinner acting like some fukking teenager? Grow the hell up. Anyone over 30 using snapchat is an embarrassment.

Same, breh.

Any woman I encounter over 30 that is Snapchatting or heavy into IG gets bushes status from me.

It’s not worth the headache.
 
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